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@bams-2. Art will likely be posted from there now but Ill RB stuff from it

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A while ago I had a bit of a first, where I introduced myself to a discord server as plural instead of transfem. I didnt know at the time that doing this basically makes people think you “dont count” as transfem, and that youre just using that label out of habit or something. The worst part is, that was the nicest Ive been treated in years.

No, seriously. I was no longer the 4channer klanfem male socialized little *bitch* that needed to be lectured. I was now an epic genderfuck icon to be listened to. Ive have never been listened to, not without constantly pushing for it. But now, I was practically a mentor to some of them. I was the elder queer who knew best. I barely even had to fucking *ask* for respect, I just got it.

I literally got to say, straight up, that I hated the egg prime directive shit. And you know, people listened to me? The one person that disagreed with me at least tried to explain himself. Normally id just get told to shut up or even made an example out of. No, this time I was worth talking to.

Its honestly been really demoralizing. I always knew queer community was a lie. I always knew that shit about “our transfem sisters” was lovebombing. But I never truly understood how many doors were closed, even by other trans people, to trans women.

This is why Im so bitter toward other trans people. Not because Im taking out my trauma or because of 4chan rhetoric or whatever the fuck. But because I know for a fact, every single time I engage in these stupid brick wall talks trying to convince my “community” of anything, every time I get the fucking lectures from my “siblings”, its all just the fucking she/her pronouns. If i was the epic genderfuck they wanted me to be and not the woman i really am, then most of my social ills would be completely gone.

#transmisogyny #transfeminism #plural #plurality

machinot

I would take a job pushing the Sisyphus rock if it paid 20 an hour and I could wear my headphones

puppygirllaika

you're telling me i have one task, minimal oversight, no time pressure, and every time i complete my goal I get to take a break while walking back down the mountain, during which time I am free to be myself and enjoy the pleasure of my own company in brief respite from my labor? Damn, i could imagine myself happy...

terriblewomanyuri

wowwwwwwww this male character I'm a fan of is so weak and incompetent, he's a woman to me. not actually a woman though. that’s icky. let men be feminine. I'm just saying he's like one because he's weak and incompetent and and submissive incredibly pathetic compared to everyone around him. like women are.

terriblewomanyuri

no they’re still being misogynistic against women (that’s what misogyny is) they just hate women so much that the only characters they think to use as excuses to be misogynistic are men.

terriblewomanyuri

like. when someone says something misogynistic about a character the character isn’t actually the one suffering from misogyny. it’s the people they interact with when they’re being misogynistic about the character who have to deal with that.

terriblewomanyuri

How many times have you actually seen someone say this. How many times has someone been conscious enough of trans women to decide to interpret a character as transfem while also being misogynistic enough that they equate femininity with weakness and incompetence.

How many times is it misogyny vs a transfem relating with their own experiences of vulnerability. Fucks sake did anyone read this post and actually think about what they said before replying to it

terriblewomanyuri

still wild to me that the first response I got to this post, within a day of making it, was blaming transgender women for this. i tried wording the original post in a way it would be clear this was about people who would talk about male characters as feminine men without ever accepting transfemininity, but people are soooo eager to throw transfems under the bus.

#‘respect your transmasc brothers!’#the transmasc brothers in question:

gumi-megpoidd

yeah. yeah.

gumi-megpoidd

we're all feeling normal huh

#im doing great

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A!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

bitchautism

the online identity and gimmick-ifying of autism is so odd. I'm diagnosed with autism and yet I barely identify with any stuff I see about it anymore. It feels like autism is being rebranded as the Silly Guy Disorder that gives you smart and beautiful hyperspecific interests. it's not that I mind silly jokes or being lighthearted about being autistic- but when the entire social movement is based around marketing us this way, I just can't help but feel isolated from it. it feels like I'm not the right kind of autistic. I'm not marketable and digestible to common audiences, and therefore I am discarded by the movement in the name of progress and acceptance. it feels foul.

#part of the reason i never tell anyone im autsitic anymore #the other being that i also have other disabilities and that quickly taught me that other autistics #are just as bad as the nts they keep maligning. at least the nts try and be patient with my dispraxia and only sometimes insult me over it #autistics just straight up insult me and then call ME ableist when i have a problem with it

kurageneric

orcboxer

and the post begins

because otherwise it gets kind of visually confusing to parse, which is annoying to some folks, including me

GRANTED not everybody uses the same theme or even the same update. you might have noticed my version of tumblr is earlier than yours (I don't like the new button setup)

but still, it's just about being polite

so now you know

avakynx

#the remmy

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kemunian

mookoooo portrait

randomperson822heta

Momiji drawing that I did a few days ago, hope ya enjoy!

smiling moko

Guess what turns 10 today

bluehawk54

Happy 20th Birthday John Freeman

philcollinsenjoyer

about 90% of fanfiction takes place in a utopia where men are thoughtful and unsure of their place in the world

#this is why half the male characters i write nowadays are massive assholes #its just more realistic ❤️

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ak794itomugi

#more mokou

1dietcokeinacan

Me when I’m a genius entrepreneur and my various business ventures are all doing super well

#i saw a cyber truck yesterday. i was at the babk and i saw one #i laughed so fucking hard and confused the shit out my mom #they look even more stupid in person

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