You can call us Sylla. We are pretty new to the BaH community but are not less motivated to help people !
Please refrain from interacting with this blog if you are pro transid, pro radqueer, pro contact paraphile, anti endo, anti tulpa, anti lgbt, anti alterhumanity, prp generative ai or a nsfw blog (I'm fine with this, I just wouldn't like minors to see it).
Please do not our self indulgent packs in archives. We have OCD and this makes us very anxious.
We would like to keep this blog as a hobby. Therefore, inbox will have a limit and requests might be slow.
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what is a bah ? bah stands for build a headmate. these are packs with names, pronouns, faceclaims and more (see templates) made to help fragments or tulpas form an identity.
warning : headmates formed with the help of a pack WILL be different. they are people, they evolve and ultimately, you cannot force them to be who you want them to be.
๐ฟ . hello, I'm mod marsh, I go by he/they/light pronouns. I am the host of this system. I'm the one managing this blog and I can handle any type of request. if something is plant or mythology themed, it was probably made by me ! :D
๐ . hello there, I'm mod new moon, you can call me mordred. I go by he/him and vey/vem pronouns and prefer masc terms. I usually do the longer requests and the moodboards with the help of mod marsh. my preferred themes are space and videogames.
๐ฑ hello, I am mod seed or sandstorm. I make the short requests and playlists. I don't often post on this blog hehe.
๐. mod mushroom/fungi is an alias for any other member of our collective that posts here.
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Userbox info: Red / snotlout / whatever you think firs best for color/themeing! can the 'your choice' one say "This Rider Believes In Monstrous Nightmare Supremacy"? (Can even just say hookfang instead of monstrous nightmare)
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Oh our goddesses, we LOVE HTTYD. We're not as into it as our sister, but it's a cool series! We have the Wii game for the first movie, actually!
๏ธด๐ - create a pack for an introject type you don't have (eg. Songtive, foodtive, conceptive)
๏ธด๐ค - create a pack based off your bedroom (if you don't have one for whatever reason, create one based off your outfit)
๏ธด๐โ๐จ - create a pack for a source you want someone to request, but no one has yet
๏ธด๐ - create a pack based off the first oc you ever made (or remember making)
๏ธด๐โโฌ - create a pack based off your pet (if you don't have one, create a pack based off a childhood toy)
๏ธด๐ - create a pack for the first fandom that comes up on your dash
๏ธด๐พ - create a pack based off a fandom a friend is in, but you aren't!
๏ธดโญ - do something completely self indulgent. Don't even try to make it palatable for Tumblr, don't even try to make it match your blog, do WHATEVER YOU WANT
๏ธด๐ฉป - create a pack based off your favourite item of clothing
๏ธด๐ซ - create a pack that's the physical embodiment/a conceptive of your blog
Hope you enjoy these! I just felt like making my own ask game! Anyone can do these, but remember to practice reblog karma and maybe specify a level!
MORE PLURAL ASK GAMES COMING IF YOU GUYS WANT IT! (let me know so my ideas dont get forgotten)
tags for some blogs that like to do ask games or just my moots : @siren-bah @sleepy-space-bah @ink-casket @tattered-bah @dinonuggets-bah ( not sure if you guys do subsystems but it doesn't hurt to tag )
FEEL FREE TO SEND THESE TO PEOPLE WHO REBLOG OR TO US !!!! (please specify which ask game so people don't get mixed up!)
๐ชถ : make a subsystem based on a group of birds ( ex : eagle , pigeon , hummingbird , etc )
๐ซ : make a subsystem based on the solar system ( ex : mars , venus , sun , etc )
๐ชฝ : make a subsystem based on spiritual entities ( angels , deities , demons , etc )
๐ : make a subsystem based on the colors of the rainbow ( red , pink , green , etc )
๐ฎ : make a subsystem based on mythological creatures ( vampires , witches , werewolves , etc )
๐ญ : make a subsystem based on types of candy ( jawbreakers , skittles , m&ms , etc )
๐ก๏ธ : make a subsystem based on types of weapons ( swords , bow and arrows , axes , etc )
๐ : make a subsystem based on sea creatures ( sharks , dolphins , school of fish , etc )
๐ธ๏ธ : make a subsystem based on bugs/beetles ( ants , cockroaches , grasshoppers , etc )
๐ฆด : make a subsystem based on big cats ( lions , cheetahs , pumas , etc )
๐ซ : make a subsystem based on your favorite animals ( anything ! )
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Hi, let's talk about an issue we've seen in the BAH community
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I know itโs been a hot minute since we have been active, but I see this happen often enough that itโs worth making a post on.
