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~Aries Moon 1. Protective/Loyal 2. Authentic/Heart on sleeve 3. Attempts to learn from past mistakes

Emotional Recklessness

Allows people who have hurt/angered them to live rent-free in their inner life

Seeks justice for past betrayals in present relationships

~Taurus Moon 1. Pure intentions 2. Generous with internal and external resources 3. Relieves stress by being alone

Emotionally stoic/unresponsive

Attachment-Detachment relating style

Hedonistic behaviour as a form of emotional avoidance

~Gemini Moon 1. Always there to let you talk about it 2. Humour as a form of resilience 3. Does not dwell on negative interactions/disagreements

Purposely evasive in revealing true feelings

Troubles with anxiety

Loses sight of the bigger picture/emotional tunnel vision

~Cancer Moon 1. In touch with the inner life/responsive to the feeling state 2. Emotionally in tune with Feminine intuition 3. High emotional resilience

Lack of interpersonal boundaries

Sense of losing control

Gastric sicknesses caused by emotional distress

~Leo Moon 1. Emotional warmth and responsiveness 2. Willingness to be vulnerable/ask for help 3. Unrestrained compassion

Difficulty sitting with discomforting emotions for any amount of time

High emotional demands

Theatrics

~Virgo Moon 1. Natural 'pause to respond and not react' type 2. Finds solutions to problems at the worst of signs 3. Respectful of interpersonal boundaries

Usually emotionally unsettled by something

Conversion to gastric sickness

Tells nobody what they are going through

~Libra Moon 1. Honours the unseen struggle in others 2. Reads emotions like a book 3. Does not judge natural emotions of the human condition

Poor interpersonal boundaries

Over reliance on a certain person

Relationships as avoidance for dealing with past issues

~Scorpio Moon 1. Understands the depths of the human condition 2. People feel safe revealing traumas/secrets 3. Past pains become reborn psychic gifts

Refusal to let others in - emotional islander

Unrelenting sense of being wrong done-by

Emotional compulsions

~Sagittarius Moon 1. Genuinely interested in the experiences of others 2. Finder of the silver lining 3. Emotionally idyllic; 'the best is yet to come'

Flight or flight from anything that hurts inside

Emotional distress = hostility/frustration

Low distress tolerance

~ Capricorn Moon 1. Inner strength to confront past issues alone 2. A safe place for others 3. Wants to take care of someone

Overly internalised - shuts people out

Excess analysing of emotions/responses

Work/activity as a form of emotional avoidance

~ Aquarius Moon 1. Compassionate fascination 2. Ability to view the scenario with a clear emotional head 3. Does the inner work to respond better in the future

Intellectualises emotions to a state of numbness

Rejects advice of others

Withdraws and blames the world

~ Pisces Moon 1. Provides a safe and soothing refuge 2. Emotional telepath, experiences feelings belonging to others 3. High emotional IQ

Relationships as a form of escapism

Emotional distress = stops drinking water

Sensitivity that is taken advantage of easily

Synastry is the compatibility between two birth charts. Compatibility is much more than our sun signs, it’s also about where they land in our chart and how it affects us and how you affect them.

First House-

Having someone’s Sun in your first house can make house person feel like their life has lighten up, the house person is proud of Sun person that they want to show them off. There is just something about the Sun person that makes House person so energetic. Sun person really likes the house person over all including their style and appearance, they hype up the house person and can give them a inflated ego and encourages spontaneity. Both people have the same level of energy and behavior style, and with that can come some level of competitiveness between the two. And even with the competition, these two can bring out the best in each other. This is a common synastry for marriage. 

Second House-

This synastry overlay can be beneficial for house person, as the Sun person can give the house person fuel to become successful. Even with that energy from the Sun person, the house partner can still get a feeling like the house person wants something even though the Sun partner wants to help house explore their creativity and with achieving both of their goals. There is risk of becoming financially dependent on one another as both partners can be generous with each other. This isn’t necessarily a romantic synastry, but it can work. If there are negative aspects, there may be a more focus on material things and there could be resentment for material gain on either partner.

Third House-

Up late all night with nothing but talking. Having someone’s sun in the third house over lay brings stimulating conversations. There’s a similar intellectual interests and both partners could talk about trivia things all day and never get bored of each other. A strong mental connection comes with this over lay, unless badly aspected there is not many miscommunication between the two. Sun person makes the house person feel understood and appreciated and gets their gears going with debates. The Sun partner sees the house person as someone with good common sense and finds them to have some brilliance to them. They see the house person doing certain things right and they can find them a little predictable but they’re comfortable with that. A good synastry for writing partners. Romantic relationships are achievable with this overlay. 

Fourth House-

There is an instant connection when someone’s sun lands in another person’s fourth house. Sun person reminds the house person of someone they know or comfortable with and ends up providing some sort of safe place for the Sun person to be able to talk freely about deep family issues and such. These two can feel like they’ve known each other their whole lives, even just having met, there is a deep sense of familiarity that can’t be ignored. Sun person can feel like they are meant to be together and can become protective of the house person. The house person can feel the same way and just from being around the sun person they feel a sense of security. The feeling of home is what these two people feel like. This is a very strong overlay for marriage/long-term relationships, there may even be a strong desire to move in together quickly and build a home. 

Fifth House-

A very active, fun-having, and very social overlay. Having someone’s sun in the fifth house can push each other to have more fun than the other, hanging out all night whether its with just each other or at social events both partners will enjoy. They enjoy playing and hanging out each other and there is a genuine care feeling for one another. There is a risk of burn out or feeling frustrated with each other if other aspects don’t normally work out. Sun partner see house as a source of enjoyment and pleasure and they can wear rose-colored glasses and over look the house partner’s flaws. ’Beauty’ is what the house person thinks is when they see the Sun person, and the Sun person adores all the praise and admiration from house and has so much love for them. Both are able to enjoy each other romantically and sexually. A strong romantic and marital overlay, couple may even talk about having children together.

Sixth House-

There is a submissive feel when it comes to someone’s sun in the other person’s sixth house overlay, and no not what you think as in sexually. This is more of a boss/assistant type of relationship. The sun person gets weird feeling about how the house person goes about handling their daily tasks and tries to show them how to do things in a better way of handling them. Even though there is a chance for either partners to become the more submissive one, it’s usually the Sun person who becomes the submissive one. The house partner can micro-manage parts of the relationship even if they are enjoying the relationship with the sun. Having this overlay isn’t bad for a romance, but it is the best to have for a work relationship. If this is a work relationship, the house person could have hate towards the Sun person if they are a bad boss. 

Seventh House-

Seventh house Sun overlay makes an opposite attraction between partners. The Sun person is opposite the house person’s ascendant, and if it’s not badly aspected, these opposites complement each other. The Sun person feels like there is a lot in common with the house person and can become very supportive of them, while the house person sense more that there is truly something deep going on between each other. There is a deep movement of feelings within each other that these people are meant to be together, like a lost part of you has been missing and this person makes you feel whole and united as one person not just simply a pair. A very yin and yang type of relationship. The danger of this synastry is that the two people can become so lost in each other, losing balance, that there is a loss of personal identity and there could be rebellion against each other trying to find themselves again. A very strong commitment synastry for marriage. 

Eighth House-

If there is an eighth house over lay with the Sun in synastry, this is not a good synastry for faint-hearted people. A fear to be together that it almost feels bewitching. There is a deep mystery for the Sun person who is so captivated by the house person and even though the house partner can make the Sun person feel so unsettling, like something is telling them that the house partner is disturbing or too mysterious, the Sun person has a hard time trying to gain the will to leave. The house person awakens something in the Sun partner, something that not even the Sun person knew about, and wants to try to transform the Sun partner for the better, not everyone one surrounding the situation is going to be pleased by this. For the house partner, there is such a strong need for the Sun person that if the Sun partner wanted to leave, the house person may refuse to let go. There is an emotional dependency with these two people that it is scary for both partners.

