OG Tarot reader

You guys have to look at what I said through a lens of emotional maturity. No. his future partners don't have to worry lol. I simply meant he has an open heart. He doesn't discard people simply because he has broken up with them. It is how he cares about people. He doesn't hold grudges in that way. It doesn't neccesarily mean he'll date them again. He isn't messy like ya'll like to portray to keep it real. We all have our own prospective and beliefs in how we relate to others interpersonally.

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Looking at their interaction in the two links above, it became clear to me that she has an affectionate bond with him. Like, I understand why she views him as a son now. I think she was probably charmed by him at first, but now it’s evolved into a really beautiful relationship—part friendship, part filial in the sense that I can see she feels sorry for his love life… I also believe that, over time, J lost the interest he initially had. He definitely accepted that he isn't the type of decrepit old man she’s into. In the end, I think it's a positive thing, because it means their friendship will truly be lasting. What do you think watching the videos?

I'm not aure of the context of those links but It doesn't matter. i'm guessing you haven't read my readings on these two or even the readings on a and her partner who, by the way, isn't decrepit. listen i am a woman of a certain age and is not decrepit either so I take offense to such a thing. Please everyone unshackle yourselves from calling millenials old.

aaaanyway...have you considered multiple things happening at the same time? Your perception isn't wrong, but it's not accurate either. Ayo is indeed nurturing though she does not view that man as a Son. They are family but not in the way you describe it. No. she doesn't feel sorry for his love life. No.He will never lose interest. He hasn't lost interest in any woman he has ever been with. that's not how his inner workings go.

They are friends...oh yes...but more and both recognize it and accept it. As to what they do with that is up to them. Their connection is deep, deep.

in the words of Ayo:

"I feel like we understand each other. I know your spirit probably more than I know the spirits of people that I've known even longer" No truer words have been said.

Their key energies lie in the 10 of pentacles, four of wands, The empress, Judgement,temperance and knight of wands.

I can bet my gifts that this is innacurate. He is not on any level you think you can measure. He is marked for success by the universe. He was born to be successful and his success cannot be measured by what you or anyone else deem successful.

It is written in the stars...

This isn't me defending him because I am speaking of destiny.

Truth be told, he's actually very independent. Manly, but not macho, which is a good thing. He's the opposite of passive. He's not super outwardly expressive in the public eye, but he blends the masculine and feminine extremely well.

What makes him truly manly is how comfortable he is with his feminine side, which is part of what attracts women to him. He feels emotionally safe, which isn't all that common nowadays.

He loves love, yes. He falls deeply in love, and once he does, he'll treat the person he loves as though they are everything.

5 of pentacles, 9 of pentacles, 2 of wands, the sun, king of pentacles, 3 of wands, page of pentacles, and the world.

"This is his year" you forgot to put not, talking about winning the oscar recognition and successful girl pls

A is at the beginning of her career, she gets offers from great directors, plus she's only 30, she's not sacrificing all that to be with a divorced man and raise his two kids in peace and harmony, yes there's a connection but it's not enough, maybe years ahead when they're 50 they'll rediscover that just like kate holmes and josh jackson.

I mean... it's not a harsh reality and you're for sure jumping the gun about sacrifice and raising people's kids. don't nobody want Ayo to sacrifice a thing and she wouldn't do that and he wouldn't let her.

Ayo is a free woman. i'm not sure how many times i have to express that. she flies and he would let her. Her current partner does that also but it's different in terms of why.

and what if I told you him being a "divorced dad" isn't a hindrance in her mind?7of wands, page of wands, four of wands, ace of cups, the sun, three of pentacles, and 7 of cups...

she views him being a dad not as an obstacle to a romantic relationship, but as a meaningful and even attractive part of who he is. Rather than feeling discouraged by the fact that he is a father, she appears to see it as evidence of qualities she values deeply....responsibility, warmth, emotional maturity, and the ability to create a stable, loving home. This isnt' something she would shy away from. with the 7 of wands there it shows she would be wiling to stand by it despite challenges or opinions. she would even be protective of the connection.

page of wands shows her excitement in exploring something. this doesn't turn her off.

the Four of Wands, Ace of Cups, and The Sun. three of the strongest cards for emotional fulfillment, love, and family. <<<She values the things he shows in being a father so this attracts her not turns her off.

7 of cups speaks to the layer of realism she carries and those realities does not diminish her feelings.

I support a woman's autonomy and boundary that they may not want to date someone who has kids, but I asked and it seems to not be a deal breaker for her based on her own values and morals. It appeals to her more because of who he is as a person. Being a father is a part of his identiy and not a hindrance.

Let's not project our own belief systems onto people. especially women. Like you said she's 30. If she does decide to move forward with him...her career won't change lol. she's fully settled into success.