This post is about exactly what the title says: it's about an issue that we've seen in the BAH community as a whole, not just one section of it, and one that we would like to help correct.ย While I understand that this post is lengthy, I would advise reading the entire thing, as it is an important message, and should be spread. In fact, if you can, I would like to ask that you please reblog this post, so that more people see it. Thank you.ย [Plain text: While I understand that this post is lengthy, I would advise reading the entire thing, as it is an important message, and should be spread. In fact, if you can, I would like to ask that you please reblog this post, so that more people see it. Thank you. End plain text.]
This issue is intersexism. You might think "but I'm not being malicious towards intersex people, so how can I be intersexist/do intersexist things?," but the thing is, intersexism doesn't rely on you wanting to be bigoted against intersex people. You can be unknowingly bigoted. (I will say, however, that if you double down claiming that anything said here is actually totally fine, you are intersexist, period. There are no ifs or buts about it.)
Here on out, we should warn: there is discussion of intersexism (obviously) and fetishization of intersex people. We also discuss intersexist slurs, although they will be discussed in a more informative context. If you cannot read the whole post because of this, that's fine. I should also note here that we are (bodily, even) intersex, so we know how to recognize intersexism, and are very intimate with this kind of bigotry. We are not just making this stuff up.
Now that the warnings are out of the way, I realize that we never named the issue directly. Simply put, the issue here is that people are offering shi/hir as pronouns for packs without regard that they are intersex exclusive, and the person requesting the pack that has them could very well be perisex (not intersex), and also offering intersex as a "gender" in packs. Both of these things are intersexist.
I will start with the most obvious thing first: intersex being offered as a "gender" in BAH packs. Intersexuality is, simply put, naturally developing a body that varies from what is typical from a "male" or "female" in chromosomes, gentilia, hormones, and/or so on. This can be from something like vulvar hypospadias (when the urethra is close or even inside the vagina), or even something such as mixed gentilia (I believe this speaks for itself).ย This is not a gender, and to claim so is intersexist.ย [Plain text: This is not a gender, and to claim so is intersexist. End plain text.]
"Intersex" is (provided you meet the definition) an opt-in label that describes something about your body. A description of your body can never be a gender, and especially not something like intersexuality. The closest there is to this is integender, which is when your gender is influenced by your being intersex, but even then, this isย exclusive to bodily intersex individuals. [Plain text: exclusive to bodily intersex individuals. End plain text.] You cannot identify with this label if you are bodily perisex, even if you have "intersex alters/headmates/parts/your term here" (the definition of intersex refers to your physically body anyway),ย norย [plain text: nor /end plain text] if you are "transintersex", as in "transitioning to being intersex". If you are a radqueer reading this, let me elaborate: you cannot "transition" into being intersex, and to claim so is intersexist. I am anti-radqueer, and do not care if you call yourself "transintersex", as you still cannot use this term.
As a side tangent, "transintersex" in itself is an intersexist term, so if you identify with it, I would recommend unpacking your bigotry before you interact with literally anything about/with intersex people. I do not care if you feel bad about not being intersex. There are plenty of other terms out there for you that do not involve the intersexist connotations.
Someone may be wondering how "transintersex" is an intersexist term, and that's a valid question! It's ok to be confused! However, essentially, "transintersex" is intersexist because you cannot "transition" into being intersex. This is something that the definition of intersex states: you must naturally develop whatever causes you to vary from the typical "male" and/or "female". Even ignoring that, though, there lies an inherently problematic implication with the term "transintersex": if you can "transition" into being intersex, you can "transition" into being perisex. I don't believe that I have to explain why this implication is problematic and harmful, but to put it simply: the idea that one can "transition" out of intersexuality and into perisexuality (or "normality") is something used to justify medical abuse against intersex people. I will not go into detail here, but just know that it is gruesome and should not be condoned.
Now, the second issue is the one I mentioned earlier: offering shi/hir pronouns in BAH packs with no regard to the fact that they are intersex exclusive. Now, I understand that quite a bit of perisex people do not know of this, and that is fine, but you have to be ok with learning about this if you want to be a good ally to intersex people.
