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Alex: “Aaaaahhh—!! Fuuuuck—!!” raw, guttural scream tearing across the river

Matt: “That’s it, Alex… let it out. Push hard. Fuck, I can see the head crowning. Your hole is stretching so wide around him right now. Keep pushing, baby. You’re opening so beautifully.”

Alex: voice breaking, almost sobbing “It’s burning—! Matt, it’s burning so fucking bad—!! I feel like I’m tearing—!!”

Matt: “You’re not tearing. You’re stretching exactly the way you need to. The head is right there, pushing your ring to the limit. I can see his hair. Dark and wet. You’re doing so fucking good. Another big push. Come on.”

Alex: panicking, voice cracking “Matt— Matt please—! I can’t stay like this! I need to lie down! Just let me lie down so you can catch him—!!”

Matt: gripping Alex’s hips firmly, holding him in place “No. You stay right here. On your hands and knees. That head took forever to crown and I’m not letting you lose all that progress. Gravity is helping you right now. The baby is moving down exactly how he should. If you lie down now you’ll have to start all over again.”

Alex: “It’s too much—! He’s too big—! I feel like my whole body is splitting open—!!”

Matt: “I know it feels like that. Your hole is stretched so thin around his head right now. The skin is pulled tight, red and shining. Every push makes him advance a little more. You’re so close. I can see his forehead. Just a few more good pushes and his whole head will be out.”

Alex: moaning loudly, whole body shaking “Matt— I can’t— I can’t take any more—!”

Matt: “You can. Your body is built for this. Your pelvis is opening, your tissues are stretching, your muscles are working exactly like they’re supposed to. Push with the next contraction. Let me see more of our son. Let me watch you birth him.”

Alex: “Hnnnghh—!! It’s coming—! Oh god it’s coming out more—!!”

Matt: “Yes… that’s it. Good boy. Look at how wide you’re opening for him. Your hole is taking him so well. I can see his ears now. Just a little more and his whole head will slip out. You’re doing incredible.”

Alex: panting hard, voice hoarse “Matt… it hurts so much…”

Matt: “I know, baby. I know it hurts. But you’re almost there. After this we’re gonna have our son in our arms. And when you heal… when this body recovers… I’m gonna put another one in you. And another. Because this is what you were made for. Carrying. Birthing. Giving me sons.”

Alex: weak, broken sound “Matt…”

Matt: “Come on, Alex. One more big push. Let me meet our baby boy. Push him out. Let me watch you give birth right here by the river like the strong, powerful man you are.”

How to help your older child feel safe, included, and emotionally ready before their baby sibling arrives.

Becoming a dad again is not only about preparing the nursery, packing the hospital bag, or learning how many diapers a newborn can somehow use in one day.

It is also about preparing the child who is already here.

In an MPREG family, pregnancy may already come with extra questions from the outside world. But inside the home, the emotional work is very familiar: one child is about to become an older sibling, and that can feel exciting, confusing, threatening, magical, unfair, or all of those things at once.

And that is normal.

Children do not need to be perfectly thrilled about a new baby. They need to be guided. They need language. They need reassurance. They need proof that the family is growing, not replacing them. Child development advice from groups like the American Academy of Pediatrics, UNICEF, Zero to Three, and Child Mind Institute all emphasizes preparation, emotional validation, predictable routines, books, pretend play, and one-on-one time with each parent as useful ways to help children adjust to a new sibling.

So here are some grounded, practical ways for new dads to help an older child get ready.

1. Start the conversation before the baby arrives 🗣️

Do not wait until the baby is almost here to explain what is happening.

Children often notice more than adults think: the changing body, the doctor visits, the baby supplies, the adults whispering in the kitchen. When nobody explains it clearly, children may fill in the blanks with anxiety.

Use simple, direct language:

“A baby is growing in Dad’s belly.” “The baby will live with us after they are born.” “You will still be our child. That does not change.”

