C.C.

holding yourself accountable and tearing yourself down are two different things

how to do it (asking seriously)

be aware of what you’ve done wrong. forgive yourself and learn from it rather than beating yourself up over it and thinking it’s just a part of you that can’t be changed. know that you can’t go back and undo it but also that in the future you can do better and not repeat the same regret. self hatred stemming from regret is hard to control, but it can be managed with patience and practice.

Once you have identified the proper remedies to the situation and have implemented them, you no longer need to think about the situation. You do not need to remind yourself of the thing months or years after countermeasures are done. Do not feel guilty, focus on responding to the issue.

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Walk by faith and not by sight.