Some descrip of Age in Bio or Pinned, or Blocked.

This blog is FANTASY ONLY, and my tag for important info around it is #kink and consent (tagged below).

BACKUP BLOG: @needtobeused-again

I'm A, I'm 32 years old, pansexual transmasc. This is my sideblog, I follow back from @heyquickquestion. I am mainly submissive. I am not looking to be owned. I am in a multi long-term open relationship irl, limits may vary. This blog typically will not have any pics, only text, but I trade nudes in DMs and post mine on my main (also an nsft blog, but more focused on sexuality in being trans, and with very little cnc). However, I do not give out face pics or identifying info. I like DMs and respond when I see them, but my timeline for responding is based on outside life and health factors.

DNI or I block you if:

You're under 18.

You can't be bothered to put your age in your bio (even just "in my 20s/30s/60s," or "my birth year is in the 1900s," whatever, tell the truth and give me some idea). Otherwise, I will assume you're under 18. Saying your blog is 18+ does not count.

You post underage, legitimately transphobic (idc about misgendering kink blogs), neon*zi or white supr*macist shit

I only want to DM for sexting if you're at least 21. I'm 32 and really 26+ is when I usually start to find people attractive but you can shoot your shot if you're close to that. No upper age limit. For DMs/pics, know that I am transmasculine; I have had top surgery (masculinized chest), no other major surgeries. I'm okay with pretty much any language for my body.

I am also open to talking about cnc and rape play kink from the perspective of figuring out why you're into it, because I've been there, and you only need to be 18 for that conversation. Your personal outcome for it might be more comfort with cnc or it might be realizing you need to step away, but that depends on you. DM or ask, including anonymously, either works.

Kinks list:

CNC/Noncon/dubcon

Humiliation/degradation

Bondage

Breeding (including noncon)

Exhibitionism

Filming

Object insertion

Pain play & irritants

Praise kink

Public exposure

Psychological manipulation

Rape baiting (fantasy)

Somnophilia

Teratophilia

Tag system (continually updated) at bottom of post.

Some for triggers specifically since I've hit the 30 tag limit: #appeasement, #crying, #guns tw, #knives tw, #love mention in r4pe, #money. Older posts may not be tagged for all of these.

Hard boundaries: I mostly* don't care if you're otherwise into these things, but don't bring them to me -

Ageplay*

Incest

Raceplay*

Teacher/student

Actual pregnancy

Degradation if without any praise or aftercare

(*may fit on DNI list, depends how you interact with it)

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Protect ourselves. Protect each other. Reject MAGA. Abolish ICE.

I also want to make clear that those posts will NEVER be on this blog.

I write about and reblog some extremely difficult and traumatizing scenarios that can still be used within cnc rules in a positive/cathartic and safe way. It is also always technically possible to find someone who can roleplay that while steadfastly opposing the real thing (same as any topic we interact with in kink). However, imo, the harm of inviting in anyone who legitimately supports that and making them feel welcome vastly outweighs any potential benefit.

I'd encourage anyone who feels the need to write it to use the notes app on your phone over ever reaching out to someone who actually supports this, because a core belief of these people is the inherent removal of all of your *and other people's* rights on a base, permanent, non-kink level. There can be no mutual respect and consent possible within that framework.