Sara

A = Aftercare (what they’re like after sex)

The first thing he does is lie down besides you and stare at the ceiling, wondering if what he just lived was real. It was too perfect to be true. But you were there, beside him, panting just as heavy as he was. He simply stares, trying to assimilate everything. Then he mutters, “are you ok?” using his hand to caress your warm cheek gently.

Once he feels his breathing is more calm, he pats your shoulder a little, “go pee and clean,” and sounds so straight-forward that makes you laugh. But it’s true, you need to do that after sex. He helps you to steady your steps, as your legs are a little bit weak, but lets you be on your own if you need it. He also cleans himself and pours some water on his face and neck to feel less hot.

He places a blanket over you, letting you rest on the bed and offering you his own bottle. You both shared enough fluids, so sharing the same bottle won’t hurt at all.

Thomas shows a more relaxed demeanor, not so talkative but more physically present. He holds you if that’s what you need, caressing your scalp, massaging your shoulders, his touch slow but constant. He looks down at you to check on your state, leaning in to press his lips firmly against your forehead. 

Calls your name in the sweetest tone you’ve ever heard from him. I mean, it is still flat and monotone, but he pronounces your name with such softness before asking what would you like to do. He might offer to play something to chill for a while, or he could let you rest as he plays games. He isn’t really tired to fall asleep, so he might give you company as he plays in silence.

B = Body part (their favorite body part of theirs and also their partner’s)

His favorite body part of himself are his hands. He takes care of them, they are big and his fingers long, and quite skillful and good at what he does. And no, not exactly in sexual terms. His touch is firm most of the time, but he can be gentle. His skin is generally cold and makes you shiver, but he lets you take them to warm them up. He finds that attempt to warm them a little bit adorable. He also likes his eyes, because it’s the easiest way for him to communicate his feelings. The intensity of his eyes shifts depending on the context. And even if it can be quite confusing, his eyes are always honest.

His favorite body part of you are your collarbones. They are delicate and subtle, and his touch is always gentle whenever he traces the shape of them. He also loves to kiss them, or even rest his head there whenever you both are cuddling. He likes your face. Yeah, in general. Your expressions are amusing and lovely. And last but not least, your back. He loves it whenever you’re lying on your stomach and give him the view of your relaxed back. The curve it does when you're bent over, or whenever you squirm because he suddenly caresses your back with his nails, it's such a sight for him.

Thomas can spend hours kissing your back and nape. He loves whenever you press your back on his chest as you both spoon, how he can cover it and protect you from behind.

C = Cum (anything to do with cum, basically)

He consumes a lot of sweets so that changes the taste of his semen. It’s slightly sweeter due to that. The amount depends on how much he has been teased before, it can be like a charged cannon. It’s thick and whitish.

D = Dirty secret (pretty self explanatory, a dirty secret of theirs)

He overthinks a lot about all the subjects involving sex. You’d be surprised by the knowledge he has gotten from researching on the internet in his free time about this subject. And it’s not really a secret because whenever someone asks a term that’s pretty unknown, he already knows the explanation to it. 

There is something about forbidding the orgasm for himself that makes him curious. Before testing it with you, he patiently did it on himself while he was showering. He starts touching himself and suddenly stops, like a mental training to grow patience towards this game. He’d like to test it with you, but has no idea about how to offer it.

Remember his VR headset? He has thought many times about using them, relaxing on the space that is there as he feels your touch. His mind would be in that space, but his body would be stimulated by you meanwhile. He doesn’t dare to ask it, but sometimes he fantasizes about it and desires it.

E = Experience (how experienced are they? do they know what they’re doing?)

He has had some sexual encounters with some of his previous partners or affairs. But he felt disconnected from the emotional part, sometimes dressing himself right afterward and leaving. He didn’t seek company, connection or love, it was more like a body need or an experience he wanted to test out.

Yes, he knows what he is doing. He doesn’t have a long list of people he has had sex with, but he is observant and precise enough to know what he likes or not. He learns and understands quick how bodies work, and knows your body as if it was a logical map that he knows how to read with attention. He likes to guide you subtly, not with orders but helping you to feel better, or even himself. He guides you with his hands and words.

His gentleness is the sweetest, saying things like “don’t worry about doing it good, just enjoy yourself,” or “that’s it… don’t think, just feel.”

