tumblr user irumino is an abuser

FINALLY OMG WHEN I ROLEPLAYED AS UMIRUKA SHE WAS FUCKING RUDE AND HATEFUK TOWARDS ME. Finally that bitch.

nuu apparently updated her gross as fuck apology, but since she didn’t let any of us know, i decided to do her the courtesy of taking the new bit apart. you’re welcome, nuu! ready to stop stalking this blog and face us, yet?

you want a public apology but you want it for things i haven’t done because you have bad information and there’s pieces of the puzzle missing and you aren’t letting me explain that. 

yikes ... where to begin. you most definitely suicide-baited. you most definitely fetishize gay couples and ignore lgbtq issues. you most definitely sent anon hate. you most definitely spread hate about users you didn’t like. so idk where you get this “i haven’t done bad things uwu” mentality when we’ve got receipt after receipt (hint! it’s our tag name) on your actions. several users even had the courtesy of letting you explain yourself, which you admitted to in your own post, and you blew them off, so already like ... get fucked?

there ARE things i’m sorry for, especially to the people i hurt via my OWN misunderstandings and misconceptions and the rumours i stupidly believed were true. 

you literally spread the rumors yourself but okay nuuseaus ... whatever you say

but i believe private conversation is the best way to deal with this and that’s still open if anyone wants it. 

you haven’t messaged anyone named in the original callouts so again ... eat shit? you’re certainly full of it.

but a negativity blog is still bullying, it’s still harassment, 

i’m gonna ask you to go back and read our disclaimer which straight up says that we are not a negativity blog, nor are we here to induce negativity - we’re here to keep tabs on your abuse and to remind you that you haven’t apologized for shit. all we do is show proof of your nasty actions.

and the anons and messages i’ve received as a result (half of which are begging me to kill myself, half of which are degrading me in other ways) are unacceptable. i’m a person with feelings and those messages in my inbox are extremely hurtful. so please stop sending them. please stop telling me to kill myself and please stop harassing me like this.

mm, i’m gonna go ahead and call bullshit on this because a) you have never, not once, turned off anon for your messages so clearly it wasn’t so upsetting that you had to stem the tide, b) literally every single time someone complained about anon hate you told them to just step away from the computer so clearly there’s a discrepancy here and c) pics??? screenshots??? evidence? how very convenient that the second people start calling you on your shit, you suddenly have all these death threats? which is the same stunt you pulled on your friend for confronting you over your actions? suicide is a real issue and for you to pull it on like a cloak and use it to hide your abuse is fucking disgusting, you can get fucked.

 if you want to talk, we can talk. tell me what’s on your mind without being malicious and aggressive and i’ll talk it out with you. 

uwu don’t be mean to nuu! don’t express your anger and hurt! be nice to nuu! uwu

if you want screenshots, i’ll give those privately because not everyone in them is comfortable with them being posted publicly and i need to respect that. 

donald trump called and said your bullshit attempts were hilarious. THERE ARE WAYS AROUND EXPOSING PEOPLE IN RECEIPTS. no one is asking for the address, blood type, and familial history of your sources, we just want to see the fucking sources. you’ve been talking about them for a YEAR, so you’d think you’d get around to sending them!

i WANT to resolve this more than anything but i want it to be done in a safe environment. i want my own blog to be a safe environment for both me AND my friends. and all of you have made it incredibly unsafe right now. so please stop, and please consider reaching out privately. i don’t think “resolution” means necessarily getting along. we don’t have to. i want to be able to talk with you and clear up any problems and apologize directly, to your face, for things i’ve done and explain the things i HAVEN’T done, and even if the end result is just acknowledging that we’ve talked and walking away, that’s great. i want my blog to be a safe space where i can write with people that want to write with me and not have to worry about you flooding my tag or sending me these kinds of messages or threatening my writing partners, so please, if we can stop all this, let’s. thank you. 

tumblr user @irumino / @irukas / @nuulan is an abuser and bully in the naruto roleplaying community. they have been caught:

manipulating and lying to their friends

gaslighting their friends and supporters

belittling users with various mental illnesses

using harmful transphobic language / deliberately using wrong pronouns

fetishizing gay couples while ignoring real lgbtq issues

sending anon hate

suicide-baiting their friends

instigating fights to sabotage people she does not like

spreading misinformation to damage the reputation of others she does not care for

(c.) It's manipulation at its finest, making the people trying to keep the cycle from continuing look like bad guys, that we're just ganging up and are forcing her to take drastic measures. No one, I repeat, NO ONE wants to see her hurt herself, no one wants her to vanish off the face of the earth. Yes, some would prefer she leave tumblr, but that in no way implies we want her to leave life permanently. It's a serious accusation to make with no actual proof.

i mentioned this in my callout about how i spoke to nuu the night she was first called out - essentially telling her that i was shocked and hurt about how much she had lied to me, about all the things she had done that i wasn’t aware of.  nuu proceeded to guilt trip me with a suicide bait, along with some more emotional manipulation. i thought she’d like to see proof of her own backhanded duplicity, since she accused me in her “apology” of betraying her.

your daily reminder that tumblr user @irukas / @irumino / @nuulan is an abuser and a bully who has manipulated her followers and friends, in an effort to hide her horrendous actions. she has also failed to acknowledge her actions, instead making passive aggressive posts, which she immediately deletes.

(2/2) write with her and liking our characters' relationship). I thought it would be best to ignore the drama, but after seeing all this, I'd feel too guilty doing so. How do I go about this?

first of all, we absolutely understand that this is a difficult position to be in - most of us have been in it as well. nuu manipulates the scenario so that you rarely hear about her actions, and if you do, she dismisses it as the “bullying” of other users towards herself.

you don’t need to create a grand gesture or a massive callout. you have read the receipts and you are now informed of just how abusive nuu really is - that’s the first step. the second step is to remove her from your life, as best you can. nuu relies on her followers and her supporters to be her shields when the time comes; she will sacrifice people as she sees fit. do not be one of them. you are worth much more than anything nuu can offer you.