Ninth House-

Similar world views and philosophies on a wide variety of subjects, novelty subjects and even deep religion views, there’s an expansion of knowledge and ideas when someone’s Sun is in another’s ninth house. The house partner stimulates new creativity in the Sun person with their own knowledge, while the Sun person helps the house partner open up to a whole new view of the world. There is a rise in adventurous attitude, a want to try new things with each other, even if there is a bit of risk to it, both partners feel like they have a whole new zest of energy they get from each other. This is a great synastry for educated friends and traveling synastry, even marriage.

Tenth House-

With having the Sun in the tenth house in synastry, this can be great for a couple who work together or even a political relationship. Each person admires the other’s looks and talents, and being with each other just feels more confident in the relationship. There is a chance that each other are able to help one another in their jobs. The Sun person helps the house be inspired with their career or creative work while the house person helps with lighten the work burden fears and limitations of the Sun partner. Even though this is not a very romantic overlay, one or both partners can look up to the other in awe and admiration.

Eleventh House-

These two can talk for days and share pretty similar ideas and can seem like they have a two-of-a-kind friendship. Even as lovers, they are both that and best friends, having the Sun in the eleventh house in overlays brings much support from both partners. The Sun partner shines and inspires the house person to go out and reach goals and become somewhat of a social asset for them, while the Sun partner feels comfortable around the house person and can feel at ease knowing they are with someone who can create this non-judgemental space for them. Even though this is not a deep emotional relationship synastry, still is a good aspect to have.

Twelfth House-

absolutely!

mars person is very protective over the moon person

there is a general feeling of safety and protection from one another in this relationship

the moon person helps the mars person open up more and be more vulnerable

instant deep attraction to one another

a passion that stays alive throughout the course of the relationship

physical intimacy is often very romantic and emotionally charged

the mars person helps the moon person become more confident and allows them full expression in the relationship

natural connection with an easy rapport between the two

pda to the max

lots of both physical & verbal affection (depending on signs)

potential negatives:

those in this connection may become too possessive or protective

mars person may shelter the moon person too much

the moon person may be treated as the mars person's therapist; taking on too much emotional baggage

mars person may at times be too aggressive/demanding for the moon person; feelings can get hurt

moon person at times may try to "put out the flames" of the mars person too much (ie: trying to tie them down/control them when they don't want that)

due to the instability of the moon and the aggression of mars: this relationship may be prone to lots of arguments (heated, serious ones) if other aspects are not soft/harmonious

not exactly accurate since it's mostly based on personal experience so you have the option to ignore it. take what you need, leave what you don't. it's time to spread some love.

Aries Venus - genuine and unafraid of showing it. receiving a love like yours makes me feel like i mean the world, maybe it's because they're opposite of libra? being on the receiving end of your affection makes me feel like i'm the main character of a show. you've taught me to be open about my affections, that life is too short for me to be hiding what i feel towards someone i actually give a shit about. letting someone know that you're being genuine, i learned to adopt that. because of you i learned to give people the love they deserve, especially you. straightforwardness and honesty catches most people off guard but when i tell you how much they appreciate that, it makes me feel like i can trust you.

Taurus Venus - how do you always know what i need? especially with gifts, it's almost scary when i think about it. whenever i'm in a shitty headspace you happen to come up with something that always shifts my mood. whether it be a small present, some food, or simply offering to do something relaxing yet fun - something healing. when physically affectionate, your touch is grounding when i'm too lost inside my mind. i like being in your space, especially when in a crowd of people. you keep me so safe, please don't let me go.

Gemini Venus - spontaneous and random and so so exciting, and maybe it's because i'm a gemini moon but i love the conversations we have, it's so entertaining and i couldn't have asked for better. you understand me , jumping from one topic to another. you made me embrace chaos, being the odd one in any situation. random memes, random trips, random thoughts. all that stuff makes me feel appreciated and i don't think you realize that. keep doing you, don't suppress the way you are. a little bit of a mad hatter, a little bit of a jack of all trades. i hope you know how impressive that is. that's power.

Cancer Venus - oh you little heartbreaker. i've had experience with one of you and might i say do i just feel so soft, like i can just be at home and be me. you're so good in love, so amazing at making your partner feel loved. tell me, how do you do it. how is it that when you love, the happiness of your partner is also your happiness as well. you made me feel safe enough to be vulnerable, you're so dangerous. with the blessing of the moon and venus, you hold more power in love than you would think.

Leo Venus - i hate to be cliche but you really are my sunshine, you entered my life and opened my eyes to more than the cynicism i was used to while i was growing up. i know sometimes it feels like you're the one sucking up to people and you don't get any compliments in return but baby, when i say that i notice people envying the way you hold yourself. you're not too much and neither are your standards. im honored to have been at the receiving end of your love. not everyone can say that and in the end you transformed me into a better person. maybe just like the sun, you helped me find my own center of gravity in life. although tell me, is it a guilty pleasure that you like making people feel jealous with what you have knowing that it’s something good. it’s high praise isn’t it.

Virgo Venus - i want to spoil you with everything i have. you're too good to me, too good. with people that you genuinely care about, that you sincerely feel for, you tend to do everything even through the littlest things that you notice and sometimes it probably feels like you're doing too much and not getting recognized for it but god c'mere, i can't even begin to thank you how you really make a difference in my day. let me serve you the way you did to me. let me give you a day where we let the world succumb into nothingness, where we can focus on nothing but ourselves for once. there’s no standard to reach, just us.

Libra Venus - yearning for the love you feel like you'll never get, makes you sentimental doesn't it? you tend to give what you receive with people, don't you. "oh they did it like this, they must like if i do the same to them." power imbalance in relationships doesn't settle well with you and i have so much respect for you because of that. sometimes you don't feel like the true romantic you're described to be. i bet you think to yourself sometimes that romantic love isn't even necessary, why do you yearn for it so bad. that's fine. really. love will come to you, believe in that.

Scorpio Venus - you once told me you tend to get disappointed often because when someone expresses interest in you, you can almost immediately tell it's surface-level. sometimes you give them a chance and more often than not, they back out and you can tell it's because they're either underwhelmed or overwhelmed, or maybe both. with certain people, either you give it your all or a just a sneak peak of what's to come. you say to me that you hope you meet someone who holds the ocean in their heart the way you do with yours.

Sagittarius Venus - there's actual wisdom you hold that you share with special people around you. you talk about your experiences from somewhere, with someone. there's a lot you can say about it and i wonder if you've ever been given the chance to actually really talk about them, how you felt at that time, to share what it was like. perhaps that’s what you’ve always been looking for, to be heard when you share certain experiences, for people to listen when you talk about what that shit taught you. after being with you, i realized how people often misunderstand you. i wish i could hug you to make you feel better.

Capricorn Venus - i think you're afraid of love. not necessarily love but something else about it. you're different from the prince and princesses in fairytales that people often fantasize about and neither are you the same as those ones in the books they read, you're aware of that. it's when you fall for someone that you're scared because you might not be able to give them the type of love they desire. you love differently and it makes you hesitate, always. you might think it's not gonna be enough, nor will it help. don't push yourself to change yourself too much, especially when it starts feeling wrong.

Aquarius Venus - you get confused sometimes, i noticed. it's something about how some people love each other that you don't understand, you don't get how some people love the way they do but oh well, that's none of your business, just a thought is all. you and i sat down one time and you talked about how you still have feelings for the same person even after years, and you tell me how you don't like overly committed relationships. it's those with space that last longer. smothering someone quickly loses air, next thing you know they're gasping for air somewhere with someone else to save them.

Pisces Venus - it’s the songs that remind you of the person you love that make me wish i had someone like you in my life. it’s finding the meaning in little things, making things feel more special than they should be. maybe it’s Neptune giving the fever dream-like effect, or maybe that’s just who you are. sometimes i feel like you’re in pain with love, you know how they feel, you feel it in your gut but at the same time you don’t and that confuses you because why would they react this way if they were feeling something different. it’s like you know who they are subconsciously but their conscious decisions confuse you, why are they not following their instinct? i’m not sure either to answer you but your love is transformative, on a wholly different level.

Made this thread on Twitter @starseedtwenty (follow for all my updates) and thought I’d share it here.

