Untitled

important to think of yourself as deserving of care. not entitled to it from any specific person but definitely deserving. it is hard sometimes to find yourself on the right side of that line but it is worth the effort to reflect on where that line is. you stop agonizing over people who don’t have the capacity to nourish you the ways you need. it hurts to realize you might care more about people than they care about you but you save a lot of energy in the long run i think, and you begin to gravitate toward the people and things who will keep you in bloom

sometimes i picture imaginary arguments with people and i think aboutwhat i would say in response to certain points and i get so heated until like 5 minutes later when i realize that the argument isnt actually happening

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