⟡ miss daydream’s ⟡

❤︎₊ ⊹ 𝑒𝗏𝖾𝗋𝗒𝗍𝗂𝗆𝖾 𝗂 𝗐𝖺𝗌𝗁 𝗆𝗒 𝖿𝖺𝖼𝖾 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝖻𝗈𝖽𝗒 𝗆𝗒 𝗌𝗄𝗂𝗇 𝗀𝗅𝗂𝗌𝗍𝖾𝗇𝗌 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝖻𝖾𝖼𝗈𝗆𝖾𝗌 𝖼𝗋𝗒𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗅 𝖼𝗅𝖾𝖺𝗋

❤︎₊ ⊹ ℬ𝗎𝖻𝖻𝗅𝖾𝗌 𝗐𝖺𝗌𝗁 𝖺𝗐𝖺𝗒 𝖺𝗅𝗅 𝗂𝗇𝗌𝖾𝖼𝗎𝗋𝗂𝗍𝗂𝖾𝗌 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝖽𝗈𝗎𝖻𝗍𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗆𝖺𝗒 𝗁𝗎𝗋𝗍 𝗆𝖾

❤︎₊ ⊹ ℳ𝗈𝗂𝗌𝗍𝗎𝗋𝗂𝗓𝖾𝗋 𝗆𝖺𝗄𝖾𝗌 𝗆𝗒 𝗌𝗄𝗂𝗇 𝗀𝗅𝗈𝗐𝗒 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝖻𝖺𝖻𝗒 𝗌𝗈𝖿𝗍

❤︎₊ ⊹ ℬ𝗋𝗎𝗌𝗁𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗆𝗒 𝗁𝖺𝗂𝗋 𝗆𝖺𝗄𝖾𝗌 𝗂𝗍 𝗌𝗁𝗂𝗇𝗒, 𝗁𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗍𝗁𝗒 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝖺𝗇 𝗂𝗇𝖼𝗁 𝗅𝗈𝗇𝗀𝖾𝗋

❤︎₊ ⊹ 𝑒𝗏𝖾𝗋𝗒𝗍𝗂𝗆𝖾 𝗂 𝖺𝗉𝗉𝗅𝗒 𝗆𝖺𝗄𝖾𝗎𝗉 𝗆𝗒 𝗇𝖺𝗍𝗎𝗋𝖺𝗅 𝖻𝖾𝖺𝗎𝗍𝗒 𝖾𝗇𝗁𝖺𝗇𝖼𝖾𝗌 𝖺𝗌 (𝗆𝗎𝖼𝗁 𝖺𝗌) 𝗂 𝖽𝖾𝗌𝗂𝗋𝖾

❤︎₊ ⊹ 𝓌𝗁𝖾𝗇 𝗂 𝗌𝗉𝗋𝖺𝗒 𝗆𝗒 𝗌𝗐𝖾𝖾𝗍 𝗉𝖾𝗋𝖿𝗎𝗆𝖾𝗌 𝗂 𝗋𝖾𝖼𝖾𝗂𝗏𝖾 𝖺𝗅𝗅 𝗆𝗒 𝖽𝖾𝗌𝗂𝗋𝖾𝗌

❤︎₊ ⊹ 𝒶𝗉𝗉𝗅𝗒𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝖻𝗈𝖽𝗒 𝗀𝗅𝗂𝗍𝗍𝖾𝗋 𝗀𝗂𝗏𝖾𝗌 𝗆𝖾 𝗀𝗈𝗈𝖽 𝗅𝗎𝖼𝗄

❤︎₊ ⊹ ℳ𝗒 𝖿𝖺𝗌𝗁𝗂𝗈𝗇 𝖾𝗇𝗁𝖺𝗇𝖼𝖾𝗌 𝗆𝗒 𝗇𝖺𝗍𝗎𝗋𝖺𝗅 𝖽𝗈𝗅𝗅𝗒 𝖼𝗁𝖺𝗋𝗆 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗌𝗁𝗈𝗐𝗌 𝗈𝖿𝖿 𝗆𝗒 𝖿𝖾𝗆𝗂𝗇𝗂𝗇𝗂𝗍𝗒