🌹 Aries Venus 🌹

- They love in a way: That is loud, proud and full of passion. They don’t think twice or get indecisive or play cat & mouse when they are interested in you. They give what they can from the jump, and try to make you theirs in whatever way they can, BUT if you play weird as time goes they *shake their head* and just move on from you w/o you even knowing it.

- What they seek: A love that is sure, steady and wholesome. They want to know and feel that you are their person and are not scared to show that. They want a love that is active (in bed, in life, in any situation) and not something that’s boring. A love where you guys can be direct and open with each other.

- Things not to do with them: Don’t play games or play hard to get for too long (just enough to lure them in, after you get them, be softer). Don’t contemplate too much or wonder too much if you should do, be, have, say, etc, anything with them (just let yourself be, because with them you can be comfortable). And don’t love them more than you love yourself (they are loveable beings, but if you give too much, it slightly shows a lack of self-respect which turns them off very quickly).

- Most Compatible with: Venus in Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Capricorn.

🌹 Taurus Venus 🌹

- They love in a way: That is honest, dependable and very supportive. Their love is a perfect mix of poetic and traditional (making them husband/wifey material, even if they don’t wanna admit it). They know how to stick by your side through thick and thin, unless you truly, truly hurt them, then they have no choice but to leave. But on the down low, they really don’t mind spending forever with you when they love you.

- What they seek: A love that is genuine, stable and long-term, a love that they can write a story about and tell to their grandchildren while they both sit in the nursery home holding hands, a love that contains devotion, support, and pleasure. Their partner must also be able to please all five sense and give all five love languages [because they know how to please & give them all as well].

- Things not to do with them: Don’t be flaky or hard to ground (they can sense that easily and it will turn them off) because their love is patient and grounded. Do not rush them, do not rush what you want with them (let them be and they’ll come around if they really like you, but do make sure to show your love). And do not be aggressive, no matter what.

- Most Compatible with: Venus in Taurus, Cancer, Capricorn, Pisces.

🌹 Gemini Venus 🌹

- Love in a way: That is fun, open-minded and stimulating. Their love is pretty much something out of the movies, an experience for books. You can’t say you’re bored with them cause they make you laugh, think, and feel like you can be weird with them. They love in a way that just makes you feel like ‘as long as I’ve got you, life’s a breeze’ because rough situations become lighter, and happy times become a more enjoyable experience.

- What they seek: A love that’s full of memories, laughter, joy and great experiences. They want you to be their best friend as well as their partner in one. They want to feel like they can share their dumbest thoughts as well as their deepest secrets with you. They want someone who they can laugh out loud with and be open to their ideas of things to do, as well as someone who can hug them and cry with when they’re sad and won’t make them feel weird, just always be there with them.

- Things not to do with them: Don’t dumb them down and make them feel incompetent, feel bad or feel weird or as if they’re a bore (like them for who they are or move along). Do not be too serious or boring, because they will get bored rather quick (be fun and comfortable to be around, if they have an idea, be open to it). And don’t pressure them to make decisions or plans or anything like that (they like it when it’s a joint decision that’s cool for both of you guys).

- Most Compatible with: Venus in Gemini, Libra, Aquarius, Sagittarius.

🌹 Cancer Venus 🌹

- Love in a way that: That is caring, gentle and sensitive to your needs. They are pretty sweet and tender when they love you a lot and hope that you are to. They are also rather shy and coy though, so they aren’t very assertive with their love, but hope that you can sense them and that they can sense you as well and give you the love that you need. Either way, their love is just one that is soft and feels like a warm hug in a cold day.

- What they seek: A love that is pure, consistent and feels like home. Sometimes their emotions (with Cancer being ruled by the moon) can fluctuate and they can run to their shell when they’re feeling sad or just not feeling up to much, so they seek someone who’s able to stick with their moods sometimes, and love them wholly for who they are. They want a love that overall kind, nurturing and emotionally supportive.

- Things not to do with them: Do not be cold or insensitive to them (they don’t take it lightly, and will cut you off). Don’t be superficial or aloof (have depth and authenticity, that’s a huge tick for them). Don’t be laidback and relaxed in your efforts to get them, they are already pretty shy so if you’re also shy or laidback it does nothing (show them that you want them and be serious, but don’t be aggressive, do it in a gentle manner).

- Most Compatible with: Venus in Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Pisces.

🌹 Leo Venus 🌹

- Love in a way: That is warm, youthful, and confident. [Since Leo is ruled by the Sun] They let their love shine to you and hit the rays to everyone, enough to make people envious of how much they love their partner. They don’t mind grand gestures and also like the little gestures of love (in giving and in receiving). Their love is basically 'power couple’ mixed with 'two little kids who like each other and end up being sweethearts til old age’.

- What they seek: A love that’s wholesome, fun and cool. A love that’s childlike enough where you guys can run/race on the sand at the beach on a sunny day and play outdoor games, as well as mature enough where you guys can handle adulthood together and talk about deep stuff in a way where it’s not weird. A love where people are jealous of what you guys have.

- Things not to do with them: Don’t hide your feelings or act weird with them if you like them (be honest, open, confident and warm). Don’t pick at their faults or insecurities (look at the good sides, not the bad sides). And don’t humiliate them ever. EVER (be respectful and honorable).

- Most Compatible with: Venus in Aries, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius.

🌹 Virgo Venus 🌹

- Love in a way: That is kind, attentive and a little unpredictable. They have versatility, so some moments they will show their love, and other moments they will become shy or just fall back. It’s just something they do, doesn’t mean they love you less, (ac if you still love them through their weird moments, they love you more). They also love in a way where they sense you and feel like they should know what to do or say, making them pretty intuitive.

- What they seek: A love that is compassionate, steady, and a love that seems perfect. It doesn’t even have to be, but if it feels like it then it’s fine. They want something where they feel loved and understood. Because they love in a way that is steady (like in a way, they’re always ready to give you love and be compassionate in their actions) they want something that’s reciprocated like that as well.

- Things not to do with them: Don’t be dramatic or wild or extreme with things you do (that turns them off pretty quickly, because “why are you embarrassing me/yourself?” is their question). Don’t look like a mess who can’t take care of themselves (a clean, independent, well-spoken person is a big turn on for them). Don’t look for things deeply when it’s all simple (be logical and smart and realistic).

- Most Compatible with: Venus in Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn.

🌹 Libra Venus 🌹

- Love in a way: That is assertive, sensual, and giving. They love as if they are writing a romantic novel and they are the main character. They love in a way where they are very much able to share and see you as a companion, and give what they can to the relationship. They are able to prioritize you as their partner, as well as prioritize themselves and see themselves as the coolest beings, which is how they are able to be assertive. But they get butthurt if you don’t appreciate them.

- What they seek: A love that is balanced, aesthetical and romantic. The keyword here is balanced. They want a fusion of everything. Something deep and also lighthearted. Something fiery and also relaxed. Something adventurous and also homey. Something traditional and also modern/futuristic. Something routine-like and also unpredictable. They want it all, and they want to experience it with someone who wants it like this just as much as they do.

- Things not to do with them: Do not be extreme or go overboard in the way you do things [with them] (have a balance and give just enough). Do not be to shy or laidback/lame either (that turns them off as well because they don’t want to give too much either, they want to be met halfway). And don’t rush them or pressure them in a way (they will get turned off so quick).

- Most Compatible with: Venus in Gemini, Leo, Libra, Aquarius.

🌹 Scorpio Venus 🌹

- Love in a way: That is  deep, intense, and fulfilling. They love so deep that sometimes it hurts them, they just have this ocean of love inside of them and they want to pour it out so bad, yet they get scared or overthink and end up just holding back or giving little drops. If they were to give the love they have, it would be overwhelming to some, which is why they hold back sometimes. For some though, who love something deep and sensual, then a Scorpio venus is perfect for them.

- What they seek: A love that is genuine, and emotional, and transformational. One that makes them feel that there is a lot going on. A load of emotions, a load of thoughts, a load of memories, a load of experiences, and all of it is authentic and true, something that cannot be faked or found anywhere else. Something like a thrill but deeper and more long-term, and they feel comfortable enough to let out all that they feel for you, and you will still stick by them forever.