F = Favorite position (this goes without saying)

He wants you on top, riding him mainly. He likes to see you completely: your face, your reactions, how you get lost in pleasure and how you come back after the climax.

He prefers to have his hands free to hold your hips, helping you to set the pace or simply admire the way they move over him. 

It’s a position that allows you to explore your pleasure, to make you feel confident, knowing that he is under you, attentive to any shaking, any doubt and any movement. He speaks calmly under you, “don’t worry, support on me,” he guides you, placing your hands on his chest, not minding the strength you set on your hands.

Whenever you get tired or a little bit lost, he can take control. He firmly grips your hips and start to thrust up, increasing the pleasure you need.

Thomas also adores whenever you start losing your mind over him, loving how you are more free, and he stays still, enjoying and observing.

G = Goofy (are they more serious in the moment? are they humorous? etc.)

He is mainly serious. He isn’t tense, he is simply focused on the intensity of the moment and enjoying it. Thomas is quiet when he is having fun, and this is one of those times. Sex isn’t a show nor a performance for him, it is a mental, emotional and physical experience.

He isn’t against you being goofy. In fact, he likes it and allows him to relax a little bit. At first, he doesn’t know how to react and stares at you with a raised eyebrow, staying quiet for a couple of seconds. He’d smile a little, and would sometimes comment something to follow your joke. He likes to see you comfortable enough to pull a joke. The subtle laughs and clumsy acts makes him feel more comfortable as well, more human and closer to you.

There might be giggles, small, soft laughs that make the situation intimate and loving. He won’t laugh too loud, but an amused smile would escape him just as sighs escape. Whenever you laugh, he stays quiet and listens to it like a melody, wanting to memorize it.

H = Hair (how well groomed are they? does the carpet match the drapes? etc.)

He likes to be clean and pretty down there and everywhere. He keeps his hair short and clean, not simply for your comfort but also for his. He’d simply use scissors and cut it carefully, never using something that could give him any irritation or make him uncomfortable. 

I = Intimacy (how are they during the moment? the romantic aspect)

He expresses the connection he feels with you through his gaze, his touch and silence. For him, intimacy is something intense and unique. Sex isn’t only about satisfying a physical need or having a casual experience. He sees it as a private space where he finds himself connecting with you at an emotional level.

His attention is fully focused on you, without distractions. He likes to look at your eyes, observe the movements of your body, memorize how you express yourself. Everything he cannot express through words, his eyes do. His touch is gentle and constant, with controlled caresses and slowly exploring the limits of your body. 

He is attentive to those things you like. If he is aware that you like certain type of caress, he’ll repeat it, without getting tired. If he knows you prefer calm to intensity he’d adjust his movements to create a calm environment. He takes care to adapt to your preferences and set the environment to your likings. He likes an unrushed environment, taking time to set a dim light in the room and set a light scent to make it more intimate. 

Thomas stays quiet most of the time and enjoys the silence. Sometimes words are unnecessary. He loves the sounds of your breathing mixing, your sweet moans, your giggles and words. He’d never shush you. He embraces the sound of your voice gladly.

In conclusion, he is romantic in his own way. It’s subtle.

J = Jack off (masturbation headcanon)

Thomas is someone who prefers to keep his privacy respected and barely shares whatever he does when he is alone, less when it is about his own body. 

He needs a calm and private space, a place where he feels comfortable just as his bedroom or the shower. Whenever he is on his bedroom, he prefers it on the dark, making sure he only focuses on the feeling of his hand stroking himself instead of the light bothering him. Thomas doesn’t rush his own pleasure nor is messy with it. He takes that time to learn more about himself as well, more about his limits and what his body craves.

His thoughts wander to you, the feeling of you being close to him, frames of memory about some nights he had spent with you. But he also keeps his mind blank and focuses on the pleasure.

He likes to do it when he is aware that he won’t be interrupted because he gets frustrated whenever he has to be careful about it. 

Sometimes he jerks off to release the stress or produce some dopamine in his body, or just because he is bored as fuck and has nothing better to do that late at night.

He always cleans himself and makes sure to not stain much, because he doesn’t want to change the sheets when it’s 3 AM.