❤︎₊ ⊹ 𝓌𝖾𝖺𝗋𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝖺 𝖻𝗈𝗐 𝗂𝗇 𝗆𝗒 𝗁𝖺𝗂𝗋 𝗅𝖾𝗍𝗌 𝗆𝖾 𝗌𝗁𝗂𝖿𝗍 𝗐𝗁𝖾𝗇𝖾𝗏𝖾𝗋 𝗂 𝗐𝖺𝗇𝗍

❤︎₊ ⊹ 𝓌𝖾𝖺𝗋𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗁𝖾𝖾𝗅𝗌 𝗆𝖾𝖺𝗇𝗌 𝗆𝗒 𝖽𝖺𝗒 𝗂𝗌 𝗀𝗈𝗇𝗇𝖺 𝖻𝖾 𝗉𝖾𝗋𝖿𝖾𝖼𝗍

❤︎₊ ⊹ 𝒹𝗋𝗂𝗇𝗄𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗆𝖺𝗍𝖼𝗁𝖺𝗌 𝗈𝗋 𝗅𝖺𝗍𝗍𝖾𝗌 𝗆𝖺𝗄𝖾𝗌 𝗆𝖾 𝗁𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗍𝗁𝗒

ive been harassed by a moron (again) just cause i tried to make them realize that indeed they don't lack anything, and I can't stay silent about it I MUST address. No one lacks anything. You can manifest in EVERY AND EACH mindset & circumstance.

Are you neurodivergent? You can manifest perfectly fine.

You find void state difficult? You can manifest by just assuming and being persistent.

You have x y z syndrome? Not an excuse to not being able to manifest.

YOU create your reality and your environment. Nothing is an "excuse". I manifested MANY things while being severely depressed, garbage mindset, extremely abusive environment & parents. No one is inferior or superior there's NO hierarchy.

Manifesting isn't something you "can't succeed" or something that stops. Even if you're unaware, you create your reality based on your most dominant and subconscious assumptions/ beliefs. If your desires don't appear in physicality that means you just haven't made it your main assumption, that's perfectly fine. You can keep persisting, count as you already have it.

"Ohh but I have this I have that! I can't manifest gnagnagna!!" You can. And believe me, I'm doing a favor by motivating you, making you realize you're no less than anyone in this community.

I got called "god complexed", "egoistical" for saying these, which is way funnier cause some people in this community fucking LOOVVESS to bask in the victim complex. YOU ARE NOT A FUCKING VICTIM. I'm trying to be nice and decent but people fucking irritate me OH SO MUCH. I'm not gonna tell:

"Oh honey, I'm so sorry. You have x syndrome so you can't manifest. You lack the ability, you're doomed. Just beg someone to shift for u 🥺 " that's what you wanna hear? 😃 That'll make you feel better?

I can't fucking believe people THAT DENSE exist and I'm getting harassed cause I refuse to validate their pity party.

Look, you might live hard times manifesting, staying persistent, or believing it. Doubts might occur, these are NORMAL! I myself have a very, very doubtful and kinda paranoid mind, and I completely understand you. I, as a pretty abused person, can manifest, SO DO YOU! OMG One thing you can't deny is that you still can manifest/ shift. No one and nothing holds you back!!!

I don't fucking want illiterate people in my blog who'll throw "ableist ugh!" or "errrm you haven't mentioned my xyz syndrome tho! ☝🏻🤓" card on me cause again, I refuse to acknowledge their poor self pity excuse. Do y'all even know what ableist means??? Omg don't turn serious terms into buzzwords. It's so fucking bizarre that some people are SO eager to belittle themselves.

You'll fucking condemn people who'll tell you "you are the only creator of your reality and realize that, you're not a victim, we are all just awarenesses, you can manifest yourself out of this situation I believe in you." 😭 Got to be fucking kidding me.

