veni, vidi, vici ⚡

There’s a little girl in my head & she screams “unloved! unloved! unloved!” every moment of my life

There’s a woman in my head now & she holds the little girl and says “I will take care of you and we will be alright” when the little girl screams and together they are learning how to trust each other

one thing about me is im gonna get a coffee and a pastry

learning how to control your reactions to things that trigger you is how you heal

there’s a lot of unspoken pressure to keep liking the things you used to like and to keep dressing the way you’ve always dressed and to never question what you believe in and basically “be yourself” has slowly morphed into “be what everyone knows you as” but trust me when i say if you just give it up and simply make decisions and take actions based purely on what would make you happy, you’ll gain a very comforting sense of self peace   

Normalize asking yourself if the people and situations in your life align with the life you’re trying to create.