Now, this section can be triggering for people, as it will contain discussions of the fetishization of intersex people, specifically their bodies, intersexism, and will use the h slur fully spelled out without censoring. It is worth noting that I am using it here to be educational; some people do not know what this slur is, and so I feel as if spelling it out is the only way to truly drill my point home.ย I will note here that I personally do not reclaim this slur for myself, so while it should go without saying, doย notย call me it anywhere, including on this post or elsewhere. You will be blocked and reported.ย [Plain text: I will note here that I personally do not reclaim this slur for myself, so while it should go without saying, do not call me it anywhere, including on this post or elsewhere. You will be blocked and reported. End plain text.]
(Before I actually begin explaining, it is worth mentioning that pronouns such as ze/hir are ok. It is shi/hir specifically that are intersex exclusive. Also, as a summary for those who cannot read it due to the warnings, which is fine, essentially, shi/hir pronouns were originally made in the context of furry porn for the sake of fetishizing intersex bodies. As such, they are not for perisex people to use, and if you intend to put them in a pack, that is fine, but at the very least, it should come with a note that those pronouns are exclusive to intersex people.)
Now, I will try to be as simple as I can in this explanation, so here we go. For the sake of not triggering people, it is beneath the cut.
For starters, I am going to assume that most people are familiar with what furries are. Now, within the furry porn community, there are these bigential (meaning that they have both reproductive systems, presumably with them both functional (this is a classic stereotype of intersex peopleโ that we have both reproductive systems simultaneously, and both are functional. This is a fetishistic fantasy, however, and not accurate to reality. As far as science is concerned, no human can be born with both reproductive systems and with both of them fully functioning. It is possible for someone to be born with both, yes, but at least one of reproductive systems does not work in these cases)) creatures that are caricatures of intersex people. These are known as "hermaphrodites", which is an intersexist slur, for the record.
Shi/hir pronouns were coined with this context in mind. As far as people are concerned, the very first usage of shi/hir was within this context, and for a hermaphroditic character. These pronouns, then, are drenched in fetishization in history. Inherently, they are tied to the fetishization of us intersex people, and are based on uninformed, intersexist ideas of who we are.ย Shi/hir pronouns were made in an intersexist context. [Plain text: Shi/hir pronouns were made in an intersexist context. End plain text]
Due to their history, it is insensitive for perisex people to use them. They are not for perisex people to use, and are exclusive to intersex people. And yes, just like earlier, this is exclusively for bodily intersex people, and neither "intersex headmates/alters/parts/term here" nor "transintersex" people are included in this.
This is not to say that you cannot at any point put these pronouns in packs. This is to say that if you do, it should at the very least come with the disclaimer that this is for bodily intersex people only. And honestly? While it is your call, and you're not really intersexist either way, I would personally hold off on including them in packs meant for perisex people.
To finish this post, I just want to say that I have hope for the BAH community. I believe that we can grow past this. However, if we truly want this community to be safe for everyone (and I mean everyone), we have to learn when to stop things that are harming people, like this, and I hope that one day, we can all grow past our intersexism.
hii this is a little prompt list/ask game we came up with for the bah community !!
feel free to do any of these. the only rule is that it must be videogame related. : )
adding dni since needed : please refrain from interacting with this blog if you are pro transid, pro radqueer, pro contact paraphile, anti endo, anti tulpa, anti lgbt, pro generative ai, anti alterhumanity or a nsfw blog
please tag us, we would love to see the result. have funn !!
a character from your favourite videogame !!
a character from an open world !!
a character from roblox (game or myths) !!
a minecraft biome conceptive !!
a character you see yourself into !!
your fictotype or source !!
an animal !!
a fictional species !!
a character from a visual novel !!
a character from an open world !!
a character tumblr is obsessed with !!
your current fandom !!
the unloved child of your fandom !!
the favourite child of your fandom !!
a character from a fps !!
a character from a roguelite !!
a character from a slice of life !!
a minecraft mob !!
a conceptive of an in game place !!
a brainmade of an in game faction !!
your main !!
a brainmade of a in game role !!
a songtive of an ost !!
a plantive/conceptive of a plant !!
a character from the source of which you have the most fictives !!
a self indulgent pack !!
a character from a rpg !!
a character from a myth/urban legend around a game !!
an antagonist/villain !!
an npc that appears like.. 2 seconds - give them a personality !!
a queer character !!
a subsystem for a character you headcanon as plural !!