Get OUT of your self pitying paradox. Realize it's within you, decide, take the lead. Apply what you learn, remember there're no rules or conditions in manifesting, other than staying persistent on your decision, ANY person can manifest their desires. Don't bother harassing me about how incapable you are of manifesting cause x y z. I really can't deal w y'all unbearable beings anymore, believe what you want ig

once you stop feeding it, your self-concept shifts — after that, leveling up is inevitable ✧

the 3d is not something you need to fight. it merely mirrors your 4d.

your ego is not something you need to fight. you can ignore whatever it tries to tell you, because it holds no power unless you give it power.

your thoughts and doubts are not something you need to fight. they do not choose for you unless you allow it, so acknowledge them and let them pass.

your feelings and worries are not something you need to fight. they are part of human experience and don't mean shit unless you assume they do. allow yourself to feel, don't dwell on it, and move on.

your circumstances are not something you need to fight. as a conscious creator you have the power to change them, unless you tell yourself that you are a victim.

realise that there is nothing you need to fight or struggle against, because you are the limitless operant power and are in charge of everything you experience. you are in control.

do not give any importance to what does not please you, because what does not please you is irrelevant. focus your attention on what you want more of.

This was practically how I felt when I was 18 years old...

MY REALITY CRUMBLED. My circumstances changed so much, people changed so much, that I didn't even realise / was stuck in an endless cycle of procrastination, anxiety, and fear.

Most heartbreakingly, I was afraid of the past I seemed to long for so dearly every single day. Every time I felt the smallest bit of longing, it came attached to a past I had romanticised out of starvation for what I actually needed.

I'd spent years settling - uncomfortably.

Losing those things felt like the end of the world cause it felt like losing my identity.

WHAT I DIDN'T KNOW THEN BUT I KNOW NOW: everything was meant to crumble because nobody was holding it with care or intention.

• I was naive enough to think that wanting something hard enough would be enough not to lose it. That's desperation and attachment.

Identity. Friends. Opportunities. Family...

None of the things I'd grown to call "normal" were ever meant for me in the way I was holding them - because / was holding on to the point of bleeding.

• LETTING GO, as painful as it was, made me realise I didn't really have anything at all.

We shouldn't hold on to things. We shouldn't die for them, because then we forget to experience life altogether.

WHAT'S ATTACHMENT IF NOT A LIMITING BELIEF??

WHAT'S LONGING IF NOT THE ILLUSION OF LACK OF WHAT WE TRULY ARE AND NEED?

WHAT'S THE POINT of the illusionary reassurance that you might have everything a person could ever want in a lifetime, if you've never felt comfortable with it?

- I knew everything was polished for a reason. / knew it couldn't last - and I still decided to hold on tightly until my hands and chest burned.

⭐️I didn't know then what I know now. But the decision to let go made me realise I never needed those things to begin with.

GRIEVING the lose of the illusion is strange like that sometimes.

🔹You get scared of losing something you think you love - until you realise the illusion carved into you was never coming from need.

I didn't need those things...

but I BELIEVED AND ASSUMED I did !!!

It took me a long time to admit it without it resentment.

Letting go of everything MEANT letting go of the person / assumed / was.

- But who was I without that false identity?

I DIDN'T KNOW CAUSE I HADN'T LET MYSELF.

And I dare to speak now like I know it all, but the truth is, I might never know and I've made peace with it cause for the the past five years, l've only bloomed more and more and I have the confidence and security that I will always be blooming.

Shrinking or wavering no longer align with who I am TODAY

I used to fit into a box, and everything people thought they knew about me haunted me - like / owed them the idea of who / was and what / was capable of being.

Eventually, I realised I was deeply unhappy, living chained to a life I didn't even want.

So I let go...

I'VE REPROGRAMMED my brain a thousand times to get where I am now but my self-concept is SOLID.

I changed my self-concept again and again, until I realised that I wasn't becoming someone new - I was letting go of what had NEVER served me, so the things that actually feel good could finally fit into my life.

The memory of who I was and what I used to have feels like an old couch hidden in the basement.

- I was afraid to throw it away - until I realised / was never meant to keep the belief of who I had been in order to get what / wanted.

🔹Guilt & Trepidation, and feeling trapped and haunted... Until I released attachment and fear - and suddenly there were no more limiting beliefs, no more procrastination, no more settling.

Because what do you do when you know you want it all, but your self-concept won't let you?

NOTHING??

YOU either stay stuck in that loop forever - or you rip yourself apart and become the version of you that finally allows yourself to receive it all.

YOU decide to make that decision until the itch of your desires is too big for you to avoid it anymore.