For younger children, repeat the same message many times. For older children, invite questions. Some may ask biological questions. Some may ask practical ones: Where will the baby sleep? Will you still take me to practice? Will I have to share my room?

Answer what you can. Admit what you do not know yet.

A child does not need a perfect speech. They need honesty that feels safe.

2. Use books, pictures, and real explanations 📚

Reading together is one of the easiest ways to make pregnancy and newborn care less mysterious. Books give children words for things they have not experienced yet: crying, feeding, sleeping, diapers, hospital visits, belly growth, and family change.

That matters.

Try reading together and pausing to ask:

“What do you think about this part?” “Does anything here seem weird or confusing?” “What do you think babies need?” “What do you think might be hard when the baby comes?”

The goal is not to lecture. The goal is to open a door.

3. Let them touch the idea before they meet the baby 🧸

Pretend play is powerful. Practicing with a doll can help children understand that babies are fragile, noisy, needy, and not very independent.

You can practice:

• how to hold a baby safely • how to use a soft voice • how to bring a diaper or wipe • how to wait while Dad feeds the baby • what to do when the baby cries

But be careful with the message.

The child is not becoming a third parent.

They are becoming a sibling.

So instead of saying:

“You’ll have to help a lot when the baby comes.”

Try:

“You can help when you want to, and we’ll show you safe ways to do it.”

That difference matters. Children usually feel better when they have a role, but worse when they feel assigned a job they never chose.

4. Prepare them for the boring parts too 😴

Many children imagine babies as tiny playmates. Then the baby arrives and mostly cries, sleeps, eats, and needs adults constantly.

That can feel disappointing.

Tell the truth early:

“New babies do not know how to play yet.” “The baby may cry a lot, and that does not mean you did anything wrong.” “Sometimes I will need to take care of the baby first. That does not mean I love you less.”

This is one of the most important psychological preparations. Children often personalize change. If Dad is tired, busy, or holding the baby, the older child may silently think: I did something wrong. I am less important now.

Say the opposite out loud before they have to wonder.

5. Include them in preparations, but do not force enthusiasm 🎨

Painting the nursery, folding tiny clothes, choosing a blanket, organizing diapers, or packing the hospital bag can help a child feel included.

Your painting-room photo is especially useful here. It shows preparation as a family activity, not a private adult project happening behind closed doors.

Good ways to include a child:

• let them pick a small item for the baby • ask where a picture or toy should go • let them help sort baby socks or diapers • invite them to make a welcome card • let them help pack one item in the hospital bag

But do not demand constant excitement.

Some days they may want to help. Some days they may not. Both are acceptable.

A child who says, “I don’t care about the baby,” may actually mean, “I am scared you care about the baby more than me.”

Respond to the feeling under the words.

6. Make space for jealousy, anger, and fear 🌧️

This part is serious.

Do not shame jealousy.

Do not say:

“That’s not nice.” “You should be happy.” “Good big brothers don’t act like that.” “Good big sisters love the baby.”

That kind of pressure can make resentment stronger. Zero to Three specifically warns against expecting older children to instantly love a new baby, because the baby may feel like someone taking attention away.

Try this instead:

“It makes sense that this feels strange.” “You can love the baby and still feel annoyed.” “You are allowed to miss how things were before.” “I’m glad you told me.”

A child’s feeling is not the same as their behavior.

They are allowed to feel jealous. They are not allowed to hurt the baby. That boundary should be calm and firm:

“I won’t let you hit. The baby has to be safe. You can tell me, ‘I’m mad,’ and I will listen.”

That is emotional coaching: name the feeling, allow the feeling, limit unsafe behavior.

7. Protect one-on-one time with the older child ⏰

After the baby arrives, everyone talks about the newborn.

Visitors ask about the baby. Adults hold the baby. Photos are of the baby. Gifts are for the baby. The older child may start to feel invisible.

