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With what authority do we accept Real Human Value as the domain of a clearly bored westchester county rich housewife sitting at the top of the pyramid scheme that is “being marriageable”. Congrats, you won at being valuable based on a metric that commodifies people in the exact way our religion tells us to actively minimize. Amazing you’re using your good fortune to reinforce the hierarchy that you won by sheer divine magnanimity! This is why blessings are also considered tests of character, by the way.

The only matchmaking related service that I would deem actually innovative and dire is one that could teach people how to see people as God sees them.

Credential matching is not a suitable heuristic for real, lived-in attraction, and it’s so unrelated to True Love that it’s laughable.