Sweetening Jars are part of that brand of magic known asย โbottle spellsโ. These types of spells are found in a variety of cultural practices, from Southern Hoodoo and Conjure traditions to old world European practices.
This spell aims to use sympathetic magic to drawย โsweet thingsโ to the spellโs subject.
I used this spell recently, at the start of the year, when a coworker of mine was being particularly malicious. I realized that she felt unjustifiably insecure, and lashed out at others (particularly myself) when the feeling struck. As she was the bossโ wife, there was no way a banishing spell would have worked - nor would it have done to lose her, since she was important to the business. However, I was nearing my witsโ end, trying to figure out how to combat the negativity and toxicity she created.
And then it came to me - if she was insecure, then the thing to do, which was the least negative, and which would probably be the most effective in the long run, was not to run her out by magical purposes, but to build her up by them - to help her, to support her, magically, so she no longer sought to lash out at people.
To that end, I decided an old-fashioned sweetening jar would do the trick. Within a day, I noticed a huge shift in our interactions, and in her confidence levels.
Sweetening Jars use sympathetic magic to attract positive,ย โsweetโ things to the spellโs subject. You can create a sweetening jar for a friend whoโs had a run of bad luck, or for a coworker or boss whoโs creating friction, and needs to beย โsweetened upโ towards you, or even for yourself, to draw positive, helpful things into your life.
Household sweetener (Honey, sugar, splenda)
On the square of paper, in the center, write theย โsweet thingsโ you wish to draw to the spell subject (for instance: Self-esteem, contentment, love, happiness, stability).
Then, without picking the pen/pencil off of the paper, write the spell subjectโs name nine times, encircling theย โsweet thingsโ at the center.ย
Fold the edges of the paper inward (to draw theย โsweet thingsโ in) and make the paper as small as possible.
Place the folded paper at the bottom of the jar. As you fill it with the sweetener of your choice (Honey is traditional, but sugar is less messy, and works just as well, in my experience), envision how the spell subject will be with thoseย โsweet thingsโ in their life. See in your mindsโ eye the positive change theyโll make, and murmur over the jar and the sweetener what you wish for the subject, and what you see for them once they obtain theseย โsweet thingsโ. Call upon whatever spirits you choose to aid in the endeavour.
When you feel finished, seal the lid on the jar, and give it a good shake to activate the magic. Set the candle on top of the jar lid, and light the wick, letting the wax drip onto the lid andย โsealโ in the magic, as well as add fire to the working.ย
Over the next few days/weeks/months, whenever you feel like it, give the jar a shake, and focus on the sweet things being drawn to the spell subject. Vocally wish upon them the sweetness youโre drawing for them, and their acceptance of it into their life.
Over time, youโll begin to see a change in their luck, demeanour, or behaviour.
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