This is why one-on-one time matters.

It does not have to be dramatic. Ten focused minutes can help.

No phone. No baby in your arms if possible. No multitasking.

Just:

• reading one chapter • walking around the block • making cocoa • playing a quick card game • sitting on the bed and talking • watching them build something

Child Mind Institute recommends continuing special individual time after the baby arrives, because it helps the older child feel secure instead of displaced.

You can even give it a name:

“Dad-and-me time.” “Big kid breakfast.” “Our ten minutes.”

A predictable ritual says: The baby changed our schedule, not my love for you.

8. Give the older child a birth plan too 🏥

Adults often prepare for labor, delivery, recovery, feeding, and sleep.

But the older child also needs a plan.

Tell them:

• who will stay with them when Dad goes to the hospital or birth center • where they will sleep that night • when they might meet the baby • whether they can call or video chat • what will happen if plans change

Uncertainty is stressful for children. A simple plan can lower anxiety.

Try saying:

“When it is time for the baby to be born, Uncle Max will come stay with you. You will still go to school the next day unless it is the weekend. We will call you when we can. You are not being left behind.”

That last sentence is important.

Many children need to hear it plainly.

9. Create a welcome ritual 🎁

Your photo with the child making a “Welcome Baby” card is one of the strongest images in the set. It gives the older child a place in the story.

A small ritual can help:

• the older child makes a card for the baby • the baby “brings” a small gift for the older child • the older child chooses a soft toy or blanket • the family takes a first sibling photo • the older child helps announce the baby’s name

This is not about bribery. It is about symbolism.

The message is:

“You are part of this welcome.” “Your role matters.” “This is your family too.”

10. Do not rush the bond 🤍

Some children fall in love with the baby immediately.

Some are curious for five minutes and then bored.

Some ignore the baby.

Some regress: baby talk, clinginess, sleep trouble, accidents, tantrums, wanting to be carried again.

Regression can be a child’s way of asking: Am I still little enough to be cared for?

Do not panic.

Offer reassurance without mocking them:

“You want extra cuddles today. I can do that.” “You are growing, and you are still my child.” “You do not have to be big all the time.”

That last line can be healing.

Because becoming an older sibling can feel like being promoted without permission.

Let them still be small sometimes.

For MPREG dads specifically 🫄🏽💙

In an MPREG family, you may also need to help your child answer questions from others.

Keep it simple.

“Families can be made in different ways.” “In our family, Dad is carrying the baby.” “You do not have to explain our whole family to everyone.” “If someone asks something rude, you can say, ‘That’s private.’”

Your child should not become the family spokesperson unless they want to. Give them scripts. Give them permission to protect their privacy. Give them confidence that their family is not a problem to solve.

At home, treat the pregnancy as real, ordinary, and emotionally open.

Not a secret. Not a spectacle. Not something the child has to defend.

Just family.

Closing:

A new baby changes the shape of a home.

The older child may gain a sibling, but they may also fear losing their place. That is why preparation matters. Not just the nursery. Not just the diapers. Not just the hospital bag.

Prepare the relationship.

Read with them. Practice with them. Let them help. Let them complain. Let them be proud. Let them be unsure. Keep choosing them in small, visible ways.

Because the goal is not to make the older child perform happiness.

The goal is to help them feel secure enough that love has room to grow.

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He never made it out of the shower.

The contractions had grown so violent and fast that he simply couldn’t walk anymore. So he stayed right there — bent forward under the hot spray, one hand braced hard against the wet tiles, the other white-knuckling the shower rail. His legs were spread wide, feet planted on the slippery floor, his massive pregnant belly hanging low and heavy between his thighs like a ripe, overfilled sack.

This was his birth. Standing. Exposed. Primal.

