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It is never ok to make unsolicited comments on how much (or little) someone eats.

It is never ok to make unsolicited comments about someone's body.

You do not know what someone's regular diet looks like. Just because you see your friend scarf down 8 slices of pizza and a large Dr.Pepper on a Friday night does not mean they ate like that all week.

Contrary to popular belief, fat people generally didn't get fat from eating large quantities of sweets in a single sitting. If you see someone enjoying an extra slice of cake, it's probably just a special occasion and you should let them.

It's ok to be concerned about someone's health! That does not mean it is your business to get involved. That does not mean they want to talk to you about their personal and/or private issues. Unless you are a dietician or counselor they hired specifically to get involved, do not get involved.

You cannot tell what someone is dealing with just by looking at them. There are many contributing factors to weight.

Atypical anorexia can kill the sufferer before they fall out of the obese/overweight range. They have medical complications from starvation and are highly vulnerable to triggering comments about their weight/appearance/food intake (just like any other eating disordered person). You do not want to be their cause of death if you are truly concerned for their health.

Unsolicited comments about someone's body can be extremely triggering even if you deemed them positive remarks. For example:

"You have lost so much weight!", "You look much curvier!", "You're starting to look healthy!"

got termed again :/

was rawedibles and rawedible

how in the world did i get termed twice within 24 hours