uhhh hi mommy! I sent this ask on your old blog but since that got nuked here it is again.
(re: my last ask about advice on squirting.)
I tried some of your advice and it wasn't... super great. I hadn't done much penetrative stuff before, and it took 15 minutes to get myself wet enough to get a finger in, and even then, it didn't feel super great. I was kind of expecting it to feel how it felt when I touched my clit for the first time.
I thought I felt my g-spot with the very tip of my finger, so I decided to use the non-cap end of a Sharpie as a makeshift dildo. I think I found my g-spot but it didn't feel super great? Just like a dull throbby feeling deep in my pussy.
It didn't feel good so I stopped. I tried to get myself to cum by touching my clit but that didn't work, I was completely out of the mood.
I don't like penetration and I don't like touching my nipples (my boobs are usually too tender to feel good, and pulling on my nipples just makes them ache) and I don't like the idea of anal, so I'm 100% not doing that.
Feeling discouraged. I don't feel like I can be a proper sub if I can't or don't want to service a Dom with my holes. I feel like all I can do is be told to sit and stay like a dog (follow orders, something I want to do but is it enough?)
(sorry that this downer ass ask is the first of mine on your blog lol)
hey love! Don’t beat yourself up for it❤️ you are still very much a sub even if you don’t enjoy anal, or penetration. There are other ways to be of service that doesn’t involve those things. (If you’re comfortable, you still have your mouth 🙊) but all that aside, I’m sorry it didn’t work out for you. That’s okay! You’re not into those things and your body is telling you that.
You can very much be a service sub and serve your Dom(me) by doing exactly what you said, following orders (or don’t!) you can touch them in a variety of ways, you can kiss them, lick them suck on them, etc. you can bite. If you simply want to sit and be told what to do then the right Dom(me) will enjoy it!
All of this will take some experimenting, trial and error. Maybe you’ll come to find out that you enjoy thigh riding, or tribbing, or other forms of stimulation!
There are so many ways to enjoy kink, to enjoy your body sexually, you’ll find something that works for you love ❤️
if you have any other questions or simply need to vent, you know where I’ll be ☺️
PS: my original blog is back up if you’d like to leave me asks there as well.
