For the sake of enjoyment

Regular candles will work, but keep in mind they burn at a higher temperature and will hurt more so consider your pain tolerance when making the decision. If you do get regular candles, stick to white non-scented.

I respect people’s decisions to identify or not identify themselves as they wish. The feminist movement, like all social movements, has flaws. Feminism is not perfect, by far, and if certain people don’t wish to identify within feminism for those reasons, that’s their choice. Women of color, trans folks, and people of low socioeconomic status have all been rejected from the movement at one point due to certain influences.

While I believe feminism is evolving into a better, stronger, and more intersectional movement, I will not deny the flaws it has, nor will I judge others for not calling themselves feminists due to just reasoning.

What I don’t tolerate is generalized outlash towards all feminists due to certain sub-groups’ beliefs, regardless of my disagreement of these beliefs.