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here's Vincent taking it upon himself to kill people to protect Aleister - especially those who lay hands on his boy!!

Aaand maybe Al doesn't mind rewarding that guard dog behavior...

So, anybody else notice that the TV man casually lifted two grown men without issue?

“How to do better at Getting New Pronouns Right. No more “oh I’m trying but its just really hard”

1. When you slip up, correct yourself briefly and move on “When I first met Lilly she was - I mean Aidan, he was literally doing a handstand on a skateboard”

2. When someone corrects you, say “thank you” and just move on swiftly “I hadn’t even finished yet and he already-” “they” “right thanks! they had already gotten 8 ready !?!”

3. Get in the habit of interrupting people with a quick correction yes every time “What is she doing? That looks -” “He.” “Oh yeah. Whatever he’s doing looks weird” It sets a good precendent, lifts some of the burden off trans people, and makes it easier to catch yourself

4. For everytime you get it wrong, do it right 3 times like saying 3 compliments (it doesn’t have to be aloud) “I should do pick up Jackson- Oh shoot! Jax Their name is Jax; They have been exceptionally patient with me today; and they are wearing lovely earrings”

5. Consider meeting with someone to practice. Go for coffee with a mutual friend and correct each you get it. “So her pronouns are they/them- wait their pronouns” “We really need to practice, so we can get this right for them” “Totally!”

6. Don’t make anyone feel like a burden for having pronouns you’re struggling with do not say “oh it’s just really hard” “Thank you for sharing your authentic self with me, l’m learning and I really apperciate it”