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Ok so quick post about my experiences with bottom growth on T

Nah it doesn't hurt after awhile

Yes u have to clean under the hood

I grew like - a lot

3in last time I checked

boners

yes they're tiny and kinda cute lmao

Doesn't go fully erect, just gets solid

Yeah popping random hard ons at the worst times happens

I've never been able to afford a packer, but I use the sock method and I've never really had issues (stays above the boxers because I'm an active guy)

Hornie doesn't last forever, just while u kick out the E

Orgasms hit harder, esp if you have synesthesia or SPDs- but it does take longer to orgasm

Hoochie hole doesn't open after awhile if you're a bottom

Use the backdoor

It's not scary or overwhelming, it's just a body part

Fun fact : your moobs do actually deflate, they don't disappear but they kinda drain tbh

Ok that's all enjoy your Tea lads

Just information-sharing! Not trying to call you out or anything. Connecting with the reality of non-binary experiences is valuable, even if we're not non-binary ourselves.

I'm not sure what you mean regarding using the front hole for penetrative sex, the idea that it "doesn't open". Front hole penetration is very much still possible for trans men who have been on hormones for years. I can confirm this, as a trans man who has sex this way, and who has slept with trans men. Lubrication and extensive foreplay may be necessary if a person experiences atrophy or dryness/tightness, but that's not an issue for all of us.

If you're having some problems, it may be worth talking with your doctor to make sure everything is alright. Transitioning on Testosterone definitely does not mean anal is necessary or superior, although there certainly shouldn't be any stigma against it. If you prefer that method of sex, by all means, have fun!

different not "less" or "lower"- these are my experiences and I asked a few dudes for their input.

FTNB refers to someone who may go for more androgynous presentation or someone who cannot or doesn't want to access T for health reasons. There tends to be more of a stigma around nonbinary bodies in medical spaces so I don't want my generalizations to be applied to a community other than my own (people who identify medically outside of the binary can speak for themselves).

I have synesthesia, I've been on T for awhile, and I am a gay man. For older guys I've noticed a lot of us experience atrophy in the front door, so I actually do recommend back door activity for health and safety reasons. Also extensive lubrication and foreplay on heavily athletic dudes is physically painful and it can lead to more complications (ripping/infections/discomfort) down the road if someone is too aggressive.

If your partner is attached to a dick YOU. CAN. STILL. GET. PREGNANT. ON. T. Overstimulating the tdick can become painful very quick for ND trans men, and I've slept with a few trans mascs who didn't really respect me when I said it hurt, so I'm not surprised by the way you describe your sex-life.

"Kicking the E" refers to decreasing oestrogen, aka the hot flashes horny hungry years. This lasts for the first 2-4 years depending on the person.

My post talks about physical side effects, and "arousal" isn't inherently a sexual experience. It's more of a "oh shit why my genitals stimulated" thing.

I'm not gonna even get into why orgasms are different for T and E cause you should have talked to enough trans gals by now.

"FTNB refers to someone who may go for more androgynous presentation or someone who cannot or doesn't want to access T for health reasons."

As I said, I have known non-binary people who have transitioned on a maximum dose of Testosterone. My point was that the misinformation that all non-binary people aim for an androgynous presentation has been repeatedly rejected by non-binary people themselves. You can read more about that here:

https://aninjusticemag.com/non-binary-people-dont-have-to-look-androgynous-a463f38efb35

Non-binary also doesn’t equal someone who can’t access Testosterone for medical reasons. Whether or not someone is non-binary doesn’t depend on their medical status. Non-binary does not refer to someone who can't access Testosterone.

Extensive lubrication and foreplay doesn’t equal aggression. What I was recommending was pre-sex activities that can loosen one’s anatomy and prepare someone for penetration if they desire it. Lubrication definitely doesn’t automatically equal more tearing and pain. It's part of the reason lubrication is used at all.

I know that you can still get pregnant on Testosterone, I didn’t say anything to the contrary in my reply.

I’m sorry that previous partners haven’t respected the fact that you’ve felt overstimulated. I have never harmed my partners or refused to listen if they have said they’re uncomfortable. I don’t appreciate the insinuation that I’m a cruel or selfish lover. Just because I advocate for preparation to prepare a partner doesn't mean I'm... suggesting you hurt your partners or somehow disrespect them. Foreplay is always partner-dependent and led by what you both enjoy. What I was saying is that it's important to loosen your anatomy, rather than just escalating to immediate penetration. Getting wet and enthusiastic will serve you better than being dry and unprepared.

I'm not a chaser. I'm a trans man who was responding to your post in good faith, because I was curious about some general sexual health comments, and this is a public platform, where people can respond to the stuff we say. You're welcome to block me if that is so distressing.

I know you said "not to be offensive or anything" in your tags, but I would say the accusation that I'm a chaser, I deliberately hurt my boyfriends, and I'm ignorant... that's intended to be offensive. I have never harmed anyone. My partners are not unfortunate. That's a really fucked-up thing to say. I didn't curse at you or degrade your partners.

Idk how to even get into it but saying "wet and excited" lets me know your claims of not being a chaser are more for your own self reassurance than out of actual experience

Extensive lubrication and foreplay don't matter when it comes to literal atrophy of an organ

Also I'm talking about things on the spectrum of medical transition and it's effects, as well as how ND people experience sex. not playing identity politics with a neo-lib who thinks labels are more important in this PERSONAL medical statement. Thanks tho. I don't really care that you're trying to be nice when you're trying to pull nb experiences into a conversation about transsexualism.

as a man you have to understand the importance of nonverbal cues that someone is overstimulated or uncomfortable in penetrative situations, pillow prince

tysm 🙏🥺 srry for e-begging 😑

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