- Things not to do with them: Don’t be fake or superficial (they don’t care about the 'outer’ things, they love the inner things). Don’t hide or keep stuff from them ('honesty is the best policy’ is the biggest note to keep if you’re dealing them. Even if it hurts them, they want what’s real). And don’t be seasonal (stick with them through the dark and the light, not just when you feel like it).

- Most Compatible with: Venus in Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces.

🌹 Sagittarius Venus 🌹

- Love in a way: That is enticing, philosophical, and very enthusiastic. They love in a way that’s enthusiastic/dramatic because they are living for the moment and they like to give their all (being ruled by Jupiter) when they can. In some ways they are also pretty philosophical, so their love can be one where you give and gain knowledge with them or just generally expand your mind through their thoughts and actions. Which is why travelling is something they love.

- What they seek: A love that is liberating, fiery, and about the bigger things. A love that is a breathe of fresh air where they feel understood and they can learn a lot from you and you from them. A love where you make them think, make them laugh, and make them feel free & cool. Just a love where you can go on adventures for a lifetime with them.

- Things not to do with them: Don’t ever be a nag or someone who’s highly opinionated or likes to criticize all the time (major turn off for them). Do not try to pin them down or force them to commit to something (they probably might if they like you, but secretly check out if they feel like you’re caging their freedom). Don’t be repetitive, especially with something that’s boring. 

- Most Compatible with: Venus in Aries, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius.

🌹 Capricorn Venus 🌹

- Love in a way: That has self-control and is respectful and mature. They love with a lot of maturity, my goodness. They know how to be serious about what they have with you when they truly love you, and with them, they’d hate to loose you (especially after establishing a solid foundation) which makes breaking up a far-fetched idea if they love you. But well, if you hurt them or act immature or become unfaithful to them, they can and will leave you, after much consideration.

- What they seek: A love that is serious, secure and long-term. A patient love that doesn’t stress them or make them feel shaky, as if it’s something for fun or short-term. They obvs want something fun, but something *for fun* is not that interesting to them, they won’t see you as 'a keeper’ if there’s that vibe. They want a serious and more committed love has faith and dedication to the connection, this comforts them a lot.

- Things not to do with them: Do not be aggressive or dramatic or whine too much (maturity turns them on more than anything). Don’t act immature and be too flaky or playful or indecisive (it gives them an 'unserious’ vibe which they don’t like). Don’t be overly sensitive or emotional (cause they won’t know what to do or say, since they’re chilled/mature with their emotions).

- Most Compatible with: Venus in Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn.

🌹 Aquarius Venus 🌹

- Love in a way: That is quirky, transparent and very cool. Aquarius are masters of making things seem cool (or at least try to), and so with Venus being there, so is their love. A cool, vibrant, funny, quirky love, that is quite transparent. They have not much to hide, if they love you, they’ll show you, if they don’t, then there’s nothing to show. They are also chilled and generous with their love, so they show it to everyone, and may show you that same side they show to another person/stranger.

- What they seek: A love that is interesting, communicative, and down to earth. An interesting love to them is one that keeps them feeling refreshed and free to be their weird selves (as well as see your cool, weird side) and not conjoined or 'caged’ in something boring. They want to think and communicate funny and cool stuff with you, and for you to be the same. They want something worth giving their shy feelings to, something warm and comfortable, but not overwhelming or possessive.

- Things not to do with them: Do not be possessive or clingy or overwhelming with your emotions to them (it rubs them off lol). Don’t be fake or pretentious (keep it real with them, in a chilled way. they appreciate honesty a lot). Don’t be arrogant and loud, especially in a negative way (be humble, but love yourself and show it).

- Most Compatible with: Venus in Aries, Gemini, Libra, Aquarius.

🌹 Pisces Venus 🌹

- Love in a way: That is dreamy, devoted and never-ending. When they love, they loooove. They don’t give just the hand or half an arm, they give their entire body, and they love with their whole heart, unlike any other sign. It’s amazing. They are also very forgiving. But with all of this, they are also very sensitive, so they get hurt easily and the more you hurt them, the more closed-off they become, without you even noticing. Other than that, their love is also almost movie-like because of how dreamy and unrealistic they want it to be.

- What they seek: A love that is comfortable, faithful and kind. What they want it someone who is compassionate, someone who is also spiritual or believes in fateful/universal energies, and someone who makes them feel understood with their crazy little mind that can overthink. Their hearts can also overlove, so they want someone who can be the cup for them to pour their love into, and not someone who will run away or play games with their love. They are also ready to receive and be a cup to your love if it’s as caring and dedicated as theirs, though their love can sometimes seem hidden or unspoken, but they feel it.

- Things not to do with them: Do not be rough or cold (be gentle in a stern way). Don’t take them for granted (idk how many times I’ve seen Pisceans not being loved enough when they’re there, but cried for when they’re gone. you will regret it if you don’t appreciate what they have to give). And don’t be too honest/blunt or boring (things must be funnier and sweeter than they are. they like the dream/movie/fantasy state of things, you stating the reality bores them).

- Most Compatible with: Venus in Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces.

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~Aries Moon 1. Protective/Loyal 2. Authentic/Heart on sleeve 3. Attempts to learn from past mistakes

Emotional Recklessness

Allows people who have hurt/angered them to live rent-free in their inner life

Seeks justice for past betrayals in present relationships

~Taurus Moon 1. Pure intentions 2. Generous with internal and external resources 3. Relieves stress by being alone

Emotionally stoic/unresponsive

Attachment-Detachment relating style

Hedonistic behaviour as a form of emotional avoidance

~Gemini Moon 1. Always there to let you talk about it 2. Humour as a form of resilience 3. Does not dwell on negative interactions/disagreements

Purposely evasive in revealing true feelings

Troubles with anxiety

Loses sight of the bigger picture/emotional tunnel vision

~Cancer Moon 1. In touch with the inner life/responsive to the feeling state 2. Emotionally in tune with Feminine intuition 3. High emotional resilience

Lack of interpersonal boundaries

Sense of losing control

Gastric sicknesses caused by emotional distress

~Leo Moon 1. Emotional warmth and responsiveness 2. Willingness to be vulnerable/ask for help 3. Unrestrained compassion

Difficulty sitting with discomforting emotions for any amount of time

High emotional demands

Theatrics

~Virgo Moon 1. Natural 'pause to respond and not react' type 2. Finds solutions to problems at the worst of signs 3. Respectful of interpersonal boundaries

Usually emotionally unsettled by something

Conversion to gastric sickness

Tells nobody what they are going through

~Libra Moon 1. Honours the unseen struggle in others 2. Reads emotions like a book 3. Does not judge natural emotions of the human condition

Poor interpersonal boundaries

Over reliance on a certain person

Relationships as avoidance for dealing with past issues

~Scorpio Moon 1. Understands the depths of the human condition 2. People feel safe revealing traumas/secrets 3. Past pains become reborn psychic gifts

Refusal to let others in - emotional islander

Unrelenting sense of being wrong done-by

Emotional compulsions

~Sagittarius Moon 1. Genuinely interested in the experiences of others 2. Finder of the silver lining 3. Emotionally idyllic; 'the best is yet to come'

Flight or flight from anything that hurts inside

Emotional distress = hostility/frustration

Low distress tolerance

~ Capricorn Moon 1. Inner strength to confront past issues alone 2. A safe place for others 3. Wants to take care of someone

Overly internalised - shuts people out

Excess analysing of emotions/responses

Work/activity as a form of emotional avoidance

~ Aquarius Moon 1. Compassionate fascination 2. Ability to view the scenario with a clear emotional head 3. Does the inner work to respond better in the future

Intellectualises emotions to a state of numbness

Rejects advice of others

Withdraws and blames the world

~ Pisces Moon 1. Provides a safe and soothing refuge 2. Emotional telepath, experiences feelings belonging to others 3. High emotional IQ

Relationships as a form of escapism

Emotional distress = stops drinking water

Sensitivity that is taken advantage of easily

About Aqua Venus with Pluto Influences

Hello!