Personality Traits: avoidant and cautious of people at first but very friendly and clingy after a while, extremely protective over those he cares about and trusts
Role: protector , energizer , guzzler
Age: ageless
Hex Code: #1a1a43
Likes: nighttime, the moon and stars, forests, flying, dark colors, isolating and being alone, soft lighting, fish and meat, being useful
Dislikes: being in the rain, lightning, getting too much attention, large groups of people
Front trigger(s): when the body needs to eat, overwhelming situations
Callsign Nickname: Fury , Nightingale
K9 Unit Alterhumanity: Night Fury / dragon (nonhuman species and/or theriotype) , black cat otherkin
Barrage Typing Quirk:
โข ALL UPPERCASE WHENEVER EXCITED OR HAPPY!! AND LOTS OF EXCLAMATION POINTS!!
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Hi! May I have a marsh pack for a Yorkshire terrier headmate? (You can use either irl facelclaims or anthro, no pref, w/e u guys can find!!) She's very feminine and girly, mid teens but age slides to tween - older kid in age often, obsessed with like mid 2000s stuff. And can I please add the fern, lotus and mushroom add-on? Tysm!!
โ personality - courageous, loyal, friendly, the "comedian" of the friend group, adapts well to new environments, loves challenges, dislikes routine, strong will, golden heart, a bit naive but takes no one's shit
โ roles - fashion/outfit decider, artist, might be a front buddy to another headmate, affsue, frijon
โ likes - making friends, board games, tv shows, sitcoms, haircare, wearing dresses, stuffed animals, those pinterest keychain diys, taking care of animals, painting and drawing too, playing those outdoor middleschooler games
โ dislikes - spicy food, doing nothing, wearing cold colours, snakes, fps, when lyrics hair is wet, not understanding something in a conversation, coffee, animal abuse
โ front triggersย - sitcoms and related sound effects, painting, playing outdoor, being close to animals (specifically dogs)
โ hobbies - painting, listening to music in her room, making collages with teen magazines, experimenting with makeup, making plushies, playing with dolls/toys
โ hex code - #D9027D (fuchsia)
โ little quirks - speaks loudly but has a cute laugh, plays with pups hair a lot, (tries to) makes outfits for blinks pets, always has paint on her nails
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FERN - outfits ....
LOTUS - agere stuff ....
MUSHROOM - headspace room ....
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hello anon, sorry for the wait. this was supposed to be posted two days ago but we had a few irl problems to deal with. we didn't know a lot about mid 2000s stuff so hopefully we got the right aesthetic. if not, feel free to send us an ask with pictures (we won't post it if you're off anon).
by the way, we do not do irl faceclaims as the people who posted the selfies may not want them to be used as faceclaims. also, and I know the request was sent before the change to add ons rules but we won't do more than two images requests as they take more time.
Hope it is okay to ask (since it is not in the source list!) but can we request stuff from total drama island! (We can send a link to a wiki page if needed!)
sure ! we know very few things about this series but we plan on watching it anyway. requests are very slow right now but we'll add it to our list !
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โ personality - serene, affectionate, clever, whimsical, determined, optimistic, generous, modest, peaceful, tries to get along with everyone, tries to get interested in what vines headmates like
โ roles - mother figure, caregater, pacific, angeltive, ameliorator, gatherer/chef (also see cheese griller) (<<< this term is so silly hehe)
โ likes - flowers, fishes, bugs, opiliones, birds, ponds, cherries and berries in general, pink colours, gardening, weaving, taking care of blooms headmates, cooking for people, finding gifts for heals friends, making miniature gardens, ancient greek architecture, philosophy
โ dislikes - people who shout at blossom or blossoms friends, burnt food, people neglecting their pets, coffee and energy drinks (splash says they are bad for you !!), heavy horror/gore stuff
โ front triggers - the scent of flowers, any food scent that petal likes or knows a headmate likes, shopping, arts and crafts, headmates trying to get energy drinks (shโ will try to stop them)
โ aesthetics - cottagecore, bloomcore, mermaidcore, japanese zen gardens, light academias with slight romantic influences ....
โ hobbies - gardening, weaving, reading encyclopedias, reading philosophy books, taking care of animals, cooking, baking
โ hex code - ffc6c6 (light pink/salmon) (don't know what it's called sorry)
โ little quirks - keeps a notebook with quotes and things tree likes, plays with flowers hair a lot, vocalise her reactions a lot ("aww" "woah" "oh no" etc.), eats just wat scale needs and nothing more
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THORN - typing quirk - doublles some lettters sometimes, often adds emojis to sentences หห๐ขึดเปโ