Kalaeb.🐢

Encouraging women to mock/harras trans people of any gender identity

Telling trans lesbians that they aren’t real lesbians and that cis lesbians who date/would date trans lesbians aren’t real lesbians either

Mocking and being terrible to those with dysphoria, which a lot of lesbians, regardless of whether cis or trans struggle with

It’s a group where you feel like you honestly can’t speak out or say what you feel for fear of ostracization and rejection? There’s a huge reward/punishment system for buying into radfem beliefs and scare tactics used to keep young radfems ‘in their place’ 

I still get hate messages from people who say I have been “brainwashed into liberalism” aka I don’t hate trans women and that in and of itself is an offense to them

Misgendering  

Shunning of those who question their gender in any way, belief that those people are traitors to womanhood

Don’t believe in nonbinary lesbians so…. there’s that

Also the radfem community is just really lesbophobic in general, even to lesbian radfems. Shit like refusing to believe in compulsory heterosexuality, dismissal of lesbian issues, insistence that lesbians speaking out against lesbophobia is a bad thing AKA shit that has been happening in het feminist communities for the dawn of time. And yes, radfems will claim to be oh so pro-lesbianism so they can claim they’re for “all women” but there’s so much hate even to the “right” lesbians aka cis

Slurs. Tip to young lesbians- run far far away from people who use any kind of slurs. You may think someone using the t slur doesn’t affect you, but if they’re willing to use dehumanizing language to any marginalized group, they will turn against you. And any group that allows the use of the t slur is, in my opinion, a hate group

Being young is hard and being a lesbian is hard. If you ever feel unsafe in any community, online or in real life, radfem or other, if you feel like you can’t say what you really feel without getting punished, it isn’t the right space for you. There will be places for you where you feel comfortable, at home, and know that your morals aren’t being compromised. You will find this place someday

the way you feel about something

not wanting to do something that makes uncomfortable

saying sorry too much

not wearing makeup/being dressed up/doing your hair

caring about something 

not being happy

crying

needing help 

asking for attention

putting yourself first sometimes