Aqua Venus natives on their core loves freedom. Freedom in here is interpreted as them liking incommital relation in any form. Labeless relationship oftentimes become their forte, no matter how commited their other placements may be

With Pluto/8th house influences tho, oftentimes this comes in form of them not having many commited relationship. They may only have 1-2 exes (actual exes) though many times too, they are involved in again situationship or uncommited connection

This happens cuz their Aqua Venus need that variation of people but introverted nature of Pluto/8th house influences cause them to be quite rarely make it to the whole relationship

It's also a common fact that due to Saturn and Pluto influences, the relation tend to already problematic in the beginning, so it's quite impossible to continue to the next step

Even with that Pluto influences, they are really easily bored. Talking about yourself all the time bore them. Mentally stimulating relation is the must for Aqua Venus regardless of that Pluto/8th house influences

Pluto aspecting Aqua Venus may means that he most likely gonna develop some obsessive behaviors toward the romantic interest esp if the synastry also enable that (Pluto/8th house synastry). But do realize that Aqua Venus' obsession in this term is odd one. It's not like Scorpio Venus/Venus in 8th house where the obsession is as cleas as glass. Their obsession is a mix of not wanting someone to go while also detached

So hot and cold thing commonly happen here. They may memorize some things about you, pay attention about your activities, and other things. But they will always seem detached to you. If you are type of someone who need to be shown every clear sign that they are into you, they won't do that

All of this is cuz of Aqua Venus' philosophy: they can like someone but they still reevaluate if things will work out between you and them. Also if you're good enough for them. Saturnian standard is immovable even with that Pluto/8th house influences

This person too I have to say may take a very long time to commit. He really need to see the person through thickest and thinnest. Sometimes the relation may even go labeless for 8 years. But when he is finally sure or not wanting to lose you if he doesn't commit, he'll commit

But even with that, some of these Aqua Venus natives are already way too comfortable with labeless relation that they won't turn it into official since they already think "well it's no different with what we already have right? It's just a name anyway"

Hope that helps!

Venus-Saturn aspects sucks. The best thing you can do with this aspect is just cut yourself a little bit of slack, try and get more self-confidence and love yourself. I know that’s easier said than done.

🌟 venus conjunct saturn: 

holding back in love/hard time expressing your feelings, scared of trusting others. 

scared of rejection.

late bloomers. might be scared of getting into relationships because you’re scared of failure or getting close to people.

you might come across as cold, but its just a wall you put up to protect yourself. 

isolation is common with this aspect. 

definitely a “ride or die” type of person once you’re in love

the main problem you’ll have to overcome with this aspect is self love. you suffer with self confidence and self love (be comfortable with who you are and please don’t let others influence how you feel about yourself!)

feeling like you don’t deserve love, this could be one of the main reasons why you’re scared of getting close to other people

you can can feel lonely at times.

lost feelings of self worth & love

you might have high beauty standards and bring yourself down because of them. thinking you’re ugly or worthless but don’t worry later in life you will get more self esteem!

Hey there! 💕 You’re plenty lovable 💕 You have your own charm and people do like you, it’s just a matter of understanding yourself that’s going to help 💕 

[Below Cut: Natal Venus-Square-Pluto and How To Help ]

Indicators of a ‘late bloomer’ in relationships

Although I think having chiron and pluto in 1st doesn’t rlly affect in terms of being a late bloomer in relationships, you could check your saturn, and some of these aspects listed below!

🌞 I think taurus in 7th could indicate being a late bloomer in relationships as taurus is a sign that takes it slow and search for stability so placed in the 7th house which regards the relationship and love, they could be late in starting long term relationships as they're searching for mutual commitment.

🌞 Chrion in 5th & 7th, as chiron is the asteroid known as the wounded healer, chiron who was a centur who could not heal himself, despite being a healer and teacher. It represents our deepest wound and our efforts to heal the wound. Having chiron in those houses could affect the progression(may slow down) of the themes of the house, 5th house is having fun and seeking romance, love, and 7th house is about relationships, longterm ones, and marriage.

🌞 Saturn in 4th, 5th & 7th. Saturn is the planet that sometimes teaches life lessons through responsibility and certain hardships and its themes surround self discipline, limitation, and restriction. Having saturn in those houses could lead to the restriction or prioritization of love, maybe long term relationships are not wut they desire for now hence the self discipline and restriction theme could impact those houses that relate to relationships. (4th house covets secureness, nurture, comfort, and family) It could also create a late development of the houses themes, so long term relationships may not happen early on or be experienced.

🌞 Pluto in 2nd, 4th & 7th. Pluto the planet that is associated with renewal and rebirth (like endings and new beginnings), can affect these houses themes, like 2nd house relates to aesthetics, style, values, self worth. Pluto in 2nd could break down the values qualities and make it a lifelong problem so youd be a late bloomer because of this lifelong problem of trying to build up your self worth or aesthetic but its always being torn down/renewed. (The aforementioned houses themes like 4th & 7th are also affected)

🌞 Moon square/opposite saturn, venus square saturn. Usually they feel stuck and kinda alone as saturn’s restrictive and harsh nature affects it. This can result in maturing later in life physically or emotionally and never really knowing what you want. For instance, I have moon in virgo square my saturn in cancer, I'm also a 'late bloomer' in relationships imo, as I've stayed single still compared to my friends lol despite being younger than you a bit. You could say I’m not ready to commit yet since I havent met someone that shares the same values and emotional fulfillment Im looking for.

First house-

Having someone’s Jupiter in another’s first house in synastry can bring the house person an expansion of their self view and self confidence. The Jupiter person talks and is able to open up house’s view of themselves and encourage the house partner to be their true self. Jupiter can also make the house partner feel larger than life and give them such confidence when the Jupiter person is around. The house person is able to help the Jupiter partner put into action their social, domestic, educational, or philosophical goals, they are also able to provide a way for the Jupiter partner to express their wisdom and develop on their leadership skills. This is good for any kind of relationship.

Second house-

With second house synastry with Jupiter, the Jupiter person is able to come up with plentiful of ideas on how the house partner can increase their income, Jupiter is able to see talents in house that the house partner may have not noticed before and use it to increase personal wealth for house. With the second house also representing our self value, the Jupiter person is able to bring an increase in the house partner’s self value and give them confident. The house person is able to show the Jupiter partner how to spend and budget their money better as it can feel for the house person that Jupiter is just always wanting to spend money and feels pressured by them to spend. If Jupiter is badly aspected, money then could be a sensitive topic to talk about. 

Third house-

The house of mind and communication is where Jupiter lands in when they land in someone’s third house, helping the house partner learn to expand their mind. The Jupiter person is able to bring idealism and optimism to the house partner’s world view. The house person can feel like they are uplifted with the Jupiter partner around. Nothing but endless conversations between the two, the house person is able to help the Jupiter partner find ways or outlets for their wither spiritual, educational, or cultural ideas through writing or socially. Jupiter in a ways can work as some sort of amplifier for the house person, being able to get out their ideas, house is also able to expand Jupiter’s social network. This is an excellent synastry for a teacher-student relationship as there is an ease to chat forever.

Fourth house-

Fourth house synastry with Jupiter brings the need to have a home together, the Jupiter person has a sense of security with the house partner around and being nurtured by them and is always wanting to be around the house partner. The Jupiter person is always going to want to find a bigger home for the two of them or if house person lives separately, they want to expand the house person’s home with some project. The two could notices either similarities in their family or how they were raised. The house person reminds the Jupiter partner of some important heritage or root lesson that has been forgotten. Jupiter could possibly bring the dreams of a big family or big home of the house partner’s to reality. An excellent synastry overlay for a relationship.

