Honestly, idk what ppl could hate abt ppl who are agender/genderfluid/nonbinary
This is bc of the fact that with the first two, it's literally this
Some rando: hey what are your pronouns?
Me: call me whatever idgaf
It's literally that. I understand that genderfluid ppl can switch depending on how they're feeling, but some just don't care what you call them
Speaking of them, I see the pronouns they/them as gender neutral. If I refer to someone in a conversation, but I don't know their pronouns (bc I forgot to ask like an idiot), I opt to using they/them until further notice. It's more polite than using "it" for a person
I've had conversations explaining my identity to ppl, but it takes a bit for them to understand that I do not give a shit if someone calls me a man
If anything, I welcome it. Call me a guy or nonbinary. Call me a girl. GUESS WHAT I AM. I won't correct you bc I see myself as all or no genders, and being able to be seen for more than my AGAB makes me extremely happy
If you struggle with referring to someone as a gender, then opt to using they/them. If you're born in the 20th century, and that is difficult, then remember to ask, or just use their name when referring to that person