It happens unconsciously at first. The body realises something but your self-concept hesitates until you wake up one day, realising YOU have a stubborn desire that had grown groots inside you and it's because that thing you want??? Your soul recognises it as yours but you haven't acknowledged yet! And you just haven't allowed yourself to claim it yet.

That's the moment the shift becomes inevitable.

-Not because you forced yourself to "change."

-Not because you perfected your affirmations.

ACTUALLY, because your nervous system finally stops resisting the truth of who you are becoming!

⭐️Desire IS NOT random

⭐️It's not a tease.

⭐️It's not cruelty from the universe !

It's memory !!!!!

🔸It's the part of you that already knows what fits you, what feels like home, what belongs in your reality.

🔸And the longer you try to shrink yourself to match an old self-concept, the louder that desire becomes.

This is why self-concept doesn't change through discipline.

⭐️It changes through honesty⭐️

The moment you stop negotiating with the version of you that learned how to survive - and start letting yourself be the version of you that's allowed to receive.

You don't "become worthy. You remember you never weren't.

WORTHINESS ISN'T CREATED BY EFFORT - it's uncovered by release✨

The world doesn't respond to effort - it responds to the identity you finally stop resisting.

1. Worthiness isn't something you build - it's something you unlearn you doubted.

When we talk about "becoming worthy," we usually mean:

• I'll be worthy when I heal enough.

• I'll be worthy when I'm confident enough.

• I'll be worthy when I stop being messy.

• I'll be worthy when I change my self-concept perfectly.

BY THAT LOGIC YOU'RE ASSUMING THAT YOU DON'T FEEL WORTHY - That's core distortion.

You weren't born feeling unworthy.

You learned it. From conditioning, trauma, comparison, rejection, survival patterns.

So the work isn't adding worth. It's removing the layers that taught you to question it.

2. Self-concept shifts when you stop trying to earn permission to exist fully

When you're in "becoming worthy" mode, you move like:

• auditioning for life

• negotiating with desire

• proving yourself to the universe

• waiting to be ready

When you're in "remembering worth" mode, you move like:

⭐️allowing

⭐️choosing

⭐️claiming

⭐️receiving

3. Desire shows you what you already match energetically

🌟If you were truly "unworthy" of something, it wouldn't fit you internally.

🌟You wouldn't recognise yourself in it.

🌟You wouldn't ache for it in a familiar way.

THE ACHE IS FAMILIARITY. NOT LACK.

It's resonance, not punishment.

So when you remember you were never unworthy, your self-concept softens from:

"One day I'll deserve this life"

to

"Of course this life fits me - I just stopped allowing it."

4. Practically: how this changes your LOA process

This shift changes how you manifest:

Instead of:

"How do I fix myself to deserve this?"

YOU SHOULD ASK:

"What part of me still thinks I need to earn permission?"

Instead of:

"I'll believe when I see it"

YOU GO:

"I move like this is normal for me."

The work isn't becoming worthy of the life you want — it's letting go of the identity that learned to believe you weren't

HOPE I WAS OF HELP MY ANGELS.

BE SAFE ILYYYSM💗

all this time, people gaslighting you to adjust *your own emotion* based on whatever happened in your "reality".

i know it's not easy to changed the mindset you've been living all this years. but why don't you think backwards?

let's say, you probably think you are "broke" i didn't even believe in saying that ugh, because your bank account say so. but that's not true, at least in the law of assumption, because you still waiting for the 3d to change, IT'S NOT GONNA CHANGE UNTIL YOU CHANGE YOUR ASSUMPTION. that's like waiting for your shadow to change when you don't even move.

i mean if you wanna be "realistic" who am i gonna say no?

so, if you want this to work. think like this instead.

YOU think that YOU'RE insanely abundance with money, you never lack any money, your money will always comeback triple everytime you treat yourself, so the 3d is treating you like you are rich, any good making money opportunity will come through you, people gonna give you lots of money all the time, you're making bank everytime you blink, exc.

the 3d doesn't dictate your circumstances, YOUR assumption DO.

the 3d is gonna rearrange itself to match YOUR OWN assumption.

so STOP worrying about the HOW and start BEING.

