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The Myth of “Fans Killing Shows”: Here’s the thing I fundamentally disagree with. It wasn’t the fans who “killed the shows.” It was the writers who killed it.
I came across this Tumblr post and here's why people blaming the fans for the writers fatal flaw is just wrong.
And now I'll get to the most unpopular opinion I've ever shared online - fully aware that what I've already said very few people on here would agree with: I don't think it's Rob Thomas who killed the show with his ill-adviced decision, it's the fans who did that. Not that they are not aware of it, but they still refuse to take the blame for it, as if there could not have been any other reaction. And clearly they don't regret it. After they paid to bring Veronica Mars back once before. They collectively decided that season 4 was a crime against the fandom and that it never happened. Therefore making it impossible for anyone who did not feel the same way to get more content and have some closure. I know I don't get to be mad about that, but it is sad. And I've been on the other side of this a few times and stopped watching a show after a certain point, but that never triggered a cancellation. I've seen favorite characters killed off many times without it ever leading to a fandom turning hostile like that, sometimes even ripping everything else apart about the show. And it's not even like Veronica Mars was a cosy show where people didn't die. It was neo noir. It started out with her solving the murder of her best friend ffs. So, how did this happen? How did one character's death kill the show? Was it because he was the main love interest over more than a decade? Why does it now feel like he was more important than the protagonist? Or was it maybe because the fans campaigned for it's return and even funded the movie? Was it because they felt more invested in a way and later betrayed although they did not pay for the last season to get made?
I know this take circulates a lot: “The fans killed Veronica Mars. If they hadn’t reacted so strongly to Season 4, we’d have gotten more.”
But after watching this happen over and over, across shows I love, shows that shaped me, shows that built entirely new corners of fandom culture. I just don’t buy it.
Fans aren’t killing shows. Writers are breaking the emotional contract, torching the narrative spine, and then blaming the audience for the smoke.
And if Veronica Mars were the only example, maybe we could write it off. But this specific heartbreak, this implosion of trust, has now happened on too many shows, in too many fandoms, with too similar a pattern to chalk up to “one overreacting audience.”
It didn’t start with Season 4. It didn’t start with Logan Echolls. And it didn’t end there.
It’s The Handmaid’s Tale. It’s Game of Thrones. It’s The 100. And on and on.
This is a cultural pattern. A breaking point between audiences and creators, and VM is just the case study where people still argue about who struck the match.
The pattern is the same every time: the writers kill the relationship they spent years telling us mattered most.
This is the part critics pretend not to understand.
Fandom doesn’t melt down because a character dies. Characters die constantly in television, and people grieve them, yell about them, move on. They melt down when a character dies in a way that breaks the story’s thesis. Let's take a deeper look:
Veronica Mars: Logan Echolls
Years of storytelling, marketing, PR, revival hype, and arc-building told us:
Logan is Veronica’s person. He’s the love story that grows with her. This relationship is the heart of the show.
Season 4 then kills him in the last 90 seconds as a plot device. Not a turning point, not a thematic evolution, just a twist that contradicts everything the show told us about her healing.
The Handmaid’s Tale: Nick Blaine
Four seasons of narrative work (and two books) told us:
Nick is June’s equal, mirror, moral counterweight, and match. Their love is radical, raw, complicated, feminist, and central.
Then Seasons 5 and 6 decide:
Actually, punish him. Actually, flatten him. Actually, the story is about motherhood, not womanhood or desire. Actually, June belongs with the safe man.
That isn’t a character arc. That’s an ideological pivot.
Game of Thrones: Daenerys Targaryen
Eight seasons told us:
Daenerys is the heart of the myth. She breaks chains. She frees people. She’s the emotional and moral center of the show’s grand design.
The final three episodes say:
Forget that. She snaps because… trauma? lineage? vibes? The woman who liberated millions is actually a tyrant.
A series that built itself on emotional logic ends on plot logic. The single most disorienting pivot a story can make.
When the ending contradicts what the story was, fans don’t feel shocked. They feel gaslit.
Killing the love interest isn’t the issue. Killing the thesis is.
This is the part nobody wants to talk about, because it forces a reckoning with the power and legitimacy of fandom interpretation.
Logan wasn’t just Veronica’s boyfriend. Nick wasn’t just June’s romantic partner. Daenerys wasn’t just another lead.
These characters were:
thematic mirrors
emotional anchors
narrative engines
symbolic structures
the emotional grammar of the show
and the embodiment of the protagonist’s arc
You don’t just rip those out. Not without re-breaking everything around them. It’s like pulling the keystone from a bridge and then blaming drivers for falling into the river.
Why does this keep happening? Because TV writers mistake cynicism for prestige.
This is the actual disease that keeps killing fan-beloved shows:
Prestige = tragedy
Prestige = subversion
Prestige = women alone
Prestige = punishing love
Prestige = nihilism masquerading as maturity
It’s a worldview that sees romance arcs, emotional continuity, loyal love interests, or morally gray partners as “cheap,” “fan service,” or “too soapy.” And because of that mindset, writers keep doing one of two things:
1. They kill the love interest to seem edgy or surprising.
2. They rewrite the protagonist or their partner beyond recognition.
And sometimes both. Either way, the show loses the very thing that made it groundbreaking. The fans didn’t kill Veronica Mars. They mourned what the creator killed first. If a fandom was powerful enough to:
campaign for a return
fund a movie
keep the discourse alive for a decade
pull the show into the 2010s streaming era
…then maybe, just maybe, they had a point about the story’s emotional core.
People didn’t walk away because Logan died. They walked away because his death dismantled the show’s moral vocabulary.
