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“my only thing is some people can accept cheating for the lifestyle and i can’t look down on them. i get it. others choose to be the side for the lifestyle and i can’t look down on them either. i get it. but when the wags come on here dissing the sides acting all sanctimonious, that’s when you’re a loser. cause at the end of the day the niggas are laughing at you both cause you’re trading morality for money one way or another. again, i don’t blame wags or sides but the only winners here are the men. everyone else is losing one way or another. just own your shit and keep it pushing”

If he cheats then I’m all for giving him another chance. But if ur man is a constant cheater, having all side chicks on u, having outside babies, then u are just a doormat and is just teaching that man how to keep disrespecting them. 

I understand some women accept the cheating for a lifestyle. And the wags accept it for that purpose is trading their self respect for temporary luxury. Survival is one thing but allowing your own man to disrespect you for a lifestyle is selling your dignity 

Also let’s be clear, these men ain’t winners here!! They are out here lying to everyone, hurting their own family (their wives that are their day 1s), causing chaos, showing zero loyalty and respect. So how would u say they are winners? Everyone in the situation are the losers

these men are still getting sexual access to two groups of women despite their reckless behaviour. these athletes are sex-obsessed and it doesn’t matter what they do to the wives or sides, the girls won’t leave them alone. they will continue to give them children, help their image, take care of the house, cook/clean (ik they have help but still), etc. all the benefits of a wife. the sides are still sleeping with them, stroking their ego, and making them look good to their friends when they brag about who they’ve fucked.