Trapped in the Gender Coffin

I'm surprised I was able to get this far into the 2020's without needing to ask for mutual aid but here we are 💔

holy shit never did i expect to hit the goal so quickly.

chillin,

hey uhm. things have gotten a little hard.. my girl has been sick. we managed the vet bill but at this point we don't know what further costs there will be and i dont have the savings to keep up

I went to him because he was 1.) the cheapest possible option and since I needed crowdfunding that seemed best 2.) within driving distance of my friends who’d be able to host me. I didn’t have any complications and I don’t hate my results, so the fact that he stopped offering free revisions after COVID (including for people who had their surgeries before the pandemic) and ghosts everyone isn’t a huge deal personally. I do have moderate to severe dog-earring right in the middle my chest which limits what clothing I can wear and have inquired about possible revisions with other surgeons (so far no one has been willing to operate on other dr’s work and have told me I’d need to pay the price of a full secondary top surgery). Dr. Wolf famously ghosts all his patients after surgery and has strict weight limits.

my friends and my ex were great caretakers who made the recovery process easy and kind of fun but knowing what I know now makes the whole experience retroactively a little bit traumatic