Feeling feisty today. Thought I might crack my knuckles and set some Tamlin hate straight.
1. Fae blowing up rooms during stress &/or at the on-set of freshly released magic that was repressed is: CANON.
So saying Tamlin was abusive for blowing up the room, ignores the normalcy of this in sjm fae lit.
When Dorian broke a wall and blew up a room with Sorscha in it after his magic was released.
When Aelin damn near killed Chaol, scratched/scarred his face after Nehemia died.
When Bryce blew up the interrogation room after the stress of the Pack dying.
When Feyre injured Lady of Autumn during the High Lords meeting, after a stressful comment.
When Rhysand burst through and shattered the House of Winds windows after Nesta helped Bryce's parents.
When Aelin had pent up energy from the mask, enough to hold an entire damn of water back.
When Rhysand stated that he has to release energy by fighting with Cassian and Az, or sense the magic builds up and implodes.
2. He trapped her in the house.
But let's not forget, she has a bargain with someone who k-d his entire family and who was partnered with Amarantha for 50 years. Ianthe is telling him the other High Lords want to attack her for her having a drop of their power.
Rhysand also trapped her in the HoW for a week at a time despite her begging to be returned.
Rhysand also didn't help her escape UTM imprisonment despite having a secret city to hide her in.
He then went onto force her sister, Nesta, into house imprisonment.
Not to mention Hewn City citizens, Velaris Citizens, and Ilyrian warriors that are not allowed to leave.
3. He didn't help her PTSD
He stayed up all night in beast mode guarding the door. He gave her the space she asked for. And worked tirelessly to break her of a bargain she didn't want to be in.