Real Shit Behind Sugar Part 2
My father always told me in life if you donāt play your cards right, youāre going to end up with a wet butt and a hungry gut. At first, Iām like what the hell is he even talking about? But then, it all made perfect sense! You have to be on your Ps and Qs otherwise, youāre screwed. The last feeling you ever want to feel is PLAYED, TRICKED, DECEIVED.
Let me tell you something that bothered the living shit out of me. How in the hell these men think that they are entitled to YOUR assets for such a low offer? 200 a meets, sometimes they want you to SPEND THE NIGHT. Hell, they even want you to host. What the fuck? Excuse me? Youāre clearly missing another zero honey. They have the nerve to tell you that they make 500,000 a year but always name excuses as to why they canāt afford the proper allowance you are trying to receive. They usually state the following:
1. I just bought a house/car
2. Iām putting my children through college
Yet they want to fuck you all night for little to NO money? Get the fuck out of here!
Another thing that gets on my last nerves. Their expectations are out of this world. For example:
You must be 95 lbs. Excuse me, yet his ass is 500.
You canāt have a boyfriend. Yet heās married.
You must have all of your teeth, but he has dentures and balding.
This is my favorite one. You can be Caucasian, Asian, Hispanic, East Indian, Middle Eastern, Purple, Green, Rainbow but you canāt be African American. Iām not racist, itās just a preference, YET YOU ARE AS WHITE AS SNOW. Iāve notice if I were to say that I am mixed, I can slightly get away with it. He doesnāt like black women, however, he wants to get to know me because he thinks I am Egyptian, Indian and Japanese. Lord help me.
ACT like a lady, THINK like a man I always say. Remember, these men love their ego boosted. Whether you are complimenting his eyes to his watch, the goal is to make him feel WANTED, SPECIAL, APPRECIATED. These men love to play. They will tell you anything you want to hear instead of the cold hard truth and the reality of it all is that most of the time, we will fall into their hands like silly putty because it sounds good. Whenever a man offers financial security, trips to destinations we canāt even pronounce, surgeries such as The Brazilian Butt Lifts and Breast Augmentations, we feel secure and easily tempted. At that point, he is trying his hardest to MANIPULATE you to get what HE wants. You need to flip the script. Play the game. Donāt play hard, but play it smart.
Iām saying all of this because I have lived through it and Iām at a point in my life to tell you what really goes in in this lifestyle. Itās NOT all unicorns, rainbows and rose pedals. You have to work way too hard to get even a crumb of sugar. But if you want to have it all, you need to pretty much give it all you got.
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