Thing

I was digging through a bag I used for most of high school that broke just a couple terms before I was meant to leave, clearing it out of anything useful before getting rid of it.

In one pocket there was a bunch of rubbish but two things stood out, a little red plastic heart, off of like a kids ring or something? Like y'know plastic jewelry? That kind of thing. And a clickety clackety trans pin that I got in S3, when I started really questioning if I was a 'girl'. It's noisy, if you move it at all it shakes and clicks. And I just kind of picked it up and cried.

When I started questioning my identity nobody really supported me, and everyone that did turned out not to be a very good person. And at the time I doubted I'd be able to push through it, I didn't think I'd get out of high school, that I'd ever feel like myself. But now? I'm out! I start uni in 2 months! Move out too! And I'm expressing myself pretty freely. I'm a gender-vague emo and I'm happy [enough]. Ofc there's still stuff I'm working on, but I'm here! Im doing this! And I'm me, in a way. Idk

It made me happy, in a sad way. Sad for what she went through, but happy that I pushed to this point. Not proud of some of the stuff that happened along the way, but it got me here, so here we are.

I’m a non-binary aroace who are you?

please dont forget about agender people this pride month

dont forget about agender people who dont also identify as trans

dont forget about agender people who want to transition (binary or not)

dont forget about agender people who dont

dont forget about agender people who use or like traditional binary pronouns like he/him and she/her

dont forget about agender people who prefer they/them or neo pronouns or a mix of pronouns

dont forget about agender people who dont want to use pronouns at all

dont forget about intersex agender people this pride

dont forget about agender people who are bisexual, pansexual, lesbian, gay, ect.

dont forget about agender people who are aromantic or asexual or both

dont forget about agender people who just dont care about dating or dont want to date anyone for any other reason