“Fuuuuck… fuuuuuck…” he growled to himself, voice already hoarse. “Come on… just come the fuck on…”

Every standing contraction was worse than the last. Gravity pulled the baby down hard, but the awkward angle made the shoulders jam against his pelvis. His hole had been burning for what felt like hours as the head slowly forced its way through his rectum. He could feel every inch of the descent — the thick skull grinding against the walls of his bowel, pressing mercilessly on his prostate, turning the pain into something filthy and overwhelming.

Then the final, savage wave hit.

“RRRRAAAAAGHHHH—!!” A deep, guttural, almost inhuman roar tore out of his throat as the head finally crowned. His anus stretched to its absolute limit — paper-thin, shiny, angry red — wrapped obscenely around the widest part of the baby’s skull. The burn was unbearable. He pushed with everything he had, legs shaking, belly contracting violently.

“GGHHHHHAAAAAHHH—!! It’s coming—! It’s fucking coming—!!”

With one last, broken scream the head suddenly slipped free with a loud, wet pop. The baby’s face emerged into the open air, still partially inside his stretched hole, water from the shower running over the newborn’s dark, wet hair.

For a moment there was relief — and then the reality hit him.

The head was out… but the rest of the body wasn’t.

His son’s entire torso, shoulders, arms and legs were still packed tight inside his rectum and lower bowel. The baby was literally hanging from him — head and neck out in the open air, while the bulk of his body remained compressed deep inside his guts. The weight pulled downward constantly, stretching his ruined hole even further. His anus fluttered and clenched helplessly around the baby’s neck, unable to close, unable to push the shoulders out in this position.

“Fuuuuck… he’s stuck… he’s fucking stuck inside my ass…” he gasped desperately to himself, voice cracking. “The head’s out but the rest… the rest is still in my fucking guts…”

He tried to shift his weight, tried to squat even a little to let gravity help, but the moment he bent his knees the pain in his overstretched rectum became blinding. The baby’s broad shoulders were jammed against the walls of his bowel, unable to rotate properly because of the awkward standing angle. Every tiny movement of the child sent fresh, white-hot sparks through his body.

“RRRRAAAAGHHHH—!! I can’t— I can’t move—!!” He roared again, legs trembling violently, hole stretched grotesquely wide around his own half-born son. The baby’s head dangled between his thighs, swinging slightly with every desperate breath he took, while the rest of the tiny body remained locked deep inside his rectum, pressing against every nerve ending.

He was completely frozen in that brutal, exposed position — bent forward, ass up high, hole gaping open around the neck of his child — unable to change posture without making the pain even worse, unable to push effectively, unable to do anything except endure the crushing, burning, animalistic fullness of giving birth standing up like a wild beast.

“Fuck… come on… just come out already…” he muttered hoarsely to himself, voice broken and desperate. “Don’t you dare get stuck now… get the fuck out of my ass…”

The hot water continued to pour over his shaking, sweat-drenched body as he fought the overwhelming sensation of his son hanging halfway out of him, the head already born while the rest of the child remained trapped deep inside his overstretched, burning rectum.

“Fuck…” Dani huffed after his workout. He had pushed himself as hard as he could at the gym today. His muscles were pumped and his body was sweaty. He slowly lifted his tight gym shirt up over his rounded belly. The shirt was already partially showing off the underside of his pregnant gut. Leaving it tightly bunched up between the top of his belly and below his meaty pecs Dani snapped a pic to send to his boyfriend.

“You’re lucky I’m a gym rat at heart dude, this belly you put on me is starting to make this hard”

It had been a couple months since Dani found out he was pregnant. Him and his boyfriend were over the moon. Dani had always wanted to get pregnant. He always secretly loved his boyfriend’s seemingly permanent bulking belly. Dani had always been lean, he could never gain enough weight to pull off a solid gut. When his boyfriend had suggested trying for a family Dani knew it was his chance to grow the gut he always wanted.