K = Kink (one or more of their kinks)

Food play. He’d pour a trail of chocolate syrup from your belly button towards your lower stomach, licking all the way down until he founds something more tasty between your thighs. He might put some cream or honey on your neck and suck on it as if he was craving it, he might even put it on your chest to worship your chest area and play with your nipples.

Nipple play. Yes, in relation to the last point… yes, he loves sucking and playing with your nipples a lot. And the other way around as well. He has sensitive nipples and likes when you play with them.

Orgasm control. He likes to be in control of the situation, be able to guide you, but also to guide when are you going to cum or not.

L = Location (favorite places to do the do)

He loves to do it in bed and at night. It’s obvious to him that the bed is the first option, since it’s very comfy. The bedroom is a safe spot, intimate, where you both can show yourselves without filters. The environment is calm and quiet, allowing him to focus on you, on every single reaction, any slight gesture. He also likes to see you relaxed in your own space.

Won’t reject doing it on the couch. He finds it even domestic how easily things flow when you are watching a movie or simply cuddling, and how the situation evolves until it gets intimate. It’s comfortable for him.

The shower or bathtub is another option that comes to his mind. The warm water, the heat in the environment and between both of your bodies, the touch with your bare skins. And it’s even easier to get yourself cleaned right afterward, so he allows himself to be naughtier on the shower, since he won’t have to clean anything.

M = Motivation (what turns them on, gets them going)

The brush of your fingers on his neck or collarbones when you’re kissing him or simply caressing him appreciatively.

Whenever you approach from behind and speak softly to his ear while he is busy. 

Your soft sighs whenever he is giving you a massage to ease your sore bones.

When you call his name in a low but sweet tone, or even with a playful remark. He loves how his names rolls out from your tongue so attractively.

Your need for physical contact, whenever you search it. It makes him feel desired and good.

The moment you sit on his lap he starts thinking of any disgusting facts he has searched at some point of his life to not get aroused.

The way you whisper against his skin at night, when it seems that you’re trying to talk and not be heard by anyone even if you’re alone.

N = No (something they wouldn’t do, turn offs)

A great turn-off for him is not having a clear consent. No matter how intense the situation is, if he senses a doubt, unconformity or you aren’t really feeling great for it, he stops immediately.

To be rushed. He hates having to be quick. He needs to take his time, to enjoy of you slowly so it lasts longer. He doesn’t really like quickies because of that, because he needs time and being rushed doesn’t arouse him at all.

He’d never hurt you, he won’t even take any humiliating role because he believes that isn’t love. He loves you and that means he’s going to take care of you, and more in such a vulnerable moment. He completely rejects verbally or physically hurting you.

He won’t risk it in public. He doesn’t mind if you tease him, if you get clingy, but he ain’t risking it.

Not a third person. He doesn’t share. What you both have is intimate and the idea of having another person around makes him very uncomfortable.

He will never record you or share any pics of your intimate moments. It’s a simple thing of mutual respect and to protect what you both have.

O = Oral (preference in giving or receiving, skill, etc.)

He prefers to give, and not only to please you but also because he loves to see you surrender due to his mouth. The way you tremble, the way your breathing gets slowly shaky under his intense attention.  He is patient and whenever he is focused on his job, he makes a good job. So this is one of those times in which he is deeply focused in using his mouth to make you feel good.

He is fascinated to learn what kind of touches make you squirm, where does he need to suck, where does he need to be softer or rougher, how much he can bring you to your limit.

He would like to receive a head as well, and whenever he feels the urges he might comment “they say that semen works as an antidepressant so…”

But he won’t force it at all, just if you’re willing to do it. He doesn’t strictly need it to be satisfied

P = Pace (are they fast and rough? slow and sensual? etc.)

Slow. He likes to take his time and taste every single reaction coming from you. He has no rush to reach the end of this. For him, the process is as important as the climax. Every sigh, every squirm, every glance from you is a motivation for him.

Sensual. He likes to create an intimate environment with eye contact, prolonged touch, caresses that do not strictly search to arouse you but to make you feel loved as well. Thomas is very focused in every single detail and plays with some contrasts: He gives you slow kisses followed by soft bites, soft touches as he whispers the dirtiest stuff on your ear...

Q = Quickie (their opinions on quickies, how often, etc.)

He isn’t closed to it, but it isn’t his thing. He prefers to enjoy of it without being rushed. Depending on the context, it could happen, and he’d accept it and enjoy of it on his way, as long as it happens in a natural and spontaneous way.

