a letter to oh beom seok,
i understand. i understand but that doesnât make it right. your feelings are valid but that doesnât make your actions correct.
growing up in a home that breaks you, it is hard to break out of the cycle of seeing yourself as the victim, of seeing malicious intent behind every slight. to have the world be cruel only solidifies this feeling, the one built on your pain and suffering. it takes time and effort to grow out of that mindset, to build enough peace with yourself that allows for criticism to be met with healthy reflection and not defense. youâre just a kid, you have had neither the time or space to build that peace. and for those reasons, i understand.
however, that doesnât make you right. that doesnât forgive the harm you have caused, the pain you have given. whatever your reasons, you have hurt and that will always be wrong.
my only hope for you is that you escape and grow, so you can be a positive presence in the lives of the new people you meet. unfortunately, my opinion of you will not change but you yourself can change. i hope you hold on to that possibility as you move forward.
go forth and live well. and letâs hope to never meet again. for hellâs justice pales in comparison to what i wish upon you.















