ღ 𝗂'𝖽 𝖻𝖾 𝕙𝕠𝕟𝕖𝕤𝕥

I really feel tremendous grief for friendships that kind of petered away in the face of life's currents. There are people with whom I formed deep, unique, vibrant, life-changing connections, and then we had to go our separate ways and it was too hard to maintain long-distance. There wasn't a fight, it just sort of faded. And I feel like I have more friendships like this than friendships that have endured, so maybe I just have to get used to it. But if grief is all the love we have left over - well, I never did get to finish loving them. I love them, and I miss them, and I probably always will.

when paris paloma said “all day every day therapist mother maid, nymph then a virgin, nurse then a servant, 24/7 baby machine so he can live out his pickett fence dreams, it’s not an act of love if you make her, you make me do TOO MUCH LABOUR” it awoke a primal feminine rage in me

rina sawayama was right when she said shut the fuck up. shut the fuck up. shut the fuck up. shut the fuck up.

hey friends gentle reminder to stop using IU ( Lee Jieun ) as a faceclaim given her company already stated that she is not comfortable with being portrayed / having her face used around for things of that nature <3

really getting the feeling ppl don't know how friendships work bc it shouldn't be unfathomable that ppl can be friends with different interests. i don't care abt the bgs most my mutuals post abt but i don't vague them or secretly hate them or think they're oppressing me 😭😭😭😭. if you can only hang with ppl that share the exact pov as you then you don't want friends you're looking for hostages