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NOTHING is hitting today. Like I can’t think of one food I’d like to eat today. Idk if it’s anxiety related but it seems to also affect me not wanting to watch anything or listen to any music. Like I kind of want this day to be over but nothing about this day is bad. I just feel not right. Like not sad or angry. Just not pleased by anything.
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So update on my salad trying days .... that was it. That was the only time I tried. I honestly thought it was going to be a great time and I was going to be a salad person but I’m sad that I can’t even look at it anymore. I’m really losing hope :/ I really hope someday I can afford a nutritionist or something.
Oh wow !!! It’s been 3 years since I made this post and I’m so proud to say that I ACTUALLY love salad now. I eat Caesar salad like 24/7. I never thought I’d get to this place but here I am 🥹
New update: I can eat the little salad they give on planes for dinner and a baby greens salad with feta, tangerines, and balsamic vinaigrette. I didn’t think I would be able to handle the baby greens flavor or a fruit on my salad but I actually love it. I’m hoping to be able to stomach most salads in the future!
Just wanted to add some hope for those that are currently trying new foods and are getting discouraged. It’s hard and you’re doing the best you can. Maybe step back. Maybe take a break. And down the line, you’ll try again when you’re ready and you’ll get to where you wanna be whatever that may be 🤍
I thought I would never get to a point where I could touch a vegetable other than corn and carrots. Now I eat salad and can typically stomach most plainer salads.
I thought I would never find a partner that understood and had empathy for my ARFID. I was stuck in a lot of toxic cycles with different ppl and always felt relieved it never worked out so they could never figure out I only ate like a handful of foods. Now I have a partner that understood on the first mention of it and didn’t make me feel bad about it at all.
I never thought any of this would ever get better for me. Eating while it still is difficult for me, is less difficult than before and I think that counts for something. I hope this helps someone that is struggling.
the thing about ARFID (or, at least, my presentation of it) is that my brain will refuse to interpret anything other than my safe foods as food. sometimes asking me to eat something off my list of foods would be the same as asking you to eat a shoe. it’s probably technically possible, but your entire body will resist eating it and it will make you distressed and then quite sick. it’s not “becoming a picky eater when I’m stressed”, it’s “stress removes my ability to see all foods as food”
Resturaunts need a "kids menu" with larger portions for those of us with certian kinds of dietary restriction.
It's not fussieness
It's not hating "flavour"
It's a fucking dietary restriction the we should not be mocked or punished for.
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The worst part about having arfid is when restaurants get your order wrong and they don’t customize it the way you want and then your meal arrives and people say that you can “just take it off”. 😐 as if the essence of that thing won’t ruin the whole meal…. Like sometimes it oozes onto your food and you can’t just wipe that away …
my brain: we want a peanut butter and jelly sandwich
me: eats a peanut putter and jelly sandwich
my brain: we did not want a peanut butter and jelly sandwich :(
I am.,, suffering
society if I didn’t have to worry and think about what to eat all the damn time
So update on my salad trying days .... that was it. That was the only time I tried. I honestly thought it was going to be a great time and I was going to be a salad person but I’m sad that I can’t even look at it anymore. I’m really losing hope :/ I really hope someday I can afford a nutritionist or something.
Oh wow !!! It’s been 3 years since I made this post and I’m so proud to say that I ACTUALLY love salad now. I eat Caesar salad like 24/7. I never thought I’d get to this place but here I am 🥹
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If I have to read one more "I hate picky eaters, they have the taste palette of a 5-year-old" post, I WILL actually start killing people. You don't want to be around "picky eaters?" Fine, then get the fuck away from us. We're better off without your judgment.
"But wahhhh why won't they just try something new" Shut. Up. Look up how things like adhd, autism, depression, and many more affect eating. Look up food allergies, intolerances, and general sensitivities. FUCKING LOOK UP ARFID. Seriously I am so damn tired of people not knowing shit about arfid, refusing to research even when I tell them about it (most of my doctors don't even know anything about it even though they've known about my struggles for over two years!) And then you have the nerve to shame us for dealing with an eating disorder that is fuck all hard to work through cuz, again, no one knows fucking shit about it and they don't want to learn! My therapist reached out to an eating disorder client to find help for me, and the only goddamn one who even knew it existed was the director.
Stay the hell away from so-called "picky eaters" if you're gonna make post after post complaining about how annoying you find us, or how you just so badly want to go to restaurants with your friend but they eat like a child! Go alone, asshole.
Ngl I’m jealous of ppl with ARFID who can eat turkey on thanksgiving. I literally hate everything except the bread rolls it’s so embarrassing :(
Arfid culture is worrying that people will think you're xenophobic / racist because of your ED
Why is that? /gen
-Mod Eria
[ID: A tumblr comment by @nephrite666 saying: "because we may think foods from cultures outside our own are gross and may refuse to try them which is what people tend to do to immigrants to belittle their culture" /End ID]
I didn't know that, thanks for the information! It makes sense it could be seen that way, especially since arfid isn't a widely known eating disorder. Thanks for thaking the time to explain it to me!
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My family members: *constantly making jokes about me serving chicken nuggets to my future partner for dinner*
Me:
We had a family birthday today at a really fancy restaurant and I told my fam I didn’t want to go because I’d checked the menu online and I didn’t like anything but they told me I was being selfish bc it was about Alex not me. So I sucked it up and went anyway – only to have my father attempt to make me try something (cue the “how do you know you don’t like it if you’ve never tried it!!!”s and the “you like x and x so you’ll like this”s) while my cousins and uncle watched. Then of course one of my aunts made a comment that I’ll be a cheap date bc I don’t eat much and my mum has to jump on the band wagon and talk abt how I am such a picky eater 😒 So I’m sitting there trying not to CRY because I knew this would happen!!! This is why I didn’t want to come!!! On top of that we were there for four hours and I was starving the whole time. Basically it was shitty all round
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yall know exactly what article that just got everywhere im refering to.
oh btw im posting this on my throw away account because recently people irl have been following me and i dont want people to know
Does anyone else not feel accepted by the Ed community bc arfid isnt a "normal" Ed?
