A game to ease you into edging and denial.
Do you know you masturbate way too much? Have you wanted to try edging and denial but arenāt sure if you have the control? Do you just like to play kinky games that involve someone else controlling when you get to cum?
Great!
This is your chance to slowly dip your toes into edging and denial.Ā
Below is a timeline of days and some rules. You may start it whenever you want. Each day will be listed No Touch, Edge, or Cum.Ā
But donāt assume this will just be about changing how you get off. Weāre going to work on improving your life a little as well. So, here are the rules for each day.
No Touch - Donāt touch yourself in any way that might be erotic. Instead you will spend an extra half hour exercising TO THE BEST OF YOUR ABILITY. This might mean adding 30 minutes of power lifting to your gym routine. This might mean taking the dog for an extra walk (the dog will love it). This might mean 30 minutes of old people chair yoga from youtube. Just move for 30 extra minutes during the day.
Edge - You are allowed to play with your body for one (1) hour. You may edge as many times during that hour as you like, and then you are done. Keep track of your edges as best as you can. Itāll be important later. On edge days you are going to spend an extra half hour cleaning your living environment. Dishes, vacuum, laundry, whatever needs to be done. If you are pathologically tidy then go outside and pick up litter.Ā
Cum - You have one (1) hour to get yourself off and have one (1) orgasm. If you canāt manage it, not my problem. Prior to that hour you are not to log onto tumblr or view erotic material. You need to learn how to get off on whatās in your own head.Ā
Through the timeline there will be ways of earning extra edge time if you want to do the tasks.Ā
If you cum when you shouldnāt then you are to go back on the time line to the last allowed orgasm day and start over from there.
If you touch on a day you shouldnāt go back up two orgasm days and restart from there.
If you need to take a break for health reasons, your parents are visiting, whatever, go right ahead. Just try not to touch when youāre on break.Ā
And never hesitate to update me on how it's going.
āBut what if my date/partner wants to get me off?ā Thatās between you two. Tell us all about it.
0. Cum - Today is day zero. Cum as many times as you like but when you are done I want you to write at least one paragraph about how you feel, physically or mentally. You can send it to me or keep it private.Ā
Edge
No touch
Cum (There, you got through the first cycle. That wasnāt so bad.)
No touch
Edge
No touch
Cum (That wasnāt so bad, now was it?)
No touch
No touch
Edge
Edge
Cum (See, youāre getting the hang of this.)
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Cum (You got through an entire work week without cumming. Go You.)
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Cum (Woo! One whole week denied. How did that feel? Tell us about it. And now that you know you can get through a whole week weāll start adding some extras to make it a little more fun.)
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge (You have 30 extra minutes to play with yourself but you may only touch your chest or nipples.)
No touch
Cum
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge (You may play with yourself for an extra hour tomorrow if you clean your fridge.)
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Cum (11 Days in denied. How are we feeling so far?)
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touchĀ
Edge (You may play with yourself for an extra half hour but you can only touch your ass.)
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
CumĀ
No touch (At some point before your next orgasm just go outside somewhere. Keep your phone in your pocket. Just let yourself exist. If you can manage this for an hour you can add an hour to one of your edging days.
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No Touch
Cum (Look at that! You just breezed through two whole weeks of denial! I knew you could do it. How are you feeling? I hope you feel proud of yourself. Are you still keeping track of your edges because thatās important. You did two weeks so well Iām going to start cranking up this difficulty just a little. But I know you can do it)
No touch
Edge
No touch (Pick up a nonfiction book before bed [paper is better but use a library app on your phone if you need to]. Every minute you read nonfiction for the next seven days is an extra minute you can edge.)
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch (Work on making something. Draw, write, paint minis, knit, start coding that indi-game youāve been dreaming of. Every minute you work on something Just For You over the next seven days is an extra minute you can spend edging.)
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Edge
No touch
Cum (One Hundred Days of sticking with this!!!! I am so proud of you!!!! Are you ready for one last push? I know you are. I know you can do this. I believe in you!!!!!)
No touch (Have you been keeping track of your edges? Good. For every edge so far that is a minute you have to take off your edging time for the next week. I know, Iām mean. Never said I wasnāt.)
EdgeĀ
No touch
EdgeĀ
No touch
EdgeĀ
No touch
EdgeĀ
No touch
Edge (Spank yourself ten times and you can edge for an extra 30 minutes.)
No touch
EdgeĀ
No touch
EdgeĀ
No touch
EdgeĀ
No touch (Go through at least one drawer and remove the clothes that havenāt been worn in two years. Do this and you can edge for an extra 30 minutes tomorrow.)
EdgeĀ
No touch
EdgeĀ
No touch
EdgeĀ
No touch
Edge (You can edge for two hours as long as one hole is SAFELY plugged.)
No touch
EdgeĀ
No touch
Edge (as much as you want but remember if you cum you have to go back to day 100)
No touch
EdgeĀ
No touch
CUM!!!!!! (CUM AS MUCH AS YOU WANT! You went 31 days!!!!!! A whole month in denial! How do you feel? Go back and read what you wrote on day zero. Compare how you feel physically, mentally, and emotionally, and feel free to share these feelings.)
