Hello everyone!! I know I took some time off, but I did it for more research, I swear!! (not really, but I happened to meet a sht ton of new people to observe)
With that being said, I have something a bit different for you this time:
How the Venus signs need to see you/ meeting you, in order for them to be attracted to you
Obviously, if there is more to attraction than to make them view your connection in a certain way, but it can play a huge part in making them not forget you!!!
Aries Venus: they need a whirlwind romance. They fall in love hard and fast when your connection surprises them, when they have seen you, thought you were kind of cute, didn't try anything but YOU suddenly make a BOLD move. They need to feel random sparks when they are around you.
Taurus Venus: unfortunately, they do really need to find you physically attractive for anything to work between you two. BUT even if they think you're good-looking, they still need that slow-burn romance. Slowly getting closer and closer, not physically, mentally. They need the feeling that you'll be there for them, that you are the one, but make it a little sensual.
Gemini venus: uhm. you gotta get to talking with them. while talking, you HAVE to be interesting, to make them curious about you. Tease them. Make them need to talk to you. Show them there is no one else who understands them better, but not in a serious way in the beginning. In a... having the same humor type of way. They like someone full of surprises, but also someone easy to talk to. Someone approachable but full of layers.
Cancer venus: now... this connection has to feel FATED. They truly don't move on fast from a past lover and they probably have this version of their ex in their head that made them go back a couple of time because they thought the ex was "the one". But you have to be "the one" more than them. You have to be their safe space, where they feel seen, comfortable and heard, BUT make yourself not always reachable. Make them realise that they feel their best with you by creating a home they can only reach when with you. Don't bring that in the relationship though. Or do, idk.
Leo venus: aaah, now. this is different from men to women a little. the women love the attention, you almost need to embarrass yourself for them while showing how devoted you are for them. Don't do that for a man though. The men need some reassurance as well, but to them it mostly comes down to how much they can show you off. Either way, they need the dramatic love, the feeling of a love that's straight out of the movies. Be spontaneous while talking, reassuring from time to time, 'cause they wouldn't want someone who's not seeing them as their one and only. Men with this placement should reach out to you first, women with this placement will expect you to reach out.
Virgo venus: You two are in a casual setting, nothing special is happening between you two. Maybe you are classmates, colleagues, or co-workers. Maybe even just friends. But whenever you two talk, it just seems like you genuinely care. You listen, you remember, and you bring it up to show that you remember, when the right opportunity comes. For men, you make and let them help you. They will probably offer to do stuff for you regardless, but you hinting towards needing that help will only make them feel more important to you. For women, you have to come of as practical and trustworthy, with a hint of a healer. For both, your hygiene has to be ON POINT.
Libra venus: look good and don't overdo anything. Be balanced in your approach, but obvious. Make your connection feel magnetic, aesthetically pleasing, out of a Pinterest board. You do really have to look like one of their multiple versions of an ideal partner for it to work. Other than that, be there, be sensual and almost look like you're too good to be true :) jk
Scorpio venus: hard to get in, but it is an all-or-nothing game. Your connection has to feel intense, like something they have never felt before. Like something transformative. Like technically or practically you might not be compatible but there is a soul-bond between you two. Like you are a bad decision, but the more you talk you are too much alike, or you complement each other too well. Loyalty must be shown for this almost obsessive kind of love. they need DEVOTION.
Sagittarius venus: spontaneous, but while you met so randomly, you seemed like the most outgoing, outstanding, most interesting person ever. Or maybe not ever... You get it. Look like you're effortless, like your knowledge on things you two are talking about is just something you have randomly researched among many other interests you might have. Be playful, slightly teasing, but don't overdo your interactions. By that I mean, don't be overly touchy or seem overly interested. You are just this great friend with a huge potential for the most interesting s/o they have ever met. Almost like a teacher vibe. Almost, not literally.
Capricorn venus: You need that mature vibe. to make them feel like with you they can build something that will last forever. You cannot rush it, it has to take time. Look put together, like you give them some kind of status, or at least you wouldn't bring theirs down.
Aquarius venus: be weird, be authentic. Be unapologetically yourself. Lowkey. Or at least, be unconventional in some way, different. Make them FEEL that you are different. Make it exciting, unexpected even. It needs a friendship at first, and while doing friendship things, you suddenly sprinkle something electric. Not really bold, but interesting, something they never see in other people. Drop a hot take from time to time. They probably have an unusual sense of humor, so do what you will with that info.
Pisces venus: you need that dreamy vibe, also it needs to feel fated. Like you need to sacrifice for unconventional love, because you were meant to meet in this lifetime too. Filled with compassion, like you merge souls. Make them understand that you both feel deeply the same things, that you both view the world the same, that somehow your lives are so... intertwined.
This post will probably not be everyone's cup of tea, but
this is what happened and worked for me!!! (everytime)
so please take it with a grain of salt <3



