𐙚 ̊⟡˖ 𝐼 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑘 𝑤𝑒 𝑛𝑒𝑒𝑑 𝑡𝑜 𝑔𝑜 𝑑𝑒𝑒𝑝𝑒𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑡𝑖𝑚𝑒…. 𝑏𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝑠𝑢𝑟𝑓𝑎𝑐𝑒-𝑙𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑙 𝑎𝑑𝑣𝑖𝑐𝑒 𝑖𝑠 𝑐𝑢𝑡𝑒… 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝑖𝑡 𝑑𝑜𝑒𝑠𝑛’𝑡 𝑎𝑐𝑡𝑢𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑦𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑖’𝑚 𝑎𝑏𝑜𝑢𝑡 𝑡𝑜 𝑒𝑥𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑖𝑛 — 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑖𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑡 𝑝𝑒𝑜𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙… 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝑑𝑜𝑛’𝑡 𝑓𝑢𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑢𝑛𝑑𝑒𝑟𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑛𝑑.

𝐋𝐞𝐭’𝐬 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐀𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐇𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐝

…at some point— you felt it✨

not imagined it in a “this would be nice” way…

you experienced it 🍓

it clicked 🧁

your body relaxed 🍓

your mind went quiet 🧁

you weren’t chasing anymore 🍓

for a second… you were just someone who already had it.

𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐖𝐚𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐅𝐚𝐤𝐞

____⭐️ this is important! ⭐️_____

—because a lot of people dismiss that moment like:

“oh it was just me being delusional”

“it wasn’t real”

“i was just imagining things”

NO !! WHAT YOU FELT WAS ALIGNMENT !!

Your thoughts, your emotions, and your sense of self were finally saying the same thing and your body recognized it.

that’s why it felt:

⭑ calm 🧘🏻‍♀️

⭑ natural 🫧

⭑ almost too easy 🧸

───୨ৎ─── ───୨ৎ─── ───୨ৎ───

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐡𝐢𝐟𝐭 𝐍𝐨𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐍𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬

When that happens, something subtle changes:

⭑𓂃 you stop trying.

⭑𓂃 you stop performing.

⭑𓂃 you stop micromanaging every thought.

YOU JUST EXIST DIFFERENTLY 🌟

And for a moment — you’re not the person who wants it anymore — you’re the person who has it!

𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈𝐭 𝐁𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤𝐬 🍓

Because right after that moment… you go and look.

⭑𓂃 you check.

⭑𓂃 you analyze.

⭑𓂃 you wait for confirmation.

and reality still looks the same… nothing has moved yet.

…and Your Brain Goes 💭

— “see? nothing changed 🤔.”

… and just like that—you disconnect from the version of you that had it !

𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐈𝐬 𝐓𝐡𝐞 “𝐒𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞” 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐓𝐚𝐥𝐤𝐬 𝐀𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭

That weird phase where:

⭑𓂃 nothing is happening

⭑𓂃 nothing is confirming

⭑𓂃 nothing is proving you right

it was feels empty… like everything just… stopped.

but it didn’t!!!

Our brain is used to getting instant dopamine, instant validation, signs, evidence… so of course you’d feel disappointed or upset when no getting instant results. You just don’t have immediate feedback and your brain feels like throwing everything away.

❕⭐️ If you find yourself needing constant reassurance you’re unconsciously trying to seek for control, therefore that means you’re not fully grounded and trusting the process.

When this happens you’ll panic and it tries to pull you back into what feels familiar.

𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐅𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐚𝐫? 🍓

Your old identity.

The old self-concept.

the one that:

⭑𓂃 doubts

⭑𓂃 checks

⭑𓂃 overthinks

⭑𓂃 expects things to go wrong

So you start slipping not all at once… SUBTLY.

you go from:

⭐️ “i have it” to “i think i have it”.

⭐️“what if i don’t?” to “maybe it’s not working”.

And without even realizing it… YOU’RE BACK. 𝐍𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐄𝐱𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐝 !?

This is the part that might annoy you a little: nothing outside of you needed to change yet.

the only thing that shifted— was you.

…and when you shift back?

your reality reflects that version again not because something is against you but because that’s the version you’re being.

𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐈𝐬 𝐖𝐡𝐲 “𝐓𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐇𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐞𝐫” 𝐃𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤

Because the issue isn’t effort. It’s inconsistency.

