When you meet me you think I’m quiet, when you talk to me you wish I was quiet, when you know me you get scared when I’m quiet.

Courage: Cedar, Musk, Rose Geranium.

Fertility: Musk, Vervain.

Friendships: Stephanotis, Sweetpea.

Happiness: Apple Blossom, Sweetpea, Tuberose.

Harmony: Basil, Gardenia, Lilac, Narcissus.

Healing: Carnation, Eucalyptus, Gardenia, Lotus, Myrrh, Narcissus, Rosemary, Sandalwood, Violet.

Hex-breaking: Bergamot, Myrrh, Rose Geranium, Rosemary, Rue, Vetivert.

Love: Clove, Gardenia, Jasmine, Orris, Plumeria, Rose, Sweetpea.

Luck: Cinnamon, Cypress, Lotus.

Lust: Cinnamon, Clove, Musk, Vanilla.

Magnetic—to Attract Men: Ambergris, Ginger, Gardenia, Jasmine, Lavender, Musk, Neroli, Tonka.

Magnetic—to Attract Women: Bay, Civet, Musk, Patchouly, Stephanotis, Vetivert, Violet.

Meditation: Acacia, Hyacinth, Jasmine, Magnolia, Myrrh, Nutmeg.

Mental Powers: Honeysuckle, Lilac, Rosemary.

Money: Almond, Bayberry, Bergamot, Honeysuckle, Mint, Patchouly, Pine, Vervain.

Peace: Benzoin, Cumin, Gardenia, Hyacinth, Magnolia, Rose, Tuberose.

Power: Carnation, Rosemary, Vanilla.

Protection: Cypress, Myrrh, Patchouly, Rose Geranium, Rosemary, Rue, Violet, Wisteria.

Psychic Powers: Acacia, Anise, Cassia, Heliotrope, Lemongrass, Lilac, Mimosa, Nutmeg, Sandalwood, Tuberose.

Purification: Acacia, Cinnamon, Clove, Frankincense, Jasmine, Lavender, Myrrh, Olive, Sandalwood.

Sleep: Lavender, Narcissus.

Spirituality: Heliotrope, Lotus, Magnolia, Sandalwood.

They are so used to be everyone else’s rock, everyone else’s crying shoulder, everyone else’s human to turn to, that when it comes to their own pain, they simply bottle it up and put it away. They cry alone, they hurt alone, they never tell anyone about their nightmares or how cruel life is really being because if they do, they’re afraid people will not see them as strong anymore. They are afraid of crumbling in front of anyone else because they do not want to seem weak and broken.

The strongest ones of us need support more than anything in the world because of being strong so very long that when they fall apart, it is not just a human falling to pieces and recovering, it is an avalanche, a volcanic eruption, the amount of pain that you could not imagine possible for a human to hold within themselves. The strongest people, the toughest ones, disguise their tears behind smiles and avert their eyes when in pain once too often.

This is why it is so important to ask “Are you okay?” more than once sometimes, especially from someone who is that strong. This is why it is important to allow our hearts to understand what our minds cannot when we see someone’s smile change, or their eyes show something their demeanor cannot.

The strongest ones of us need support the most. Because when the time comes to rely on someone they don’t know how, they don’t know how to reach out for a hand as they are so used to being the rock for everyone else that hurts.

The longer a man goes without orgasm, the greater lengths he will go to in order to achieve one. In other words, a teased man will do whatever his Woman wishes.

1. Denial of orgasm should be used as punishment,  fulfillment of orgasm as reward. 2. The husband should never under any circumstances masturbate, unless instructed to do so by his Wife . 3. The husband should never be permitted to release unless the Wife has already done so. 4. The Wife should never perform oral sex on the husband. 5. The husband should never be made to feel equal to the Wife when it comes to sexual satisfaction. why intercourse should be eschewed for cunnilingus and strap-on sex. 6. Should the Wife desire intercourse, the husband should never be permitted to orgasm. 7. Semen should be disposed of in a way that humiliates the husband (i.e., oral consumption). 8. The Wife should not touch the husband below the belt if at all possible…