moonshineaesthetic

Hiya! Wow I haven’t been on tumblr in so long. Only reason I’ve opened it again is to read and answer this!

I don’t have any personal sexual experience with another another male, but I do have some advice.

Start small and USE LUBE

If you’re comfortable with your partner (and I’m assuming you are since you’re looking at anal) then start with fingering.

Communication is key because it will feel very weird and uncomfortable at first. Sometimes the body will respond and say it’s painful which is okay. With enough time by taking it slowly that will become less and less.

After that, try sharpies. Sounds weird but using a few sharpies to stretch the anus out works. Of course it does take a little bit of build up but yeah. Also remember to try and clean yourselves as best as possible. Have a shower beforehand and if possible use a douche

After all this when you’re finally ready for the real thing, please for the love of everything in this world, take it slow!!!

Anal ruptures, rips and tears, as well as prolapsing can all occur if you are not careful with that.

I don’t mean slow thrusts either, I mean slow as you begin to “come together” like that.