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This is a direct response to his post below lmao.

I wasn’t gonna post this here because I try to keep the heavy shit off my blog these days. This is probably giving him exactly what he wants too🙄 but whatever. I know I still have mutuals on his side of tumblr and you need to see this. I’m tired of this motherfucker having a cult following and strutting around the place like he’s the end all be all.

This isn’t the most cohesive thing I’ve written because it’s early, I’m tired and can’t sleep🥴 — sorry.

Big trigger warning: mentions of rape and CSA

I was molested by my oldest adoptive brother. I technically cOnSeNtEd with an “okay johnny.” But I was also 4 years old and did not understand what was about to happen.

When I was 20, I was raped by my boyfriend who was 12 years my senior. I initially consented after months of him begging me. I later revoked that consent in the middle of it which he ignored. But JD over here will say it’s my fault for giving up my submission too easily. Something he has said repeatedly about submissives in abusive relationships over the years. Ya’ll can find the posts. There’s several of them that I know of. I’m not digging through his self-righteous diatribes. I saw them once back when I thought he was a safe person and that was enough.

But the thing is, it wasn’t my fault. It wasn’t my fault that I was young, vulnerable, and trusted my boyfriend not to hurt me. It was Jesse’s fault for taking advantage of me. It was Jesse’s fault for weaponizing his age. It was Jesse’s fault for guilt tripping me into consent. It was Jesse’s fault for not stopping as I screamed my safe word repeatedly. It was Jesse’s fault. It is never the victim’s fault.

There was joint consent and my innocence was ripped from me as a toddler. There was joint consent and it ended, quite literally, in my bloody rape.

OLK is not listening, he’s being entirely flippant and smug. And he’ll block you at the slightest hint of constructive criticism because he has the thinnest skin and the biggest ego.

Bonus: here he is mocking me and the re-traumatizing situation I experienced through this site last October.

This is a man who talks out both sides of his mouth. He has plenty of posts about how a dominant offering to train a submissive is a red flag, and then gets caught up and confronted about offering to train a 20something submissive himself, and then slips this comment about how training someone takes time. People are not pets, they don’t need to be trained like a circus animal.

Where are the women close to this motherfucker’s age group featured on his page? All the women’s pics posted on his page are in their teens to 20s, most of them look barely 18, and there is never anyone over the age of 33. This dude is 54. So that post is bullshit.

This is the same person who advised and encouraged followers to read a BDSM advice book written by a known and convicted sex offender. There are posts all over tumblr about it, if you search onelittlekingdom tags, and look under top posts, you’ll see it.

What I’m saying to you is: be very careful who you listen to for advice in the BDSM community here. There are men like him who got their foothold cemented here, and women who also appear to be knowledgeable advisors that support him (you know who you are), and his advice is not safe. He says one thing, and does another. When confronted in a discussion about how he might be wrong or he might need to correct something, he blocks you.

Yep. He publicly mocked my trauma and victim blames lol. He got an anon from someone the other day telling him childplay is “sus” or something along that line. I hardly classify that as anon hate lmao — BUT I do NOT agree with or condone anon hate. He said the anon was “kink shaming.” As another survivor of CSA, I’d love for him to tell me to my face that what john did to me against my will when I was a toddler is kink. It wasn’t kink. It was child sex abuse. The anon — whether they were right for communicating it the way they did or not — is correct that childplay is sus. In fact, it’s fucking disgusting and extremely telling. Why do grown people want to have sex with their partner while their partner is dressed like and pretending to be a toddler? Grown adults shouldn’t find children arousing and if they do — they’re a fucking pedophile.

But what do I know, right?

Believe and uplift victims. Hold predators accountable and remove them from positions of power. Apologize when you hurt people. And don’t blindly idolize someone so much you’ll cheer as they publicly harm impressionable young women and victims of abuse.

Sorry for venting. I promise to be chill here for the most part lol.

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