Babygirl

Thanks @desireddracula for telling me to post this!

Porn sets unreasonable expectations for men who think that slapping, choking deepthroating, anal, and other similar degrading acts are normal and expected. Women feel pressured to partake in those acts for fear of not being 'sexually liberated' and are made to feel like they're unreasonable for not enjoying those acts.

Anal is vanilla at this point for a woman, my gf and I live as lesbians and we enjoy regular anal sex. I've never not offered my arse for a man or woman.

We try now both to be porn when we have sex; I started it, but we both now also deepthroat toys during sex, which is performative as neither of us gets pleasure from it other than degrading ourselves in front of each other.

Choking does heighten sex and orgasms, it is good for us to choke ourselves on a dildo as we rub each other to orgasm.

I find being spat on sexually arousing, this stems from experiencing it done to me during sex from a young age. It was built into me that good sex involves spitting.

Pain heightens sexual pleasure and orgasms. I love my tits and arse slapped, spanked, clamped during sex or as foreplay. Also was for me normalised as part of sex. I was spanked during sex the second time I had sex. .... with encouragement My gf has in time come to enjoy it too, though she hated it at first.