Mistar zinnaa

maybe mediocrity isn’t wrong. maybe you don’t need to be the best at everything you do. maybe you don’t need to be the best at anything you do. it’s ok to simply do things because you enjoy doing them. its ok to not want to advance in your job. nothing has to be a competition. you don’t need to be better than anyone. you can do things just because they’re fun. you don’t need to read up on the history, and know everything about it. its ok to just exist. its ok.

If you have experienced negative emotions or thoughts today and your day has not really improved, no matter how much you distracted your mind, I just want you to know that I am so proud of you for trying this hard. No matter what you are facing, I hope you can go to bed early tonight, have a good rest and start tomorrow with a lighter heart. The world is ready for your healing, my love. I hope you are, too.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be as far away from people who purposely don’t want to understand you and respect you, and are committed to judging you as harshly as they can.

GOOD MORNING! DON'T FORGET TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!

we’ll never know unless we try <3

I am worthy of feeling my feelings. I get to ask question and say if something is making me uncomfortable. I can cry and be angry. I can be disappointed in people that I love. I can choose to forgive someone even if they have hurt or disappointed me but I also can choose not to.

Just because there are things you could do better at or improve overall does not mean you don’t deserve to be proud of yourself for the things you’re doing well, or the progress you’ve made. 

Having a personality disorder does not make someone an abusive person. Being abusive makes someone an abusive person.

They don’t stop caring about you just because they aren’t talking to you right now for whatever reason. People may go silent for any number of reasons and it doesn’t mean you aren’t cared for.

Your struggles are something you go through but they don’t define who you are. You are so much more than the struggles you deal with.

There are people you haven’t even met yet who will love you. There are friendships you have yet to form. There are fun memories you have yet to create. There is so much good stuff you haven’t got to experience yet. 

Your personality disorder does not make you unlovable.

Messing up and falling back into a behaviour or thought pattern you’re working to change does not erase the progress you’ve made. It doesn’t make you a failure. Please don’t beat yourself up over it.