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Condoms are only 98% effective when used correctly.

Sugar can cause infections in the vagina. This means things like chocolate sauce, honey, and lubricants with glycerin can be harmful.

Having sex with an intoxicated person is legally rape in most US states, even if the person verbally consents. In the eyes of the law, drugs and alcohol impair your ability to consent to sex.

Unprotected anal sex is the most dangerous sex act when it comes to spreading STIs.

Not everyone can climax from oral sex or even likes oral sex. Don’t assume—ask your partner what they want!

Condoms expire! Check the date on the wrapper. Also, storing them in wallets is not a good idea (see #8)

If someone with a vagina has unprotected anal sex, semen can drip down into the vagina and pose a (slight, but still real) risk for pregnancy.

Do not keep condoms in your wallet. The friction and heat exposure of keeping them there can make them ineffective. Keep them somewhere cool, dry, and out of sunlight.

You should be tested for STIs with each new partner you have. Annual appointments are not enough protection if you have multiple partners in that time.

Having anal sex does not lead to a gaping asshole unless your partner is literally an elephant.

Sex with elephants is illegal. Don’t do that.

Masturbating while wearing a condom can help people with penises get used to wearing them before sex.

Penis size does not define your worth. It is not the be-all, end-all factor for most people.

In fact, lots of people with large penises have trouble having sex without hurting their partner since the average vagina size is 6”-8” when aroused (it’s only 3”-4” when not aroused!).

Your first time will almost definitely not be your best time. That’s okay, I promise.

Herpes and pubic lice can still infect you if a condom is used if testicles come in contact with a vuvla.

Only one out of three people can orgasm from receiving vaginal penetration alone. You’re not broken.

People with penises can orgasm without ejaculating.

The muscles in a vagina can be abnormally tense and cause intense pain when penetrated with a toy, penis, or tampon. This is called vaginismus and treatment for this includes relaxation therapy and using medical rods to help the muscles relax.

The number of sexual partners you have does not define you. This rule applies to all genders.

A diet of lots of dairy and meat can cause ejaculate to taste bad. Fruits that are very sweet (like pineapple) help combat this for some people. However, due to body chemistry, medications, and other factors, it might not always do the trick.

Dental dams make oral sex with someone with a vulva safer. They are thin sheets of latex and can be home-made by cutting the ends off a condom and slitting it lengthwise to make a alternative option if you don’t have access to dental dams.

The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings in it. That’s twice that of a penis! So, go gently until encouraged to do otherwise.

Sex does not have to stop when someone ejaculates. Remove any condoms or clean up any mess, and keep going until everyone is satisfied!

Communication is the number one factor to a better, healthier sex life.

The hymen is not a bone, and does not break. It is a membrane layer that stretches. It can tear, which can lead to pain and bleeding. However, sex for the first time (or ever!) should never hurt. Go slower and focus on foreplay to increase natural lubrication.

Sexuality is fluid for a lot of people. Don’t worry about labels until you’re sure in your sexual and romantic interests. Explore freely and worry about terms later.

Orgasms release hormones that are natural pain-killers. This is why some menstruating people masturbate when they have cramps, because the body naturally reduces pain after an orgasm.

The hormones released also account for why some people cry or get very emotional after an intense orgasm. It’s totally normal.

There are limitless kinks in the world and so long as they are safe and consensual, there is nothing wrong with them.

Medications and mental health disorders can mess with your sex drive. Talk to your doctor if your sex drive has suddenly increased or decreased after starting a medication—there may be alternatives.

There is nothing “un-manly” or “gay” about enjoying anal play. Most men who try anal enjoy a little sensation in that area. People with penises also have a p-spot (prostate) and can have intense orgasms through anal penetration.

Always use lubrication generously to avoid vaginal or anal tearing.

Urinating after sex can reduce the risk of a UTI in people with vaginas.

Enjoying casual sex does not make you a bad person if you are up-front with your intentions and don’t maliciously seek to hurt others.

Condoms come in multiple sizes! It should never be loose or painfully tight.

Being sex-positive does not mean that everyone needs to enjoy sex. It simply promotes the happiness and sexual exploration (or non-exploration) of others.

