put yourself first. put your art first, your goals first, your work first, your passions first. you come first. men are not the most important thing. men that are less than what you deserve, men that you wait around for are definitely not the most important thing. stop treating them as such. stop killing yourself over them. stop totally adjusting yourself for them. let them be a complement to your life. not the center. you are the center. always the center.