Slowly, in the first months of his pregnancy Dani’s belly started to round out. His abs pushed out slightly and his belly button got deeper. Every morning he’d lay in bed before getting up just rubbing his small belly. He loved it, he loved the feeling of his skin stretching, the warmth he felt inside him, and of course how it looked on his muscular frame. Dani couldn’t wait until his belly matched his hunky boyfriend’s big belly.

“Oh ya this is hot” Dani texted his boyfriend. His belly had grown significantly in the past weeks. His belly was now rivalling his partners. It was perfectly round and his skin was smooth and tight. He started to feel horny all the time now. The gym was his release while is boyfriend was at work. Although the pressure on his prostate while in a room with twenty plus hot jacked guys always made Dani hard. He didn’t really care, due to his pregnancy he almost never wore underwear anymore. It was a miracle his sweatpants even still fit. He liked the attention his obviously hard dick print got him. His belly now barely fitting under his shirt, Dani got all the attention he could want.

Intimate pre-labor scene, full-frontal implied — uncensored version available via DM 🕊️ This is exactly what we’re here for: huge bellies right on the edge of birth.

Calvin has been carrying for so long that the weight of his belly has become the center of his day. In this photo he’s sitting on the edge of the bed, legs spread just wide enough to make room for the massive curve resting in his lap. The skin over his stomach is pulled tight and smooth, every breath making the upper part of the dome rise while the lower part sinks heavier between his thighs. It looks like a quiet moment, but his body is right on the edge of changing what this pregnancy means.

When the contraction starts, Calvin notices it first as a shift in pattern. The usual, scattered tightening he has been feeling for weeks pulls itself together into one clear wave. His belly doesn’t just go hard in places anymore; it firms from the top down in a single, continuous band, like a ring closing around everything inside. His hands slide under the weight by instinct, not because he can lift it, but because the rest of him is bracing for something that doesn’t stop when he asks.

The pressure travels lower, deeper into his pelvis, and suddenly the background muscles he never thinks about are all involved. The same groups he uses to stop urine mid-stream or hold back a climax clamp down in one involuntary squeeze. His perineum tightens, his anus closes around the pressure from above, and the whole base of his body feels like it’s drawing in toward the center. Don’t fight it. Just breathe, he tells himself, even as his shoulders curl forward over the hard, rounded belly.

At the peak of the contraction he feels another signal, this time along the length of his penis. The deep muscular squeeze pushes a thin, cloudy, slippery fluid out through the urethra – not in pulses, not like an orgasm, just a slow, steady leak that lasts as long as the tension does. There is no rush of pleasure, only a clear awareness that the pathway those muscles usually control is now part of the same mechanical process. This is still normal. This is still part of it, he repeats silently, trying to file the sensation under “signs of progress” instead of panic.

In his rectum the feeling is one of solid, heavy fullness, as if the entire weight from above has been directed into a single shared channel. There is no dramatic gush of fluid yet, nothing that he would describe as his water breaking. Zamiast tego jest mocne wrażenie, że coś w środku przesunęło się w dół i zakleszczyło dokładnie tam, gdzie ma być. His breathing turns shallow and uneven for a few seconds, his jaw slack, his eyes fixed on the rise of his own chest as he rides out the wave.

When the contraction finally eases, it doesn’t give him back the old sense of “before.” The pain fades from sharp to dull, but the heaviness stays. His thighs tremble, his hands are still planted under his belly, and the curve of it sits a little lower, as if the baby has claimed more space in his pelvis and has no intention of moving back up. Calvin may not say the words out loud, but the thought is there, clear and simple: Okay. That wasn’t practice anymore. That was the start.

Clinical notes: pre-labor physiology in a late male pregnancy

What this image captures is a classic pre-labor contraction in someone at the very end of a high-volume pregnancy. Up to this point, Calvin has been dealing mostly with irregular practice contractions: his uterus tightening in short, uncoordinated episodes that harden the belly but do not consistently move the pregnancy toward birth. A pre-labor contraction is different in three key ways: it is organized, it recruits the pelvis, and it leaves a lasting change in how the pregnancy feels.