Porn is not an educational guide to sex.

Certain positions feel better than others. Switch it up and find out what works for you and your partner(s).

Condoms are more likely to break if you don’t leave a reservoir tip for ejaculate.

Labia are often asymmetrical. Your long/uneven/poofy/dark labia are beautiful and there is nothing wrong with your body.

Up to 80% of people with a vagina can squirt with either g-spot or clitoral stimulation.

Drug store pregnancy tests are just as effective as brand name ones. In some cases, they’re even MORE effective.

Elevating your butt with pillows can make missionary sex easier for those of us with a big tummy or thick thighs.

Plan B does not work on people over a certain weight (160-175lbs).

There are safe alternatives to condoms or oral contraceptives. Talk to your doctor about your options.

Sex toys can open up a whole new world to folks willing to explore.

Orgasms can be highly psychological. Most people can’t climax when they’re upset or distracted.

Birth control can cause people to miss periods or spot in between periods.

Sex doesn’t have to be gentle if you don’t want it to be. There are healthy ways to explore rough sex or BDSM.

From a Straight man for the ladies

Ok, first off you have to want to give your man, friend with benefits, side dude, jump off or whatever the case may be, a great blowjob. Great head is what most any man wants and deserves. Grown men, like 25 and over in most cases have experienced a top notch dick sucker. With that being said, you have to strive to be better than all the rest👅. Don’t be a boring top giver, that💩 shit only worked back in high school. For references you can search Heather Brook from ideepthroat videos, Superhead, Jada Fire, Lacey Duvalle and Pinky all give good head and can give you some good tips on what to do.

1. To start off, if the 🍆dick ain’t hard, begin to play with and suck on it. We like to grow inside your 👄. Use your saliva, 💦💧spit on the dick, you dont want to be dry jackin the dick to make it hard. Remember its just a dick!

2. Start off slow, he aint going nowhere. Use more 💦spit to keep his Johnson lubricated and continue to stroke his shaft and lick and suck his cock to get it hard. Pay alot of attention to the head. By the way…..its just a dick!

3. Once you have a hard dick, use less 🙌hands and more 👄. You know how you used to lick them popsicles 🍭when you were little, start licking the shlong like them popsicles🍭. You know what it is…. Its just a dick!

4. Dont be one dimensional. We need variation. Don’t just suck it one way and thats it. Suck it with no 🙌hands, then change the speed and/or rhythm with the hands, lick the sides, dont forget the balls, play with his balls, deepthroat, play with his balls while you deep throat, if you can get professional with it and lick his balls while you have his dick down your throat, then do it. Thats “BeastMode” right there. Don’t be too rough with the balls, but caress, massage, lick and suck on the balls. Its just dick and balls!

5. It’s not going to kill you, lick the shaft. You dont have to have the peter in your 👄 the whole time. Lick👅 the muthafucka on the sides, forward and backwards while holding it with your hands. Slap it on your tongue, cheeks and titties. Be creative, if you feel the penis getting flacid, do something different. Jack it faster, suck while jacking, deepthroat or whatever and dont worry, we are 😍loving every bit of it. Its just a damn dick!

6. There isnt a fire🔥… Don’t rush it, let him sit back and enjoy getting his soul sucked out of himself. The longer you make him hold out, the better the orgasm will be. When you feel the climax coming, slow down or do something else so the urge will subside. Then build him back up to near nutting and keep going til he bust🎉 or repeat the slowdown techniques. Only dirty pricks make you sick, so dont be scared. Its only a dick!

7. The finish can go a few different ways. One way is to let him ejaculate💨 in you 👄 (my personal favorite), bust that nut all over your face, titties, ass, but not in a towel because thats fuckin boring. If he has a condom on, just keep suckin while he cummin, you will not die. Its just a fuckn dick!

8. Then after the nut, for God sakes don’t just get up and go, hes not done. Gently keep playing, sucking, licking, kissing and jacking. It is quite fucking sensitive at this point. Just keep going til he stop cummin, moaning, moving and convulsing or til it goes soft. In the event it hardens back up, either give him some more brain👄 or give the man some pussy. Its just a damn dick!