⭐️ You keep touching the version of you that has it… and then leaving ⭐️.

So… What Should You Actually Do?

not force.

not obsess.

not overcorrect every thought.

✨JUST THIS ✨:

NOTICE WHEN you’ve already shifted.

And instead of questioning it… stay there.

𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐈𝐟 𝐍𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐀𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐈𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐲. SPECIALLY THEN.

❕⭐️ Because that gap? That silence? That “what is happening” phase? That’s where the decision actually matters.

Let’s Be Honest For a Second… you’ve felt it before…

That moment where EVERYTHING inside you went:

“oh,shit… this is it ?!”

and instead of trusting it— you looked around for proof.

And That’s The Pattern 🤷🏼‍♀️

not that you “can’t manifest”

but that you: feel → doubt → check → undo

STOP CHECKING THE 3D FOR EVIDENCE!! — angel numbers, a sign from god, synchronicities… ALL OF THAT IS BS.

STOP ALIGNING WITH THE SENSE OF DESPERATION !!

DESPERATION = WANT = YOU DON’T HAVE IT YET.

SHUT THE HELL UP. PERSIST IT’S DONE AND IS ABOUT TO FIND YOUU.

YOU WAVER? STOP COMPLAINING —PERSIST.

IF YOU KEEP COMPLAINING THAT IT HASN’T FOUND YOU YET, YOU’RE GONNA AUTOMATICALLY FEEL AT DISADVANTAGE.

JUST.

PERSIST IT’S DONE.

& REPEAT.

YOU DON’T NEED TO SAY IT LOUDER… YOU NEED TO FEEL IT SOFTER !!!!

𝑇𝘩𝑎𝑡’𝑠 𝑡𝘩𝑒 𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑡 𝑛𝑜 𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑒𝑥𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑖𝑛𝑠… 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑜𝑓 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑡𝑟𝑦𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 “𝑔𝑒𝑡 𝑖𝑡 𝑟𝑖𝑔𝘩𝑡”… 𖤓

Repeating affirmations.

Looping the same sentences.

Trying to convince your mind of something your body doesn’t recognize yet.

“I’m abundant.”

“I’m confident.”

“I’m desired.”

𝐴𝑛𝑑 𝑦𝑒𝑡… 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑡𝘩𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑖𝑛 𝑌𝑂𝑈 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙𝑠 𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑠𝑒…

UNCOMFORTABLE.

𝐴𝑙𝑚𝑜𝑠𝑡 𝑙𝑖𝑘𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢’𝑟𝑒 𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑓𝑜𝑟𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑎 𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑠𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑜𝑓 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑑𝑜𝑛’𝑡 𝑓𝑢𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑏𝑒𝑙𝑖𝑒𝑣𝑒 𝑖𝑛.

That doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong! ⭐️

➡️ It means you’re forcing something your system isn’t ready to hold yet.

𝐀𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐢𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐝 !!!!

It’s not frantic repetition.

It’s not pressure.

It’s not YOU trying to override your own thoughts.

…alignment is quiet, actually.

𝐼𝑡’𝑠 𝑡𝘩𝑒 𝑚𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑡𝘩𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙𝑠… 𝑎 𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑡𝑙𝑒 𝑚𝑜𝑟𝑒 𝑛𝑎𝑡𝑢𝑟𝑎𝑙 𝑡𝘩𝑎𝑛 𝑖𝑡 𝑑𝑖𝑑 𝑦𝑒𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑑𝑎𝑦.

🌟 A little less heavy.

🌟 A little less forced.

𝐼𝑡’𝑠 𝑡𝘩𝑒 𝑚𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑡𝘩𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙𝑠… 𝑎 𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑡𝑙𝑒 𝑚𝑜𝑟𝑒 𝑛𝑎𝑡𝑢𝑟𝑎𝑙 𝑡𝘩𝑎𝑛 𝑖𝑡 𝑑𝑖𝑑 𝑦𝑒𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑑𝑎𝑦.

They struggle with trying to become someone overnight.

- FROM:

“I don’t feel chosen”

- TO:

“I’m the most desired person alive.”

- FROM:

“I’m overwhelmed”

- TO:

“Everything is perfect for me.”