It’d happen if you only have a few minutes left before having to leave for work, or before a dinner, when the desire is too strong to deny it.

It’d happen most of the time when you take the initiative because he loves when you take the initiative for it.

He’ll reward you later with a longer experience. One that you both will enjoy and not forget.

R = Risk (are they game to experiment? do they take risks? etc.)

No. Not at all. He doesn’t like the idea of others being capable of hearing you or accidentally interrupting you both. This is a private and intimate moment, an exclusive time he isn’t prepared to share not even by accident with anyone else that isn’t you.

S = Stamina (how many rounds can they go for? how long do they last?)

He prefers quality to quantity so he is gonna take long on the first round, taking his time with the preliminaries and the rhythm. He knows how to control his own body, slowing down when he feels close so it lasts longer. His goal is to make you both feel good equally.

After the first round, he might need a break. He is capable of going on with a second and even third round before you both are exhausted.

T = Toys (do they own toys? do they use them? on a partner or themselves?)

Yeah, a couple of vibrators to use between you both or in private. He never used one on himself but wasn’t opposed to experiment either. 

He would take you to a sex shop one day and ask the workers what you both are searching for, so they can show you a variety of those toys and buy whatever you wanna try. As long as it doesn’t involve pain, he isn’t opposed.

He’d like to use blindfolds on bed.

U = Unfair (how much they like to tease)

Not too unfair but a little bit playful and bold. His teasing involves little touches that make your body crave him even more as he seems to approach to your sensitive spots just to remove his hands from there. 

He whispers against your ear teasing phrases like “can’t wait that much? How impatient,” or “I know you’re dying for more. Wanna beg a little, so I can give you what you need?”

He goes slower than you’d wish, finding it so funny how you get so impatient. He’s also a big fan of sudden movements to make you more sensitive.

V = Volume (how loud they are, what sounds they make, etc.)

He isn’t loud at first, and he is mostly quiet since he is focused. He might verbally tease you sometimes, but words are unnecessary.

You might hear his heavy breathing at first, sometimes low grunts escaping his chest from the contained pleasure he is trying to keep. But he cannot control it. He also lets long sighs of your name, as a way to scold you for feeling so good.

As the time passes and he gets more sensitive, he might release low, drowned moans against your neck, sometimes near your ear. He also spits some words between his moans, but not so specific, things like “just like that”, “more” or even a small curse.

W = Wild card (a random headcanon for the character)

He accidentally came on his pants once as he was eating you out. He suddenly stopped and looked down at his pants, panting softly at the sticky feeling between his legs. “Shit… I just came” he simply confesses, ashamed. You’d laugh, but not humiliating him, simply finding the scene adorable. He was too aroused for you.

X = X-ray (let’s see what’s going on under those clothes)

He has a natural elegance on his body. He is thin, not toned but not like he cares too much about that. His body is composed by that soft and long shape that is captivating. His skin is pale, with some freckles on his shoulders, back, nose and cheeks. Talking of his cheeks, they get red when his body is feeling hotter than usual, and not specifically in sexual terms, also in summer, when he does some sport, when he is focused…

His hands are big, long fingers and really attractive to see. They express a lot with his touch and definitely knows what he does with them.

Talking about more intimate places… he is correctly proportioned, standard size when it’s soft but longer when he gets hard. It is a little bit thick but not too much, just properly thick. It’s straight, with a pinkish, round tip and sensitive to touch.

Y = Yearning (how high is their sex drive?)

His sex drive is normal but leaning to low. When he feels too close to you and the context allows it, he might feel his desire increase. Thomas knows how to control his urges and isn’t desperate to release his needs so quick.

Z = Zzz (how quickly they fall asleep afterwards)

He needs his time to relax, not able to sleep immediately since he knows that getting cleaned and hydrated is a priority. Then he lies down with you and simply enjoys of the calm of being besides you like that for a while, knowing that there’s a deep connection no matter the silence.

As you sleep, he thinks deeply about his stuff and slowly releases himself to grab his Nintendo and play for a while until he feels tired. He is a night owl, and even if sex is like a tiring sport, he isn’t too tired to sleep.

After an hour or two of enjoying the silence and taking part of it, he decides to cuddle with you and sleep.