Fifth house-

To have someone’s Jupiter land in another’s fifth house in synastry is like an amplifier to the house person’s creativity talents, they are able to show house how to really live and enjoy life. A trigger for constant chase for recreational pleasure happens to the house person as well whenever the Jupiter partner is around. This synastry is excellent for a romantic relationship, there could even be a want of children for this couple. The house person brings out the inner child of Jupiter, helping them learn how to enjoy the luxuries of life. Jupiter can make life seems like there is no slowing down to it with the house partner. There could be difficulties for the couple to stay grounded here on earth while they are busy chasing the clouds together for the next pleasureful activity.  

Sixth house-

Sixth house synastry always brings us wanting to help others out, no difference for Jupiter here as well. The Jupiter person’s kindness can make things easy for the house partner, Jupiter is willing to help out and go above and beyond for house on chores and errands even though both partner here could really enjoy doing them together. The house person truly appreciates all that the Jupiter partner does, but there needs to be cation as the house person can easily take advantage of Jupiter and start to become demanding. House is also influenced by the Jupiter person to start doing better with regular routines and a healthier well-being. This is good for either romantic or work relationships, for work conditions, Jupiter’s presences makes the job pleasant for the house partner.

Seventh house-

The house of partnerships and relationships is where Jupiter lands when there is seventh house synastry, a happy balanced relationship can exist here, depending on all other aspects of course, these two partner can listen to each other without judgment. There may be an urge to just be together, whether that being married or just in a long term relationship and this could effect the house person more than the Jupiter partner. The house person can view the Jupiter partner as someone whose charming and generous, they are also inspired by Jupiter’s compassion. There is a sort of freedom feeling that comes to this relationship with Jupiter but the two partners will still love to be around each other. If this is a business relationship, this would be an excellent synastry for both as Jupiter can help bring in ideas for jobs together.

Eighth house-

With someone’s Jupiter falling into another’s eighth house, there is a deep intimacy that the Jupiter person brings. Jupiter is able to break down whatever walls and limits that the house partner has put up, being able to get them to open up, they are also able to help the house partner learn how to expand their consciousness. The Jupiter person may challenge the house partner’s into trying and experiencing new things and to see the world in a new view. This synastry can bring a ‘give and take’ type of effect to a relationship, and Jupiter could be the one who takes more than they give if badly aspected. The house person is able to help the Jupiter partner see things deeper, able to probe into Jupiter’s subconsciousness and can help them go through some kind of transformation. 

Ninth house-

There is much comfort for Jupiter when it lands in another person’s ninth house in synastry. The house person can look up to the Jupiter partner as some type of role model or guru and admires Jupiter’s great intelligence and knowledge. Jupiter is able to help expand the house partner’s desire to explore and learn new things or the both of them can develop a mutual interest in some sort of religious practice or some type of meditation/organization activity together. The Jupiter person is drawn to house because they can sense the higher wisdom that house posses and feels like the house partner really understands them and can act very responsive when house is talking to them.There is a mutual interest in higher education, religion, and travel together, they may even have similar views and values with domestic and family affairs and this could make good for a marital and family type relationship.

Tenth house-

There is a gain in status, position, and public recognition when there is tenth house synastry, the Jupiter person may have some background that is able to benefit the house partner’s career and they are able to get house motivated to really go out and reach their career goals. Jupiter inspires house’s vision and ideas, giving faith to house that they are able to reach their highest potential with their career. The house person could have the resources for the Jupiter partner that can help them build up their reputation for a leadership roles in their career life, they can also help keep the Jupiter partner on the ground. This pair together can seem to dazzle when they are together, they encourage each other for public success, if this is a working relationship, productivity in business can be amplified and this pairing can really help expand said business.

Eleventh house-

The house of friendship, humanity, and community is where Jupiter lands in someone’s eleventh house, the house person is able to show the Jupiter partner new ideas for technologies, humanitarian, and social issues. Jupiter here can expand the house partner’s social connections and give confidence to be a leader. Jupiter is intrigued by the house’s rebellious side and they could help house reach whatever goals they have. The two of them could have their friend circles mix with each other, the house person will be very supportive of Jupiter partner’s hopes and wishes and find that they have many things in common and because of this make very good friends and supporters. If they choose to support some social cause together, the Jupiter person will come off more optimistic and generous while the house partner could be a bit shocking and radical. In a love relationship, this will feel like you have the best person to be both your best friend and lover.

Twelfth house-

First house-

Uranus has a natural rebellion energy and in the first house in synastry, the Uranus person bring that energy into the first house of self. The Uranus person will come and demolish any illusion that the house partner is kept confined in. They help the house person overcome any fears or helps break free from the outworn patterns they have. Uranus can be looked at as a catalyst for the house partner to grow and change into a better self, they may see the Uranus person as way too “out there”, unstable, erratic and insensitive when it comes to appearances and outward personalities, and if the house is a fixed sign or just stubborn, Uranus will seem them as too restrictive and frustrating and can end the relationship. The Uranus person wants to help house embrace individuality and will push them way outside their comfort zone. If the house person is open to letting go and going with the flow instead of being so strict and wanting to stick to a plan, then the house person can learn a great deal from Uranus and may find a new found freedom and even a release of many insecurities or fears.

Second house-

Money, self value, financial and economic ideas and issues are reexamined when there is second house synastry for Uranus. Any idea that the house person had about finances, old beliefs about money, or economic security is abandoned when the Uranus partner comes around. The catalyst moment that causes Uranus to arrive is when there is a radical desire to their financial life that needs to be changed in the house’s world. Uranus here helps house think and revalue everything they hold dearest, and if house changes their ways of handling money the Uranus partner will find themselves feeling connected and have security with the house person. The Uranus person could also introduce the house partner to a new way of money or other radical ideas along with cryptocurrency to obtain money together. If this pair is married, there could be surprised windfalls with houses wealth. In some relationships and badly aspected, Uranus may influence house to make decisions about money which seem very careless in the end.

Third house-

Uranus here in the third house synastry inspires the house partner to hear out and embrace radically different ideas. The house person will feel like their worldview and possibly their mindset have just been flipped upside down when the Uranus partner enters their life. The connection between these two stem from talking about intellectually stimulating type of topics they enjoy, Uranus has this unique, interesting and unconventional perspective that feeds into house’s curiosity for information and novelty trivia, the house person might find the Uranus partner highly intelligent or completely insane. This pair can have the potential to play of of each other’s creativity, Uranus can be used as a guide who shows house to open their mind to new, taboo type subjects and helps the house partner how to be bold and daring with their personal view and with conversations.

Fourth house-

In fourth house synastry, any idea that the house person had about what was wanted for a home, a family, is all shaken up by the ideas the the Uranus person brings into when they are around. Whether the Uranus person came from a different style of family home life or not, their ideas and wants for what a family and home should be like will not be normal. Uranus will also try and help the house person break through the years and years passed down of ideas and barriers of how home life should be, bringing a shaken feeling for change. If the two were to live together, there is a high chance of living in an unusual way. The house person will want to try and bring Uranus security and constant consistency to whatever relationship they have, and the Uranus partner may be drawn to that energy from house, but depending on aspects may eventually try and self sabotage or rebel making the house person hurt or abandoned.

Fifth house-

The Uranus person brings all kinds of excitement and surprises to the fifth house person’s life, with the fifth house representing pleasure, creativity, and children expect changes to those parts of life in this synastry. There is a mutual love to have fun and explore new creative activities together. The house partner will feel like they could never be bored when the Uranus person is around because of all the rebellious energy they bring to them, house’s own drive and optimism can even fuel Uranus’ desire to change the world. If this is a love relationship, there could be some sort of freedom to the relationship that most other couples don’t usually do. The Uranus person can show house how to approach love, romance, children and even how to express creative ideas in new ways, including that if children are wanted adopting is a strong result of this synastry. If there are harsh aspects, there could be a power struggle between the two partners with the house person ending up being the one who takes the lead but Uranus refusing to follow any rules.  

Sixth house-

With sixth house synastry, the house person here will really values their routine and how they have things done. The Uranus person will of course bring some kind of challenge that disrupts and ends up rebelling against the house partner’s order of things. This is only because the Uranus partner has a unique way of dealing with errands and tasks, and both partners here are just wanting to help out, bu both of these people also like to have their own way done. House being concerned with the small details and individuals while Uranus is looking to see the bigger picture and willing to self sacrifice for the bigger gain if it worth it. A situation that needs a unique approach to solving this pair could be the answer, put together and they could work on bringing revolutionary type of ideas for their task at hand. Here the house person can feel a little crazy as well with the Uranus partner lacking in structure and organization. Uranus could help break house of any rigid routines that house had their selves locked into that needs to be changed. 

