mousefur is ace

stop telling us that they / them, he / him, or neopronoun using lesbians are personally hurting you! stop telling he / him lesbians that they’re “trans men in denial”! stop telling butch + gnc trans lesbians they’re “really cis” for not being feminine enough for your standards! stop telling nonbinary lesbians we’re fake or “not real lesbians”! stop ignoring the history of our complicated relationships with gender!

THIS GOES ESPECIALLY FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE MEN + / OR MALE-ALIGNED!!! STOP POLICING OUR IDENTITIES!!!!!!

tl;dr: non-lesbians stop policing lesbians’ identies challenge.

Please help however you can, I’m literally begging for my life here.

I’ve been posting about being at risk of homelessness for a while, and now I’m actually homeless. Me and my cat have been drifting from spare room to spare room for about a month now while trying to apply for an apartment, and I’m starting to run out of options. I have no car and I’m low on money. I need to get out of the place that I’m at tonight, and I have nowhere to go.

I don’t loose my cat, since he’s my emotional support animal and the only thing making me feel like life is worth living right now.

https://ko-fi.com/sarahpillbug

However, I still need some more support, at least until I can get into an apartment.

Money goes towards paying for hotels, transportation, and food for me and my sweet kitty!

With y'all’s help I have successfully booked a hotel for the week! Me and my sweet boy Wallace are safe for now!

We still need some help with food and transportation, so please keep the love coming!

I’m looking into local community resources now, so hopefully I can start to get relatively stable soon.

The storage unit that I’m keeping my stuff in pushed my bill through my bank and now I’m $80 in the negative with a possible $35 overdraft fee coming if I don’t get my account to positive by the end of the day.

My mother (the only parent I keep in contact wirh) said this, in response to me asking for financial help:

So, clearly, I’m not going to be getting any help from her. My grandparents have been extraordinarily helpful, though!

The guy that was going to room with me jumped ship and has decided to move to Louisiana for personal reasons. I’m looking for a new roommate, but it’s slow and I’m nervous about meeting new people.

Currently looking at some local community services for help. Hopefully I can find something to help me.

Please help however you can! The world wants me dead, but I won’t let it kill me!

Paypal.me/sarahpillbug

Stop using the r word.

Stop insulting autistic people.

A neutrois lesbian flag!

Although this is simply a combination of the colors of the neutrois and simplified lesbian flags, I’ve added meanings to the stripes!

You just wanna dictate how people should and shouldn't feel about their gender and sexuality, no matter the expiriences they've had in the past.

I have a disconnect from womanhood due to the trauma I've experienced, especially with how much my abuser called, and still calls me, 'girl', 'daughter', and other inherently femenine words.