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Hard balance to strike is when you’re forgiving yourself, with the power of hindsight, for not achieving in the way that you see your peers do because you realize their starting line and yours were miles apart—yet, when does this cross over into excusing yourself from participating in your life? giving yourself permission to roll over and die, because you made it as far as you could go and your progeny can take it from here? I hope I never stop learning. But achieving….well, that’s an interesting metric.

last time I took a bar exam was five years ago. Studying for one rn and……..it is not going well !

The difference between a man who is raised in a family culture that valorizes women suffering or even just expects it to happen vs a family culture that makes it a point of pride to actively alleviate women suffering is so deeply determinative to the ultimate trajectory of your life.