For anyone who needs to hear it:
Your late teens/20s are a weird time in your life. Donāt panic if you think somebody is more āaheadā than you. The concept of being ahead is nonexistent anyway because lifeās not a race and each person has different hurdles to overcome.
Itās totally fine if youāre single. Itās fine if youāre still finishing school. Itās fine if you are still looking for a better job, or for any job at all. Itās fine if you havenāt had sex yet, or havenāt gotten your driver license yet. Itās fine if you havenāt gotten your own place yet. Itās fine if you are still figuring things out, saving money, putting the pieces together. Itās fine.
Donāt feel jealous of or lesser than people your age who have done these things. You donāt know what obstacles they faced to get there and they donāt know what youāve faced. Donāt undermine the progess you have made.
Because, trust me, you have made progress. Even if it hasnāt materialized yet in the traditional way.
You are still young. Like really young.
You got time.
This made me cry




















