Gh0stBlud

I’m going to say it again: the concept of nonsharing really isn’t that hard to understand. Some people choose not to share their F/Os because it makes them uncomfortable and that’s valid. Why shame someone for being open about their boundaries? Would you rather they lie about how they feel and quietly suffer, just to keep others happy? It’s much healthier to let people exist within their comfort zones.

Now, how someone handles being a nonsharer is a separate issue. There’s a big difference between respectfully enforcing a boundary and acting out in toxic ways like spreading misinformation about doubles, making possessive or snide remarks, or encouraging mass blocking someone just because they share the same F/O. That kind of behavior is a problem, but it’s a problem with that person, not with the concept of nonsharing itself.

Being nonsharing should have never been seen as an issue to begin with. The real problem lies with those who abuse it and create unnecessary drama. I’ve met plenty of nonsharers who simply block, move on, and stay respectful. And I’ve also seen the kind of nonsharers who give the rest a bad name.

At the end of the day, hating an entire group for the actions of a few is frankly quite stupid and close minded. I fully support nonsharers and their reasons, but I will never support those who weaponize it to be cruel. There’s a difference between having boundaries and being a jerk.

Hi i disapeared for like a year!!! If you dont remember my tag maybe you recognise some of my avpol fanart <3

something about trying to fill shoes that are far too big