AND YOUR MIND PAUSES BECAUSE YOUR MIND KNOWS!

𝑇𝘩𝑎𝑡 𝑔𝑎𝑝 𝑖𝑠 𝑡𝑜𝑜 𝑏𝑖𝑔… 𝑆𝑜 𝑖𝑛𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑎𝑑 𝑜𝑓 𝑠𝑜𝑓𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑖𝑛𝑡𝑜 𝑎 𝑛𝑒𝑤 𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑡𝑒…

You push harder.

You repeat it more.

You say it louder.

You try to “fix” the feeling.

But you don’t need to overpower it 💬

YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND IT !!!

𝐵𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝑎𝑓𝑓𝑖𝑟𝑚𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑠 𝑤𝑒𝑟𝑒 𝑛𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑚𝑒𝑎𝑛𝑡 𝑡𝑜 𝑓𝑜𝑟𝑐𝑒 𝑏𝑒𝑙𝑖𝑒𝑓.

They’re meant to build it 🌟

Becoming always comes before having!!!! always.

𝑌𝑜𝑢 𝑑𝑜𝑛’𝑡 𝑏𝑒𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑐𝑜𝑛𝑓𝑖𝑑𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑏𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑠𝑎𝑖𝑑 “𝐼’𝑚 𝑐𝑜𝑛𝑓𝑖𝑑𝑒𝑛𝑡” 𝑒𝑛𝑜𝑢𝑔𝘩 𝑡𝑖𝑚𝑒𝑠.

🧁 YOU BECOME CONFIDENT when it starts to feel safe to show up differently.

𝑌𝑜𝑢 𝑑𝑜𝑛’𝑡 𝑏𝑒𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑎𝑏𝑢𝑛𝑑𝑎𝑛𝑡 𝑏𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑑𝑒𝑐𝑙𝑎𝑟𝑒𝑑 𝑖𝑡.

🧁 YOU BECOME ABUNDANT when your relationship with receiving, holding, and trusting begins to shift.

So what does that actually look like ? 💭

— It looks softer than people expect🤩

IF LOVE FEELS OVERWHELMING, UNCERTAIN, OR CONSUMING… 💭

INSTEAD OF:

🔸“I’m the most desired person alive”

TRY:

🔸“I’m learning to feel safe in connection.”

🔸“I can experience closeness without losing myself.”

🔸“I don’t need to chase to be valued.”

IF MONEY FEELS STRESSFUL OR UNSTABLE….💭

INSTEAD OF:

🔸“I’m rich. Money flows to me endlessly.”

TRY:

🔸“I’m becoming more comfortable handling money.”

🔸“Money can come and return in ways I don’t need to control.”

🔸“I trust myself to figure things out.”

IF CONFIDENCE FEELS OUT OF REACH…

NSTEAD OF:

🔸“I’m the most confident version of myself”

TRY:

🔸“I’m starting to see myself differently.”

🔸“I’m allowed to take up space.”

🔸“I don’t need to be perfect to be enough.”

IF YOU’RE STUDYING, WORKING OR BUILDING SOMETHING… 🛠️

INSTEAD OF:

🔸“Everything is easy for me”

TRY:

🔸“I can take this step by step.”

🔸“I’m capable of understanding more than I think.”

🔸“I don’t need to rush—I just need to stay present.”

Do you feel the difference?

These DON’T TRY to convince you. They meet you 🫵🏻✨And that’s where everything shifts…

Not when you force yourself into the end result… but when you allow yourself to become someone who can hold it.🌟

𝐵𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒 ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑒’𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑡𝑟𝑢𝑡ℎ 𝑚𝑜𝑠𝑡 𝑝𝑒𝑜𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑎𝑣𝑜𝑖𝑑:

•If something feels completely unnatural to you, your system will resist it.

…not because it’s impossible

⭐️ But because it doesn’t feel like home yet

SO INSTEAD OF ASKING:

🔸“How do I get this?”

START ASKING YOURSELF:

🔸“Who do I need to become to feel safe having this?”

And take your time with that answer

You don’t need to rush into a version of yourself that doesn’t feel like you.

You’re allowed to grow into it❕

•from forcing… to flowing 🫧

•from convincing… to becoming 🦋

•from saying it louder… to finally feeling it softer✨