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You Never Have to Apologize For…

1. Removing someone from your life that repeatedly crosses your boundaries. 

2. Being who we are, and feeling our feelings. 

3. Trusting your instincts, even if you can’t explain it. 

4. We should never apologize if we’re not truly sorry. I don’t believe in apologizing because someone ‘demands’ an apology. 

5. Quality “me” time (taking care of ourselves). 

6. Your opinion—there is no right or wrong opinion, and there’d be a lot fewer arguments if more people could just respect and appreciate different insights. 

7. Standing up for what you believe in. 

8. Living life the way we choose to, regardless of fitting in with other people’s norms. 

Dear guys (and girls, I’m not going to be exclusive here), sometimes you need to learn to take ‘no’ for an answer. Not everyone who is single wants to date, and – sorry, but someone has to say it- not everyone you meet is going to be interested in you. It’s most likely nothing personal. Even if it is, you should respect that rejection no matter how much it might hurt. If a girl isn’t interested, it’s not the end of the world.

Rejection can hurt even more when there’ve been mixed signals. Sometimes a girl’s behavior can be flirty without her even realizing it, or she may be in the market for a different type of relationship than you’re asking her for.  If you’re confused, don’t worry; plenty of others are in the same boat. For all anyone knows, the girls who don’t want a relationship may be just as confused as you are.

Luckily, I can help provide some insight. I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum between wanting a boyfriend in the worst way and never wanting to see a man ever again. I’ve been rejected, and I’ve rejected others for a variety of reasons. Nine times out of ten, it’s nothing personal and the two of us have moved on and been just fine. Sometimes, though, there’s that one person that just can’t let it go. It’s not an easy thing to reject somebody, especially for the second or third time, but the hardest part about being pursued after an attempted rejection is the lack of respect that can develop between the two parties.

Oftentimes, respect comes out of understanding. Especially if there’s been mixed messages in the past, it can be tough to understand why a girl may not want a relationship. There could be a lot gong on in her life, or she may just prefer the life of a bachelorette. Here are seven reasons why some girls don’t want a relationship.

1. They’re Prioritizing Other Aspects Of Their Life

Relationships can be time consuming and energy draining. Some ladies need their time and energy to focus on something, like her career or a passion project…