literary | historical parallels |
Arabic poets and their poetry that reminds me of Sansa;
Al-Khansā: a 7th century tribeswoman, living in the arabian peninsula. her name: tumādir bint amr. she was given the nickname "Al-Khansā" meaning 'snub nosed', an arabic epithet for a gazelle, as a metaphor for beauty. She was one of the most influential poets of pre-islamic and early islamic periods.
Known widely for her elegies, as she wrote over a hundred elegies for her two murdered brothers (Mu'awiyah and Sakhr) alone. She also named one of her sons Mu'awiyah, to honor her dear brother.
This encompassing familial love for her brothers reminds one of sansa's affections and longing for her siblings; 'She would name them Eddard and Brandon and Rickon [...] In Sansa’s dreams, her children looked just like the brothers she had lost. Sometimes there was even a girl who looked like Arya.'
in one of al-khansā's most popular elegies of her brother sakhr, she opens the poem stating that her tears wont stop falling from her eyes;
قذى بعينكِ أمْ بالعينِ عوَّارُ
أمْ ذرَّفتْ إذْ خلتْ منْ أهلهَا الدَّارُ
كأنّ عيني لذكراهُ إذا خَطَرَتْ
فيضٌ يسيلُ علَى الخدَّينِ مدرارُ
تبكي لصخرٍ هي العبرَى وَقدْ ولهتْ
وَدونهُ منْ جديدِ التُّربِ أستارُ
تبكي خناسٌ فما تنفكُّ مَا عمرتْ
لها علَيْهِ رَنينٌ وهيَ مِفْتارُ
and she wonders, do her eyes water because dust have blinded them or because they mourn a dear one?
But while Al-Khansā was allowed to mourn her brothers in public with her words and tears, Sansa was forced to hide her grief behind closed doors due to her difficult political circumstances;
He had expected anguish and anger when he told her of her brother's death, but Sansa's face had remained so still that for a moment he feared she had not understood. It was only later, with a heavy oaken door between them, that he heard her sobbing.'
A Storm of Swords - Tyrion VII
Yet despite the differences in their ways of mourning, their intense feelings of grief and longing for their late family still mirrored one anothers.