Tumblr’s Reblogbookclub sure knows its audience!
“I’m incredibly excited,” Rowell told the Daily Dot via email. “I spend an egregious amount of time on Tumblr—it’s the place on the Internet where my friends and I hang out/geek out together—so it’s sort of like finding out that a bunch of people in my hometown are reading my book.”
Rowell, who has spent plenty of time in fandom herself, is the ideal author, according to Rachel Fershleiser, Tumblr’s Literary Community Organizer. “Rainbow is an active and beloved member of the Tumblr community,” she said, speaking to the Daily Dot via email. “She interacts with readers, but she also shares her own fandoms (Sherlock, Harry Potter, Star Trek) and talks about life and writing.”
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This book was amazing. I was given an ARC, and it was one of those books that you simultaneously don't want to put down and yet don't want to finish too soon and have it be over. I certainly had all sorts of nostalgia- but I also had some of the choices the characters faced leave me sobbing in my bathtub from other, less wonderful memories.
I love that the main character doesn't have resentment for her father and his ... spoilerMHstuffspoiler... That she would chose him over any of the other ways to have grown up. That she doesn't hold resentment about when his stuff gets bad, and holds him up as a wonderful, if flawed, parent. Too few books that tackle the sort of relationship dynamic between a child and their parent ...spoilerwithmentalissuesspoiler... end up making you feel like the kid(s) would have been better off without a parent like theirs, and I didn't feel like I was coerced to feel that way here. So I value that. I value that it was honest enough about that dynamic without demonizing it. There are far too few examples of GOOD parents with his issues, and so seeing this was incredibly valuable. I have so many feels about that part.
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I Have feels because when I was younger, I had only seen bad examples of parents with mental health disabilities. I thought for sure that I was DOOMED to be a horrible parent, that I shouldn't have kids because of the instability that a parent who might need to go stay at the hospital might give. I was an adult and had my niece around before I could call that for the bull shit that it is. Even though it's clear Cather and Wren each have issues themselves, their father with mental health disabilities is still this positive force in their lives. He still tries to make the best choices he can for his daughters. And they still love him. And I wonder if I would have gone through some of the feelings around parenthood that I did if this book had been around when I was a teen. Not that there aren't some flaws around those issues in this book, but... it still feels very powerful.
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The romances were cute, and I thought that it was really cool when the entitlement of male writers was explored a little- in fact, this was a pleasant surprise to see explored, and this arc felt really maturely/well developed as far as the writer's craft goes. While the book works on the fannish nostalgia end, it also captures well this age for those for whom the typical stories about this age just don't work.













