So many aspiring sugar babes dance around pots and waste their time with salt and their own lack of intuition, flail through a couple of dates talking big the whole time, and ultimately drop out of the bowl before learning anything or getting to a real payout. Realize that sugaring is sex work, and sex work is work.
One of the reasons why experienced SBs/escorts and other sex workers resent newbies is because so few actually get it and have what it takes to even make it out of the gate, and yet they are completely clueless about it.
Realize that you need to be extremely confident, quietly intuitive, lusted after by men everywhere you go, comfortable seducing a man 30 years your senior in public, and consistently sexually competent.
Clients can be politically repulsive, morally reprehensible, physically unattractive, and personally crude and offensive. And while they won’t all be like that if you’re lucky, have honed your intuition, and are good enough to be selective—especially when you are starting off, your job is to (1) stay safe and (2) get in, get the money, and get out. So dispel the romanticized notions about what your sugar daddy will be like and realize that you are going to have to kiss a few unpleasant, entitled, conservative, married, wrinkled frogs while you learn, level up, and refine your hustle.