Seventh house-

If the seventh house person is in a relationship that needs to be left or if some drastic change to their love life is needed, the Uranus person coming into their life will definitely flip things around. The Uranus person finds themselves drawn towards the house partner and will want some kind of romance with them even though they will come off distant and detached. The Uranus person show house new concepts of how to experience love and relationships or different philosophical views about relationships and romance. The house person will be able to let go and work past and past relationships issue or patterns that they were used to and learn that they have outgrown those ways, Uranus has a hard time struggling with intimacy and because of them helping house learn about new ways to dealing with partners, the house partner can show Uranus about reciprocating in relationships. Whether this is a romance relationship or not, there will be some unusual and unexpected changes to happen.

Eighth house-

There is a lot of transformation when it comes to eighth house synastry for both the Uranus and house partners. The Uranus person comes into house’s life shaking up the house person’s view of power and sexuality, being able to show them new alternative or different ways of expressing sexuality. The Uranus person can help house overcome any sexual blockages, and open them up to be more spontaneous and experimental when it comes to sexual activities. The house partner could experience some healing as Uranus comes in and wants to help break the house partner of old patterns and attachments to the material world, and that may or may not involve house’s clamp attachment to their money and security. The house person can also transform the Uranus partner more here in the eighth house than any other house synastry, for this is the house of transformation and Uranus is not hidden from that and they will go through some type of deep personal change that they need to embrace. These two can have stimulated conversations over metaphysical and other taboo subjects, and they will love to uncover mysteries and conspiracies together as well.

Ninth house-

In ninth house synastry with Uranus, the Uranus person will have the house partner wanting to unexpectedly travel, expand their higher education knowledge, or if the house person is already in school then their course of study can take a drastic turn when the Uranus person comes around. The house person can feel like they are having their mind blown with the Uranus partner, Uranus enjoys it too while also having their mind expanded by the house person as well being that the ninth house is the house of knowledge. This is an mentally stimulating, invigorating and illuminating placement. The house person will appreciate the Uranus partner for their keen intelligence and quick mind. Uranus person can find themselves surrounded by chaotic and sudden changes, house person is more gracious and prefers to grow in ways that uplift others. Uranus person on the other hand may prefer sudden change over no change at all even if it is in some wild or disturbing ways .

Tenth house-

The changes that the tenth house person will experience with this Uranus synastry can be very public as the tenth house is our house of career, public and social status. The Uranus person influences the house partner into trying out advance methods when it comes to professional errands, they will also bring these changes into house’s life whether they wanted a change of scene or not. There could be a public competitive feeling between the two partners as they feel the need to encourage one another in impulsive and rash ideas to better each other or to top on or the other. The Uranus person may challenge house to think outside the box in this area of life and suggest ways to be more unique in their presentation.

Eleventh house-

Of course when in the eleventh house, whatever type of relationship is going between the Uranus person and the house person will be an unusual relationship probably from the start, house seeing the Uranus person as weird and super different from their normal peers. Meeting through friends they can show each other different interest and people. The Uranus person may come into the house person’s life to widen house’s social circle, or even may com in as a sign that the house partner needs to become more aware of social issues if they are still unknown. House learns how to stand apart from the crowd from Uranus and all while not leaving their friends altogether during the process, the house person could also connect with Uranus about their social issue ideas and help Uranus get the word out for them. Together these two could really get activism going for whatever issue they want to tackle.

Twelfth house-

First house-

Neptune in synastry falling in the first house can bring a very powerful emotional attraction between these two people. The Neptune person feels so connected to the house person possibly from the first moment, being drawn in by either house’s personality or something about their appearance they enjoy but may have a hard time describing why. It will seem at times to the couple that there is so much understanding in this relationship that it can feel like the two are psychic with each other. Neptune may give this comfort zone for the house partner with their compassionate and warmth nurturing nature. This synastry can also bring very strong rose colored glasses for Neptune on the house person’s behavior, looking over any issue that the house person may have and even idealizing them to an unhealthy point. 

Second House-

Neptune here in the second house in synastry will have the Neptune person find themselves drawn to the house person’s sense of security and their practical nature. Neptune also brings this dream like energy to help balance out the house partner’s oh so serious down-to-earth attitude. The Neptune person here can inspire house to attempt to reconnect with their dream and ideas, but they can find themselves confused at times about their own security, dreams and what they really want out of life. Strange events could affect any financial situation for these two, anything from finding weird financial leaks to Neptune being the one to risk losing the house person’s money when they try to make moves without consulting with house first.

Third house-

Conversations and communications are involved when it comes to the third house in synastry, and with Neptune in the third house can bring dreamy and stimulating conversations between these two. But there can be a lot of misunderstanding and confusion for the house person with Neptune using colorful and more creative way of communication while the house person uses a more analytical way of talking. Neptune reminds house person of the need to connect heart and mind, able to enrich each others’ strengths. There can also be so other confusion for house because the Neptune partner world view goes against when the house person knows and believes, not things that are supernatural or goes against basic sense and cannot be explained. 

Fourth house-

Fourth house person brings comfort, security, and acceptance as part of the family for the Neptune partner in this fourth house synastry. There is a strong emotional psychic interactions when these two are together, nostalgia and reminiscing about the past is shared as well, these two may even develop the need to have a dream home together where there it can be a place of tranquility and spiritualism. Neptune person can help house person tend to and heal emotional needs, family or domestic traumas and old wounds that stem from childhood giving them help and strength to overcome those issues and develop a better foundation for a family. If Neptune is badly aspected, both be subject to disorderly or confused domestic environment. The Neptune person can feel misunderstood or rejected by house or both could end up aggravating each other to the point of the end of the relationship.

Fifth house-

Having someone’s Neptune fall in the fifth house in synastry can bring either highly creative energy or a romance that involves a very deep connection, no matter the relationship with Neptune there will more than likely be a karmic like connection for these two. The Neptune person wants this deep emotional connection with house partner and they may find themselves to be attracted to house’s sense of fun and playfulness, the house person could be attracted to Neptune’s mysticism and fantasy like nature. Neptune here helps the house partner get in touch with their creativity and will endure to their feelings regarding their self-expression and will try to be very supportive. There are chances that this aspect doesn’t make a relationship last long because one or both partners are seeking out for pleasure and not a long term situation. 

Sixth house-

No matter what house that Neptune falls in synastry, there will be mystery to it as well as confusion to the house. For the sixth house person, they may have a routine they enjoy but as soon as Neptune comes along, Neptune partner can make house person question some of their beliefs that is the foundation of their routines and plans because of their dream like, mystic ideas they bring to the partnership. If these two are working together, Neptune may more than likely be the one that goofs up a job that house is serious about doing, house partner will feel like the Neptune person is inefficient and useless at work as it can seem at times that Neptune daydreams the work day away. Neptune will find that house person may overly criticize and come off as insensitive as they come. 

Seventh house-

Feeling like the two are in a romance movie is the feeling these two can have when Neptune falls in the seventh house in synastry. There is an idealization of each other that isn’t necessarily bad, but if someone is dishonest in the paring then reality could set in where someone realizes that this relationship looks over issues and pushes them away to be forgotten. Neptune person may enter house’s life as a catalyst for house to learn about codependency and boundaries in relationships. Individualism could be lost when Neptune partner is around because house forgets what their own preferences and wants are, instead losing themselves in the Neptune person. There can be cooperation in partnerships related to art, music or entertainment choices, however this it is not a good combination for most business partnerships as the Neptune person can be a confusing influence on the house person. 

