hiii. remaking my blog bc im sick of my main being filled with reblogs. I was previously river-not-a-stream
If I’m following you its probably from a sideblog…
Hi! Im LAIKA, may, noid, or syl. Im 18!!! years old and use any pronouns. I am happily taken by @thecatspasta and @starry-voidss !!! my wonderful partners i love them so much (23 months and 4 months respectively !! <3)
I have autism and adhd, and are taking medication for the latter. I also have CPTSD, DID, and personality disorders (bpd, npd, and dpd).
TLDR: if you know me irl, no you don’t !!! this is my safe space where i am open abt my disorders, relationships, opinions, discourse etc. especially anything about my trauma, or my system/did, please do not bring up irl unless we are in private :]. I know i go by a different name irl and all that, but know this(my online persona/blog) is my open/true self 👍
I have writing commissions open! [LINK TBA]
Here is my carrd
Im pretty chill tbh. Idk we vibe. Ill update this later
DNI STUFF BRIEFLY
DNI; endo , polymind , sysplex , transid, radqueer , radfem , TERF , harassment ::: pro any of the above — people who dont think transmisogyny and antitransmasculinity are real forms of oppression, people who use ‘TMA / TME’ terminology to replace AGAB or to be offensive
PLZ IW; selfshippers, antiendo systems, criminal minds fans, pw personality disorders, aldernic users & term coiners, steven universe fans
THIN ICE; ‘stanceless’ or neu on harmful discourse. you can’t be ‘neutral’ when talking about oppression and harm, it places you on the harmful or oppressive side by letting it continue.
OTHER; i lean towards the ‘dni proship’ side, but it depends on what definition you use. I do not believe in romanticising abuse, incest, rape, etc. I encourage exploring dark topics in fiction and am anti-censorship, but pro-tagging. I do not consider myself a proshipper, and I think the community is harmful. However, nobody can agree on a definition. proshippers claim antis are pro-censorship, and antis claim proshippers are anti-tagging.
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irl person i met today asked me what pronouns i use (any) and proceeded to go sh-th-he (and referred to me as he for the rest of the conversation) :((( /pos
(Im very fem presented and people 99% default to she/her)
"RAMCOA & OEA isn't real; it's fake or exaggerated for attention online. We'd see a lot more cases if it was."
Except you do see us.
We're on the front page of your favorite porn site. We're the tweaking homeless person you pretend not to look at on the street. We're your favorite political talking point. We're the infant in the emergency room screaming from a pain they can't comprehend. We're the black lines in classified files you make jokes about. We're buried in the backyards of farmhouses that have long since returned to nature. We're the ones who sold you drugs in high school. We're the classmate you bullied for growling and barking like an animal. We're the product of a $200 billion industry. We're the blood on your favorite politician's hands. We're alive and dead and existing as fragmented states in between.
You just refuse to look too closely because it makes you uncomfortable.
it really pisses me off when adults sit there and drill it into kids’ heads that their youth is fleeting and tell them things like “enjoy your childhood while it lasts because this is the best it’s gonna get”. why are you telling children that adulthood is the worst thing they can experience? seriously what the fuck is wrong with you, why are you trying to make them feel like growing up is a fate worse than death? trying to convince them their life is over before it even begins? i’m tired of that shit. because tell my why my 12 year old cousin told me when she turns 30 she’ll be so depressed she’s just gonna cry all the time. what the fuck. kids don’t need to hear that their already stressful and overwhelming lives are never going to get better, that the abuse and lack of autonomy they face is apparently the highlight of their lives. they need to hear about adults who are happy to be alive and happy to have made it to their age. they need to know that growing up rules, it’s a gift and life does not have to suck for them, that they have a future that’s worth sticking around for. this rhetoric is so damaging mentally and i’m about to start hitting the adults who parrot it. i’m sorry you hate your life but you don’t get to dump your issues on these kids. don’t piss me off and leave these babies alone!
Im willing to bet some adults who use that rhetoric are trying to push their children away from anything that gives them autonomy. a job, living on their own, just having life that doesnt center their parents. make them crave childhood and therefore give up their autonomy
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I thought you might enjoy hearing that you were given a shoutout on a podcast this week. The Sports Gossip show recommended JSTOR in their intro to an episode about the Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader's netflix series (season 3) and they included a selection of their research sources in the episode description.
If you're interested:
Sekani Robinson, Black Ballerinas: The Management of Emotional and Aesthetic Labor (2021)
La'Tonya Rease Miles, American Beauty: The Cheerleader in American Literature and Popular Culture (2005)
Sophie Gilbert, Girl on Girl (2025)
Laura Grindstaff, Emily West, Cheerleading and the Gendered Politics of Sport (2006)
Alex Kuczynski, Beauty Junkies (2006)
Michaele L. Ferguson, Choice Feminism and the Fear of Politics (2010)
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Hey, as a Scotsman who grew up speaking Scots (the language you're using in your tags) I'd like to give my opinion on this.
It seems like you're just aestheticising a language you have no real understanding about the cultural history of. If you understood the cultural history behind this language and how it's still treated today, you would understand that boiling it down to an aesthetic while people who natively speak the language are harassed or spoken down to for speaking it is insensitive. — And also while young Scottish people aren't being allowed to be fully literate in it either!
You're also incorrectly using common sayings within the language, which further proves your misunderstanding and lack of care for it as a language outside of the character you like.
You can appreciate a Scottish character without misusing Scots sayings, you can appreciate a Scottish character without treating our language as an aesthetic.
If you're genuinely interested in the language, consider learning it outside of your character if you haven't already, and support the creation of more media in Scots.
I dont have much to add (because prev ate!) but. Im a native scots speaker who hasnt been allowed to speak it or able to learn it.
so many people dont recognise scots as its own language. So many people dont even know it is its own language. Media in scots is depleting fast, and every single school ive come into contact with teaches standard british english rather than scots. Its a language that is dying out.
So when you use scottish words just. Because theyre from your source. its disrespectful. You dont even recognise that youre using another languages words. if you had put in effort to learn scots, research its history, it would be closer to appreciation than appropriation.
we arent an aesthetic. Scots is an endangered language. And the way to keep it alive and respected isnt by incorrectly used tags by a non scot speaker on a tumblr blog.
hot take possibly? but i actually think it’s okay for things to be marketed for adults. it’s literally okay if things aren’t suitable for children. i feel like we are losing the plot
This!! Kids watching a scary movie or whatever and realising it isn’t suitable for them can and does stop kids from getting into adult situations that are more dangerous for them. Children finding something sexual or drinking or whatever (as they will in any society) oftentimes can put them off getting into worse situations like grooming
Discord is supposedly saying this is going to affect "only 10% of users", but I really don't believe them at all. It's always going to be way worse and affect more people than what they claim.
So in case anyone needs it:
After Discord announced plans to require age verification for all users, a free, HTML-based tool emerged that aims to bypass facial scans on
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sending my love to everyone in public who talks loud / laughs loud / plays music out loud / is "taking up too much space" or "loitering" / having a mental health episode / yelling "for no reason" etc