Organized means that the muscular wall of the uterus contracts as a single unit. Instead of scattered patches, the fundus and body of the uterus tighten together and sweep the pressure downward toward the outlet. From the outside this looks like the entire belly firming from top to bottom in one motion. On the inside it produces a single, focused wave of pressure that Calvin feels both behind the abdominal wall and deep in the center of his pelvis.

Pelvic recruitment is where the experience becomes unmistakable. The contraction does not stop at the uterus; it pulls in the muscles of the pelvic floor and perineum as well. The same groups involved in continence and ejaculation – the sphincters, the muscles around the urethra and rectum, the fibers that tighten during orgasm – are suddenly asked to work in the same rhythm as the uterus. They clamp down as a ring around the outlet of the pelvis.

This is why Calvin notices the thin, semen-like fluid at the peak of the contraction. When those muscles tighten around the base of the penis and along the urethral pathway, they can mechanically express a small amount of diluted, cloudy secretion. Sometimes there is a trace of urine, sometimes a contribution from the glands that normally participate in ejaculation. In this context it is not a sexual event but a side effect of pressure and muscle activity. Patients describe it as a slow leak rather than a pulsing release – exactly what Calvin feels here.

The relationship between contraction and rupture of membranes is variable, but in this phase most people with a pregnancy like Calvin’s will not lose their waters on the very first organized contraction. If we looked at a series of similar cases, we might see something like this:

a majority experiencing one or several pre-labor contractions with intact membranes for hours,

a smaller group – perhaps around 10–15% – reporting a spontaneous gush of fluid during or immediately after this first strong wave,

the rest having their waters break later, once a clear pattern of active labor contractions is established.

In Calvin’s anatomy the uterus lies in close continuity with the rectal canal rather than a separate vaginal passage, so the earliest downward force is felt primarily as rectal fullness and pressure. That single, heavy sensation matches the idea of the pregnancy being “pushed into position” long before any fluid escapes.

Typical pre-labor contractions in a situation like his last roughly 30 to 90 seconds and may recur irregularly over the course of several hours. They are intense enough to demand focus, often strong enough to change breathing and posture, but they come as isolated waves or loose clusters rather than the predictable rhythm of active labor. What makes them diagnostically important is not just the pain level, but the sense of a threshold being crossed: after a true pre-labor contraction, the abdomen often feels lower, tighter, and more “set” than before.

'It didn't take much to convince Sandra to show up to her husband's Lamaze class.'

"Ow! Oh. Wow. Okay...."

Peter is startled by his water breaking as he waits for the midwife to arrive.

"9... and 10. Good boy!", She purred, stroking her clit faster.

He racked the barbell and leaned on it, trembling. His swollen belly heaving as he caught his breath.

She could see his ass bulging through his shorts.

"Only 3 more sets babe... And you'd better keep that head inside until I say.", She gasped, unable to contain her excitement. She leaned back in her chair, sliding 2 fingers into herself.

"Yes, mistress...", He said, trying hard not to push.

She loved tormenting him, ever since she knocked him up, he'd been her plaything.

"Next set, babe...", She said playfully.

He nodded, un racking the barbell and tried to clench his ass as he lowered into a squat.

"Good boy... Keep going...", Her voice shook as she counted his reps. "Labor is no excuse to get lazy...". She inserted a third finger.

He lowered himself for the next set and let out a small grunt, before moaning loudly.

"Did you just cum, babe? Uh oh, that's not good... How will you finish?"

He trembled, barbell still on his shoulders. "I can't mistress... It's...." He grunted loudly and the bulge grew visibly under his shorts.

"Yes..", She whispered under her breath, frantically rubbing her clit.

She moaned loudly, cumming hard as she watched the bulge suddenly grow larger.

He cried out as the head slipped from his hole.