Eight house-

There is potential for both spiritual and psychological healing within this eighth house Neptune synastry. Here both partners will seek out intimacy and a deep connection through their sexuality. Both should also be mindful of boundaries as house person can come off as dominating and have this awful influence over the Neptune partner. House person can show Neptune the lesson they need to assert themselves and bring out their power they have yet to embrace. At the same time, Neptune person can trigger house’s feelings and bring confusion. When situations involving finances can become complicated or suspicious surrounding shared money. Most of the time however the Neptune person will be generous with house, and this needs to be watch carefully as house person may have many other financial duties that require additional support of the Neptune person.

Ninth house-

Neptune falling in the ninth house of synastry can bring a lot of spiritual changes, the house person could help Neptune partner work through and push through their comfort zone and wonder into new spiritual beliefs. The Neptune person helps house find their way to feeling accomplished through having building up confidence and have faith in their intuition. Neptune person also help house person find their creativity and bring their skills to ripeness. If these two ever decide to travel together they are more than likely to come across some deep mystical experiences abroad. Both partners could have an interest in going to places that are away from it all, quiet or peaceful anywhere the two of them can be away from it all. If badly aspected, these two can get each other involved in a some kind of cult.

Tenth house-

In tenth house Neptune synastry, business and career become involved. The Neptune person may have put the house partner on this pedestal or idealize them highly. House partner finds inspiration in the Neptune person’s unique, mysterious personality. Neptune could be looked up to like a guru helping the house person develop leadership skills by embracing spirituality, creativity and new age ideals. Neptune person also can help, house can discover the importance of building relationships and tending to the emotional needs of others in order to advance professionally. Neptune person brings heart and creativity to house’s ambitious career life. Neptune can help advance the career of house person through their intuitive abilities and imagination in fields related to art and entertainment. 

Eleventh house-

Friends and humanitarian are themes of the eleventh house, so when in synastry someone’s Neptune lands in another person’s eleventh house it is common for both to have an interest in helping humanity advance. The Neptune person can show the house person how to be less judgmental and more accepting of people. Neptune person on the other hand can also soften some of house’s edges, helping them relate to with others. House could be a rugged individualist while Neptune person wants to completely immerse themselves in other people’s energy. House may be concerned with social issues and justice on a community level, and they are also able to help the Neptune partner break out of their comfort zone and join groups and organizations that further their interest for bringing change.

Twelfth house-

Note: this isn’t a post about the best aspects - or the worst - a synastry chart can have, there’s no universal good or bad, only energy. This post analyzes the aspects I have personally experienced in different relationships throughout my life and how they manifested in the connection.

A single synastry aspect will never be enough to define a connection, as it’s very important to look at the chart as a whole and find a way to balance things out. If you’re interested in synastry or natal astrology, I’d advise you to get a chart interpretation done by a professional. Find out more here!

The best

Moon conjunct Asc (ascendant/rising sign) (☾ ☌Asc): one of the safest, most harmonious and tranquil relationships I have ever had. With this aspect there’s mutual intuitive understanding, comfort, and a feeling of “coming home” when together. The Moon person trusts the Asc person, which helps make the latter more empathetic and understanding. Both feel at ease with each other and easily open up about memories, thoughts and traumas they were reluctant to share with others, or perhaps never discussed openly before. This aspect usually brings personal healing for both partners with it. Both parties benefit from it and have the potential to better themselves here. The emotional connection is very strong and usually doesn’t take a lot of time to reach a deeper level. Two important downsides of this aspect are the possibility of becoming too dependant on one another and the naturally very emotional nature of the relationship which not everyone could be ready to handle.

A similar energy to the Moon/Asc conjunction is created by a Moon/Moon conjunction.

Jupiter trine Pluto (♃ △ ♇): this aspect manifested in the connection through constant respect, inspiration and support of each other’s ideas. We were able to bring each other up and set realistic goals for what otherwise would’ve just stayed a dream. In this aspect Jupiter can often help both partners further develop their spirituality. It’s also a great aspect when it comes to money, as it can bring abundance to both partners in the relationship, especially through those ideas they were able to come up with together. Even if the relationship doesn’t last, this aspect will ensure both the parties underwent profound change together and are now better versions of themselves. The Pluto person captivayes Jupiter by how deeply emotionally raw they can be, and this helps the Jupiter person get in touch with their emotional side as well. In turn Jupiter helps Pluto open up to different exoer more. Together this duo can travel, be very fortunate, and find natural understanding in one another.

Sun conjunct Mercury (☉ ☌ ☿): this aspect in synastry provides the pair with endless interesting conversations. Natural understanding between the two is favored by the Mercury person reflecting who the Sun person really is. Conversations can go on for hours ranging from deep thoughts to daily mundane topics. Both partners usually learn a lot in this relationship, not only by discussing almost anything, but also from trying nex things together out of curiosity. Conflicts are usually resolved in a logical and light manner rather than soul crushing fights. The sense of humor shared by the partners is amazing, as well as the respect and support for each other’s ideas and projects.

Moon trine Mercury (☾ △ ☿ ): here the Moon person finds a new way of expressing themselves and possibly find it in them to discuss topics they have never shared before with anybody else. The partners usually share common interests and hobbies, and enjoy each other’s company. It’s a relaxed, nurturing, encouraging and positive connection. There’s mutual support and an emphasis on going after their dreams!

I had a similar supportive energy (but more mentally enthralling) with a Mercury/Mercury trine

The worst

These aspects are always challenging in synastry, but never impossible. The way these energies manifested in my life were also influenced by the rest of the synastry charts. For the right people, all of these can be amazing encouragements for betterment and growth.

Saturn opposite Pluto (♄ ☍ ♇): an aspect I unfortunately had to repeat in several relationships before learning my lesson, the energy here is serious, controlling, limiting, explosive, domineering and destructive. It is a hard aspect to balance, and is usually expressed by the Saturn person trying to limit and change Pluto’s nature, blaming them for the feelings of instability in the relationship. The Pluto person projects their deepest wounds and unhealed trauma onto the relationship and their partner. When triggered Pluto can be explosive and destructive, which is uncontrollable no matter how hard Saturn tries to keep things cool. Resentment, pain and feelings of inadequacy are often triggered in both partners.

Mars opposite Saturn (♂☍ ♄): this aspect is very domineering and can make both partners try to impose themselves on the other, resulting in conflict and fights. To work this opposition requires various compromises on both sides. Both partners admire the other, but they feel like they’re always in competition and need to prove their worth. Feelings of resentment aren’t uncommon. The partners aren’t totally ready to accept each other’s difference and although there’s usually a lot of sexual tension, the Saturn person might distance themselves once intimacy is achieved between them. Often this aspects makes the two partners bring out the worst in one another.

The most intense

Venus conjunct Black Moon Lilith (♀ ☌ BML): very intense connection, instant sexual attraction, a lot of desire. This can have an obsessive quality for both, but for the Venus person especially, it may be hard for them to really let go or forget their oartner, even years down the line. There’s something secretive and taboo about this connection. It could be kept a secret for some time, or be a “on again, off again” type of relationship. If that’s the case, the Lilith person is usually the one trying to maintain their independence and being resistant to a long term commitment. This aspect can also indicate knowing that someone’s not good for you but going after them anyway: the desire is so strong it overpowers will. Even if the relationship ends, there will always be mutual attraction between these people.

Mars conjunct Asc (♂☌Asc): pretty self explanatory, a lot of drive, sexual energy, crazy attraction. A good sexual compatibility.

Pluto conjunct Mars (♇ ☌ ♂): this energy is like Mars conj Asc but on steroids. Extreme attraction and magnetism, it’s transformative, raw and intimate. It can at times lead to power struggles. It can also easily become obsessive; it is difficult for both partners to not think or forget about the other, especially for the Mars person. Very much physical, this energy isn’t soft and sensual like Moon/Venus aspects. It’s deep, obsessive, raw, almost impossible to stop. The attraction between the two people is usually immediate and sparks are flying from the moment they meet. A very intense and overwhelming aspect, this energy finds release through sex. This energy however can also trigger both parties to violent or agressive responses, and usually burns out pretty quickly. In my persona experience, ending a relationship fueled by this intensity is difficult and usually changes both people in the end. It can be very hard to let go.