Hugot And Advice

Hi Patotieeee,

If your partner tells you that he loves you but doesn't trust you, it can be a difficult situation to deal with. After all, trust is the foundation of any relationship.

Why does he not trust you? Trust is very important, it's a base for a relationship. I would ask him why he's feeling this way and trying to work it out. You need to talk and ask him, otherwise you will destroy yourself by looking for ways to win his trust!!

Again If a person doesn’t trust you, why would you want to be with them. Love is not about saying “I love you.” It is about showing in the way they behave, in what they do when you want your time and space. Every relationship is sacred on that count. Your hanging out with your friends, family or even your colleagues and associates is not cheating and betrayal. It is about who you are and your circle of people in your life. Same as his. Good luck!! Please think about how it will impact your entire life. Take a call.

Sincerely,

Ms. Clumsy0023

Hi inlove with someone,

You can slowly become friends with her, make sure not to push their personal boundaries as it will make her uncomfortable. When they are open with you, lakasan mo loob mo at if you think na me chance ka? feel free to tell her your feeling while also reassuring them that it is fine if they don't feel the same way.

You have got to risk love. Time is very precious in life so don't loose opportunity which are in hands wag masyadong torpe, kung totoo at mahal mo talaga, Sige lang! Gawin mo lang sa tingin mo eh tama!

Just be a nice boy and do approach her. Who knows what are written in destiny.

If failure might take place then there is nothing to be small hearted.

There are more options, there are more attempts. Just go for it !!!

About religion there is not much you can do! It’s a difficult situation. It depends what religions you both adore. Some religions are almost compatible and others are Romeo and Juliet. You both have to decide whether your religion is going to rule your life, or whether you are going to listen to your inner self, which is your inner guidance system. That doesn’t mean that you don’t discuss your decisions with others, but it does mean you don’t live under a system imposed upon you. Up to you. Good luck and laban lang!! Lakasan mo loob mo at Ipag laban mo lang! Kaya mo yan.. 😛🥳😇

Sincerely,

MsClumsy

Hi Villenageart,

Cheating is the most intimate and ultimate betrayal. It is also the one thing that is the hardest ever to get past or forgive, for it breaks the trust you had in your partner. Trust is the foundation all healthy relationships are built upon; without complete trust in each other, the relationship will falter and end.

The foundation of a good relationship is Trust. If there is no trust, the relationship will eventually crumble. It would be like trying to build a house without putting down a Foundation, sure, it looks fine at first, but it's only a matter of time until disaster strikes.

Good luck! Hope okay lang lahat sa iyo.

Sincerely,

Hi Mellowcowboy,

Tell your friend, in relationships don't be afraid if he/she truly love someone, Sundin lang nya ang nararamdaman nya, wag siyang matakot sa anuman commitment na haharapin nya, ang mahalaga mahal nya at mahal siya. So give it the best shot and leave the rest to destiny.

It’s totally fine to be like this. One cannot share everything with their parents. But again Puwede naman dahan dahanin kausapin ang parents nya, specially kung nasa tamang edad na siya? At Alam nya na ang ginagawa nya. Kung takot parin siya sa commitments it is also okay because if you’re committing yourself in something you need be sure about it and internally stable.

Their’s nothing to worry about. With respect to time he/she would be ready for commitments and for everything, you would get your answers which you’re looking for. For now, just go with the flow of time. Thank you and hope maging okay na siya, Life is too short to be scared and not take risks. I'd rather be the person that's like, 'I messed up,' than, 'I wish I did that.'

Sincerely,

Hi Ms-Comfuse,

Apologies for the delay of my response, he is the one who want to visit you, he should pay period… end of discussion, it's like being asked out on a date but you still have to pay for your own food. If it was your idea then that is fine, at least you can help a little, And again it depend on the situations.

know your worth make him invest in you if he really wants to see you he will pay without any questions asked.

If a man is truly interested in you he will figure out a way to come to you. Gagawa siya ng paraan just to see you and find away para maka punta siya dyan.

I would NOT shoulder any expenses he wants you to pay, and expected you to pay for all and stay with him especially if you are just getting to know him , think twice wag kang masyadong padala sa damdamin mo, gamitin mo ang isip mo, Tama ba na ako sumagot sa lahat ng gastos nya? Bakit hindi siya gumawa ng paraan para mag kita kami without asking money?

Don't stay with him, Alam ko he can find away without asking you for his expenses. Good luck and be smart to make a decisions. Thank you and god blessed 😇

Sincerely Yours,

Hi Mamalove19,

Everybody can be busy! But if someone who claims to love you cannot make out time for you, I'm afraid that person doesn't really love you.

