What's your opinion on venus square the nodes in synastry/composite? Me and this guy both have our venus placements square each other's north nodes, plus an exact square in the composite chart. I was really surprised when I finally looked at our charts!
in synastry i would say it's a sign you're not "soul mates" like in the sense of having known each other "before" or "in every life" - which is kind of like, so what. it could also mean that you just don't have much to do with each other's big fate lines in life. for the composite it's more like this relationship's trajectory might be messy/not very glamorous and you can't force it to go the way you want it to go.
with all that said i should also point out that of course the signs and houses involved would also be a factor.
and i will also say it isn't really a sign of incompatibility at all, it's just not a chart where i would be like "whoa, it's meant to be." i likewise wouldn't go "whoa, it's so NOT meant to be" lol





















