A brief overview of what a Unicorn can be in a polyamorous relationship. 

Healthiness is super hard, guys. 

Of course, being healthy isn’t about fat or skinny. I started working out because when I do, I feel more confident and agile- the artist life of sitting at a desk all day doesn’t exactly do wonders for my preexisting health problems. 

How We Met, Part 1

How We Met, part 2. The End! Kinda! Not really! We have so much more to share! But this is just the start, circa late 2012. 

Part One: http://open-and-closer.tumblr.com/post/101817316579/how-we-met-part-1-welcome-to-the-sometimes-sexy

February has taken a toll on us all. 

“But I’m just a fraction of the coldest part of the year! You only hate me because December and January crushed your spirit first! And I have Valentines day! and I’m Black History month!

How do I know I’m poly? that I’m a twitchy queer sub switch? 

It’s in the way that I light up when I meet new people. The way that I want to jump into them with both feet so much so that I bring along the most buoyant, stable life raft I can find. We leave so early because he is uncomfortable. I am comfortable because I know we might have to leave early. 

If this feels like playing games, sorry

if this feels like I’m taking advantage of your hospitality, sorry sorry.         

All I can do is bounce and stomp a bit, say that I wanted to stick around to play with the new toys. I only know what I want when I can’t have it, otherwise I might get it just by asking. A thought asked is never fully fleshed out, it is just to see what would happen. If I stop to think for a moment, I will stop to think for days.

Him in his fake army fatigues, me in my comic book leggings and leather jacket. The rebel and the square

 But if we stay any longer I’ll have to smoke more or drink more or do more to entertain you and inevitably that will mean getting naked and the parts of me that fear exposure are already carving out a cave in the hills far, far from here.