People who make out time for you truly care about you. People who say they care but cannot make out time for you, do not care about you.

If he don't have time for you, he has no time to find love. That's the truth of it all. You don't want anything less than love.

He is probably planning to use you or is just using you and playing with your emotions. I’m sorry about it, “ TIME IS LOVE! LOVE IS TIME”!

Ask yourself, do you deserve someone who plays with your emotions?

Don't you deserve someone who is real enough to put actions to their words?

Remember, love yourself enough to leave when the other person cannot see your worth. Good luck to you and sana maging okay na ang lahat sa iyo! Thank you and I know everything will be okay. Smile ka na ha and don’t waste your time thinking about this issue of your relationship, let go and move on.. God blessed 😇 ☺️

Sincerely Yours,

Hi Waywardmakerweaselperson,

It is normal since you spent time with that person, there will always be that lingering effects, If that person let go of your hand then don't try to reach it again because there is nothing that you will gain except pain

You move on! Trust me, just move on. It’s all going to get better, eventually. All you need is a push from the inside. Not just once, a little everyday. When you know someone does not or hindi ka na mahal, what are you waiting for? Sinasaktan mo lang ang sarili mo! Why are you wasting some precious years of your life?

Alam ko masakit! Nararamdaman mong parang mag isa ka na lang sa mundo, You will have many breakdowns. You will cry and cry and cry. You would stop talking to people. You would make yourself reserved. You will start doubting yourself, forget loving yourself. You would feel you’re losing everything in life. Name it and it will happen.

But, whatever happens, it won’t last forever. All those emotions and feelings just need you to press a button to turn them off. It’s not going to be easy, but it’s not impossible either. Alam ko makakaya mo yan! Laban lang tayo.

People lose the ones they love to death, yung sa iyo, hindi ka na mahal ng taong mahal mo. Tell me what’s worse? I’m not saying that your problems don’t mean anything. They do. But you’ve got to become stronger.

Kung hindi ka na Mahal, someone else will, And Alam ko na dyan lang sa tabi tabi yan or nag hihintay lang 😜 kaya wag ka nang malungkot ha? Life is to short, enjoy lang tayo at madami pang way pare tayo eh sumaya..

Until then, become the love of your life! Good luck and Goblessed po.

Hello Ms. Sherimiy,

Ang advice po natin Ay galing sa isa mga advisor ng aming gc! From Ms @Ariellerosas

No that’s not normal. If a person wanted you to be their girlfriend or boyfriend they would’ve asked you that a long time ago. What you are now is friends with benefits.

Parang tulad ng pag-aaral at pagpasa ng isang kurso, but not getting the diploma to prove it. You put in the hours, do all the work, and get nothing to show for it besides the knowledge that you did it, despite nobody believing you.

Everybody needs to know where they stand in a relationship. Where are we going? Do we have a future together and if so, what does that future entail. Is this love, friendship, a stop gap till someone better comes along? We need this to feel secure. A no label relationship answers none of these questions and can onlt lead to anxiety, depression and lack of self esteem. I hope na sana naka tulong ang advice ko. Please take care of your self and always be happy !!

Good Luck,

Msclumsy

To be honest, that feeling of true love will never go away completely. With time, you will learn to live with that pain, your mind will learn to live with it. You are very much attached to them, and especially to those memories that you have made together. Or maybe, there is some fantasy you have in your mind - after all, there is a reason you and them cannot be together, right?

Alam ko sobrang hirap kalimutan ang isang tao na mahal na mahal natin maging ito ay isang kaibigan o isang special para sa iyo. But by time, slowly you will be able to move on and explore the world without them. It may have been better if they were with you, I know, but unfortunately, life really isn’t easy. I suggest you to not be too hard on yourself. From time to time, you will miss them and it is really alright to miss someone. But just don’t forget that you are you, and they are them - you have your own responsibilities.

Time will heal you, but you would need to break with this person emotionally and try not to think to much about him or her. If you are going to allow yourself to be hung up on this person, it will take much longer. You would need to make a decision and stick to it. Everything in life is a choice.

Good luck,

MsClumsy

How do I stop missing someone that I know is not missing me???

You cannot stop loving or missing someone who has always been so important for you. You will yearn for her presence in your life always. Unfortunately, there’s no delete option for people.

Rather than hurting yourself by expecting that person to miss you back, just accept the reality and don't expect. Just keep good memories in heart. The person may not be there and may won't come. But the memories you are having will always be yours. And keep them to be a beautiful part of life rather than finding answer for this questions.

"Accept and move on with your memories" , because you have no control over other's behavior but you can always choose your way to deal with that . Simple answer for complex question. There is always a simple way, we make it harder :)

Good luck!

Msclumsy0023