Just like:
People walked away from The Handmaid’s Tale, especially 6x10, because they dismantled the show’s feminist thesis and punished the very arc they built around love, agency, and liberation. (Ahem Hulu's TT because I will be shocked if it's not heading for a similar exit.)
People walked away from Game of Thrones because the finale dismantled eight years of character logic and replaced it with plot convenience.
This isn’t “toxicity.” This is narrative literacy.
Fans understood the assignment better than the people writing the final chapters. The truth is this: fans don’t kill shows. Shows kill themselves when they decide the audience was wrong about what mattered.
And here's the irony that never gets talked about: Writers taught us what mattered.
They built these love stories. They crafted these arcs. They centered these relationships. They marketed these dynamics. They put these characters in promos, posters, finales, interviews, season-long narratives. They told us these bonds mattered.
So when they then turn around and say:
Actually, wrong. Actually, silly of you to care. Actually, this was never the point.
Of course people walk.
It’s not immaturity. It’s not entitlement. It’s not “fandom killing the show.”
It’s the audience refusing to be told that the story they meaningfully engaged with for years was a mistake.
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“[L]ove of place is not like other loves, of people or animals, artifacts, activities, causes. A loved being or thing or idea is held by us, held in our arms, in our imagination; our love casts a glow around it. But a loved place holds us, even if it exists only in memory; it causes everything within it, including ourselves, to glow. A loved place is not encompassed by our love; we are encompassed, loved, breathed into life, by it. There is little recognition or articulation of this kind of relation between self and world in modern Western thought – little attention to categories that express the way the world makes room for us as opposed to the way we act on it, impose ourselves upon it. But many of us feel this accommodation, sense that we are indeed received and feel a huge but nameless emotion in response.”
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sorry i never replied. everyday is blending together and i'm losing sense of time
Me: *Removes my cat from my lap to do something else.*
My cat: Father is...evil? Father is unyielding? Father is incapable of love? I am running away. I am packing my little rucksack and going out to explore the world as a lone vagabond. I can no longer thrive in this household.
The spiritual successor to Miette
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Glad to see we’re all in agreement that cats talk like disparaged victorian children
I am so incredibly glad we finally moved on from "i can has". Cats are clearly smart enough for advanced sentence structure and dumb enough to draw entirely incorrect conclusions about what they're talking about.
My cat, banging the cabnet door over and over and over: bang bang bang
Me: you will not earn what you desire by banging the cabinet door.
My cat: This is a test of wills, is it not? We shall see if your ability to put up with my incessant banging outlasts my eternal lust for snackie treats. Years of conditioning have hardened me for this purpose. bang bang bang
Me: ksst!
My cat, throwing herself to the ground like she's been shot: Oh! Oh I have been assailed in my own home! Have mercy, have pity! Surely in the cruel darkness of your heart there is some mote of goodness that might stay your hand! Do not strike me, I pray you!
Me: ok
My cat, after waiting about 3 minutes: bang bang bang
Can haz snackytreat
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“just one more day” i say again and again and again and

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After 500 hours of hand embroidery, 5+ years of procrastination thanks to the sheer terror of messing it up, and many months of making and remaking everything again and again, I finally got to take my Cloud City Leia costume for a spin at a convention last weekend!
Who are we kidding, I may still tweak a few things but for the purposes of the con, this post, and my unbridled joy I’m officially calling my dream costume DONE ✔️
you know, the more i think about it, the angrier i get about how mainstream media and even people in general treated marie kondo when the life changing magic of tidying up got big. it's just so unnecessary and sad to me and i think the vast majority of people would love what she has to say if they just actually looked into it instead of maliciously memeing her to death? i'm not talking about the cutesy does it spark joy stuff but all the things portraying her as some bizarre evil cleaning dictator.
i actually read her book when i was about twelve years old, in the most shocking and probably only example of me ever being ahead of a trend, and even at twelve i really loved everything she said. at that point in time i lived in fear of my mother's threats that she would come and throw everything away while i was school, and my small and very adhd mind simply could not grasp the concept of "have less stuff". have less of WHICH stuff? how? i'd never actually been taught how to clean my room besides being told "pick up stuff" and "be organized", and as she points out multiple times, cleaning is not an intuitive thing. it's a learned behavior and skill.
anyways. her entire philosophy centers on surrounding yourself with things that you love, and only things that you love (or things that you absolutely need). she explicitly says over and over again that it is not about throwing things away, it is not about minimalism, it is not about "what is the smallest amount possible that you can survive on". she literally has a whole section where she talks about how hard it can be to throw things away when you've lived in poverty all your life and you don't have absolute confidence that you can replace something that you really needed if it gets thrown out, even though you're not likely to ever really need it--you've just been conditioned to think that because that's literally how you survive, when you're poor. she talks about how that mindset can serve and how it can damage. she talks about how minimalism is sort of a rich people thing, cause they can afford to throw everything away.
this woman really came out here and said "i want you to be surrounded by things you love and i'm going to validate your fears and your difficulties in getting to that place" and people somehow got mad at her. i don't understand it
The idea of hers that helped me the most was one of the more...shinto-y ones.
That we are the caretakers of the objects we keep and have an obligation to not only care for them, but also to *use them for their purpose.*
If you don't wear that jacket, no matter how cute it is, it is a disservice to let it rot away in your closet. Let it go on to be worn by someone else. It's not that you didn't love it enough- it's that you love it enough to let it serve its purpose, even if it's not with you.
And I think that's very freeing. It helped me, at least, with the guilt of letting go of "still usable" objects that I just wasn't using.